Dad is refusing to give my daughter back

Confusednfrightened

Candy53 wrote: »

OP, I thought you said the nursery was going to let you know if your husband took your child in? Have you rang them to see?

Candy

He was never my husband, and i now have my daughter back,

Thank you so much for everyones replies, she was dropped off at 12.20 by the girlfriend who "needed to go out"

Off to the solicitors now, with my daughter to get something sorted out.

clearingout

phew! they'd obviously had a bit of a re-think.

See a solicitor and make sure you stop this happening again.

alwaysonthego_2

Confusednfrightened wrote: »

He was never my husband, and i now have my daughter back,

Thank you so much for everyones replies, she was dropped off at 12.20 by the girlfriend who "needed to go out"

Off to the solicitors now, with my daughter to get something sorted out.

Phew! Though you may need to get advice to ensure he can't do it again as there is nothing stopping him picking her up from nursery and doing the same again. The GF doesn't seem too bothered about your DD.

Desperado99

That's a big relief, OP.

Hope you get it sorted

Threebabes

Im so pleased you got her back. What a complete and utter idiot he is doing that to you and to her your daughter. Its disgraceful.

Confusednfrightened

clearingout wrote: »

phew! they'd obviously had a bit of a re-think.

See a solicitor and make sure you stop this happening again.

Not sure about a rethink as he is or should be at work, either way i dont care shes home

solicitors is at 2 but untill this is sorted i have arranged to work from home with one day in work, ( i love my boss)

vax2002

step parents have a built in natural instinct to reject other peoples children.
It is a natural instinct in humans from birth to ensure our genes are passed on and not the genes of others children.
Trust me, the idea of his new bird bringing up your child wont last long at all, she wont be able to control the animal within and it will end in one almighty fall out.
This bloke is trying to play with your head.
Play him at his own game.

EDITED : as I type it resolved, did not take the animal inside long to show its head did it.

Mojisola

vax2002 wrote: »

step parents have a built in natural instinct to reject other peoples children.
It is a natural instinct in humans from birth to ensure our genes are passed on and not the genes of others children.
Trust me, the idea of his new bird bringing up your child wont last long at all, she wont be able to control the animal within and it will end in one almighty fall out.
This bloke is trying to play with your head.
Play him at his own game.

EDITED : as I type it resolved, did not take the animal inside long to show its head did it.

You could give the new girlfriend the benefit of the doubt - she might have brought the child back because she thinks the father was wrong.

Candy53

Confusednfrightened wrote: »

He was never my husband, and i now have my daughter back,

Thank you so much for everyones replies, she was dropped off at 12.20 by the girlfriend who "needed to go out"

Off to the solicitors now, with my daughter to get something sorted out.

Sorry,

Pleased you've got your child home safe and sound anyway.

Candy

Toomuchdebt

Glad she's home now