Angry..do you see this as ok?

MeganKate

determined_new_ms wrote: »

megan kate ur not saying anything I don't want to hear, makes no odds to me. What I find objectionsl is u continue to propound ur opinion as if its truth, yes it is ur truth based on ur life experiences nd the people u have come into contact with. My opinion is also true. U r not more enlightened than me because because u watch !!!!!!. I could go around saying as u grow up nd experience life more u will become enlighted asi did. But that would be utter tosh! I am very happy that I have the kind of relationship where I can openly discuss my needs with my partner. Relationsip r like politics I fibd I givein some areas to get other things

I do not think I am more enlightened 'because I watch !!!!!!', but I am afraid to say that I think I am a little more enlightened than you about the ways of the world if you genuinly think that if you and you OH 'agree' that he wont watch !!!!!!, even though he wants to, that he wont.

Of course that is merely my opinion

Lotus-eater

Gingham_R wrote: »

This may sound like semantics, but I don't believe it is. People ARE real when they're acting and they are not acting when they are having sex. They are having sex. They may be acting that they are enjoying it but they are really having sex - we're not talking dry humping with a cushion in between them while they're moaning and pretending to get breathless!:D

What! You obviously know not a lot about !!!!!!. Most of the actors can just turn it on and off like a switch. They are acting and that's not real in the slightest.
That's why glossy production !!!!!! turns alot of people off and the rise of "reality !!!!!!" in the last few years.

MeganKate

Gingham_R wrote: »

No, you may think you know and sometimes you'll be right. Sometimes you won't be.

Sorry I know enough about sex to know when someone is enjoying it or not!

Lotus-eater

janninew wrote: »

But they aren't acting are they! They are really having sex, the man's penis is actually entering the ladies vagina!! :rotfl:

Acting is what happens in the Hollywood Blockbusters, not !!!!!! films!

What about the amateur !!!!!! that you admit to watching, aren't they 'real' couples having sex?

I don't "admit" to watching it, I just state I watch it, it's no big deal to me. Of course they are mostly real people in it, with real reactions and actions.

If you don't think acting happens in !!!!!! films, you are so wrong, I can't begin to explain, because it's so silly.

MeganKate

janninew wrote: »

But they aren't acting are they! They are really having sex, the man's penis is actually entering the ladies vagina!! :rotfl:

I know !

shocking :eek::eek::eek:

determined_new_ms

MeganKate wrote: »

I do not think I am more enlightened 'because I watch !!!!!!', but I am afraid to say that I think I am a little more enlightened than you about the ways of the world if you genuinly think that if you and you OH 'agree' that he wont watch !!!!!!, even though he wants to, that he wont.

Of course that is merely my opinion

Mk u.have shown urself to be of a lower level of maturity nd I actually feel a little sorry for u that u don't have the kind of rrlation where u can openly discuss ur needs with.ur partnernd finf a compromise nd u have relationships with men that u can't trust he would.act on decisionsu had mutually agreed on

janninew

MeganKate wrote: »

I know !

shocking :eek::eek::eek:

i don't find it shocking at all, I do find people saying that !!!!!! stars aren't real people to be rather bizarre though!!

Lotus-eater

determined_new_ms wrote: »

Its funny u saying that le, whatever we do in life we normalise nd often hang around with ppl who normalise nd agree with our world view. I used to take drugs, msjority of my friends took drugs so if u asked.me I would habe said most ppl take drugs. Now I don't nd realise most ppl don't

Please stop using txt speaky!

I've said both are normal already, the fact I believe many times more men would use !!!!!! if they could, is based upon my experience on this earth and if I may say so, is probably a little more reliable than most women.

Gingham_R

MeganKate wrote: »

Sorry I know enough about sex to know when someone is enjoying it or not!

LOL I can't help thinking of When Harry Met Sally right now.

Most of the actors can just turn it on and off like a switch. They are acting and that's not real in the slightest.

Exactly - they're not necessarily enjoying it and can act like they are. It's real though. A woman may be acting like she's enjoying it and there may have been some cursory 'getting to the point' type plot first, but if she's got 2 men's appendages inserted into her, she's still got them inside her, whether she's acting or not.

My points are not in dispute, surely?

1) she may or may not be enjoying it
2) she may or may not have been coerced or forced into it
3) she is not acting like she's having sex - she IS having sex

Lotus-eater

janninew wrote: »

i don't find it shocking at all, I do find people saying that !!!!!! stars aren't real people to be rather bizarre though!!

I don't understand your point, is a character on Eastenders a real person? Of course not, so why should anyone in a !!!!!! film be any different?

You think the persona's you see in !!!!!! films are real? Very very rarely. I think you are a bit bizarre tbh.