Overheard cruel threats by neighbour to her child

MandM90

Definitely report it. Maybe contact from the SS will give her the scare she needs! If she does has problems, then they need to be addressed as she is taking it out on her children. I agree with what others have said; if that is in public, goodness knows what's going on behind closed doors.

I would be on the phone straight away; young children have no voice and I believe we have a duty to protect them rather than 'mind our own business'. Let us know how you get on.

balletshoes

I have to agree, from what you've said I would also contact Social Services. I feel very sorry for that little girl, thats an awful way to be spoken to, by anyone, never mind your mum.

Gillybean103

OMG that's awful, those poor children. I don't think talking to her would defuse the situation. Definatly a call to Social Services is in order.

Please keep us posted

Penny-Pincher!!

Please DONT talk to this person as it would make the situation worse and she could then go onto worse things but quietly and the child will suffer even more.

Is it private housing or social?

IMO, I would call social services or NSPCC helpline and ask for their opinion, then you'll have a more informed point of view, then you can decide to go ahead and make a report. Make it clear you want to do anonymously if thats what you wish.

PP
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Taadaa

I agree I definitely would not approach her. She may well be having a really awful time and may be finding it difficult to cope. On the other hand, she may be mentally unbalanced and dangerous.

If you approach her then later decide it needs to be reported, she might put two and two together and start making your life hell. Do you know any of your other neighbours? Can you speak to them in confidence to see if they have heard anything, if it makes you feel better about your decision?

pearl123

As others have said just report it.
It is possible the mother has mental health problems.

susancs

I totally agree that you should report the incidents as it seems the family are in need of support. The local authority keeps details of any concerns regarding children and although you won't be given any information, the school may have reported concerns, plus others who deal with the family so your reporting may give a clearer insight into what support is required. There are schemes such as Home Start who help families in need, After school clubs that may be free for the eldest child, toddler groups that the Parent may be invited to attend and classes in parenting.

flowertotmum

Please ring them..that little girl could have been me..and i wished that someone had rang them for me...
ftm

rainbow81

My mother used to speak like that to me and my sister. It was non-stop for years and I still lack confidence and have trouble with relationships. I wish someone had called SS and got us some help.

Person_one

Penny-Pincher!! wrote: »

Is it private housing or social?

Just curious, what difference does that make?