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  • MiT I'm so sorry to hear your sad news. I know no words can help how you are feeling right now, but please take comfort in the fact she is no longer in pain and her life was enriched because you were in it. I'm sure you have your own private angel now who will watch you and you family and guard them fiercely. Take care Xx
    Debts @ LBM £23,729.31. Debts @ 08/04/2016 £0 :j
    Best win so far - holiday to Florida
  • My thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time.
    February 2013 NSD - 4
  • badger_
    badger_ Posts: 475 Forumite
    My thoughts are with you & your family xx
    LBM 24/05/2012 :T
    August NSD 10/12 * £2 savers
  • Hope you are coping ok. x
    Trying to shift that debt!
  • Seaxwyn
    Seaxwyn Posts: 4,896 Forumite
    I'm so sorry to hear that sad news. I'm glad she had a happy last day. Please look after yourself and remember how much she loved you and what a comfort you were to her.

    It's two weeks tomorrow since my mum died and I still feel in a fog about it. There is a huge amount to do when someone dies but remember it doesn't have to be done at once.

    Lots of love xxxx
    Total debt: 1 January 2007 £[strike]49,387.79[/strike] 1 January 2012 £[STRIKE]19,312.85[/STRIKE] 1 August 2012 £11,517.62



  • jwil
    jwil Posts: 21,965 Forumite
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    So sorry to hear about your Mum MIT, thinking of you all xx
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • hillside777
    hillside777 Posts: 357 Forumite
    Thinking of you at this time.

    Best wishes.
    June 16 Mortgage Amount £82,896.15
    Official mortgage end date August 2027 :(
    Current rate 2.59% until August 2020
  • momum
    momum Posts: 52 Forumite
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    So sorry to read your very sad news.
    My thoughts are with you and your family.
    Time passes but memories remain for ever
    xmx
  • Aww thanks so much folks. Been a busy few days. Sea I am in complete shock although I have known for a long time this day would come. I keep going to text her or I think ' I must tell mum' then I am in floods when I remember. I'm sure it will get better- it has to. I have a few weeks off now from work so I have time to sort things out.

    Mum is coming home tomorrow morning and will go into chapel on Friday night with the funeral on Saturday morning. I am staying at her house with her tomorrow night along with my brother so she is not alone. We always had family days where we all gathered in her house and had alaugh and a big family dinner. Tomorrow when she comes home we will have a final family day that includes her. We will have song, laughter and no doubt many many tears but her house was always happy so will do our best to make it happy for her for a last time. Hopefully I can dry me eyes for a while :o.

    Thanks for all the kind thoughts. I am overwhelmed and humbled by on here and real life at the good wishes etc I have received and they have brought me lots of comfort. Take care folks and thanks again xx
    5 Year plan. April 2020 to June 2025- CC and mortgage free by time I'm 60
    Currently CC £23,674.36 /£14,895.41/£14315.42
    Mortgage £28,214.65/ £26,254.71/ £25,746.43
    By end 2020 I want CC at £ 19,000.00.
    By end 2021 I want CC at £10,000.00
  • What a beautiful post. My eyes are full of tears, all that love. What a lucky lady to have lived among people who loved her so much. Make the most of that last day and you still feel the loss, just the tears get less as time moves on. x
    Trying to shift that debt!
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