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Help - I need to tell my husband about my Debt

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  • Good luck brave lady.....thinking of you.

    Hugs.

    Mrs PP. x
  • greenhill
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    Another one here thinking of you x
  • Bored
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    Hope things have gone well for you today.

    Remember that whatever happens you have a whole forum full of people to support you.
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  • magpiedawn
    magpiedawn Posts: 307 Forumite
    Thinking about you tonight,GOOD LUCK hope things are going well.
    Que sera sera-whatever will be will be
  • solventsoon
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    Thinking of you and sending you (((hugs))) and lots of positive thoughts xxx
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  • Barbeduk
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    Hope everything is ok, do update and let us all know how you are.:grouphug:
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  • whitewing
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    I keep hoping for an update..

    Hope you are all right and hubby wasn't too mad...
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  • suburbanwifey
    suburbanwifey Posts: 1,642 Forumite
    whitewing wrote: »
    I keep hoping for an update..

    Hope you are all right and hubby wasn't too mad...

    Ditto. Hope it went alright for her.
  • Lewby
    Lewby Posts: 449 Forumite
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    I've read your post and admire your honesty with yourself. I am certain that the relief you'll feel when your OH knows about the situation will outweigh the stress of his initial reaction.

    I hope you've now told him so you can stop feeling so sick and anxious and you have some fantastic support on this site whatever the outcome.

    My OH packed his job in a couple of months ago and phoned me to tell me. When we talked about it when I got home he said the stress of having to tell me was horrific but the relief of me knowing was so great and I had been far more supportive than his darkest moments of worry had let him believe I would be!

    Hope all went well and you are ok.

    Lewby x
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  • nzseries1
    nzseries1 Posts: 2,240 Forumite
    I hope for an update too, yours is the first situation I've actually been personally worried about and I keep coming back checking on you! Hope you're okay!!
    You're spelling is effecting me so much. Im trying not to be phased by it but your all making me loose my mind on mass!! My head is loosing it's hair. I'm going to take myself off the electoral role like I should of done ages ago and move to the Caribean. I already brought my plane ticket, all be it a refundable 1.
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