New Dmp Mutal Support Thread

teecee152

smilealot wrote: »

Hi Teecee :hello: Where is the last third of the unholy trinity?! Did you tire him out earlier?!!? :rotfl:

I used him up and spat him out!!!:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
He's had to go to bed!!! Guess I'm just too much for him to handle.......poor boy!!:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

Sea78

I have quite a lot to use against him now!! He's actually said he has a drink problem but it's all my fault - whatever! I am feeling fully RARRRR now and want to be meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

I think he might be panicking and wondering what he's started but I am in rage mode now and feel like he's taken too much of 'me' and I want that back. however, then reality kicks in and the letters are starting and what the hell am I giong t do about the debt

smilealot

Ha ha ha ha! Poor Joek, he'll never make it to NYC... he'll be too exhausted!!!

teecee152

Sea78 wrote: »

I have quite a lot to use against him now!! He's actually said he has a drink problem but it's all my fault - whatever! I am feeling fully RARRRR now and want to be meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

I think he might be panicking and wondering what he's started but I am in rage mode now and feel like he's taken too much of 'me' and I want that back. however, then reality kicks in and the letters are starting and what the hell am I giong t do about the debt

You are gonna say strong get some advice and remember rage mode is good place to be for you it gives you strength (not so good for him however!!!)

Scottishmummy

Well I'm struggling to keep my eyes open tonight. All that walking has tired me out.

Sea - whatever you decide re the family thing I hope it goes well. Not sure if that means you won't be on here for a couple of days or not so will wait to find out how it went.

Smile - I've only been abroad a couple of times - hated Malta - loved Cyprus - but to be honest nothing compares to Scotland. Few areas I still haven't visited yet but since I married a man who also loves it here then I'm sure we will have the whole of it covered in time.

Well night night all will speak with you all again tomorrow

teecee152

Night night Scottishmummy.

xx

smilealot

Good on your for feeling like RRRRRRRRRGgggggggggh! (sound so much better when you shout it!). It's that feeling that will get the real Sea back (and the motivation that will come from wanted to sort things out for your kiddiewinkles).

I can't believe he's blaming his drinking problem on you! Maybe you should suggest he move out as an experiment to see if it will improve in your absence?!

As for the debt - please don't worry too much. Have you called CCCS/Payplan? Let them know what's happening so they can help you if you need it later without having to go through it all. They'll see it as you wanting to keep a grip of what's happening. At the end of the day - what can happen if you can't make the payment? CCCS/Payplan will help you reduce them until you are back on your feet. Maybe you'll get some benefits if he moves out because your income will be less? The debts should not be your first priority - that place is taken by your children AND YOU!!! (But I know it must be hard not to worry - please don't think I'm saying it's easy.)

smilealot

Night night Scottishmummy! Next time you're on here I'll need to get some recommendations from you. I think I could drag along some bloke with me who would learn to love it!!

Lovely chatting to you and thanks again for the advice. Good luck with the Bank Holiday shenanagins.

smilealot :rolleyes2

teecee152

Really hate to go, but doing a carboot on sunday (surprise surprise) so need to get some decent sleep tonight.

Hang in there Sea, and love to you smiley

Speak soon

Night Night

teecee xx

smilealot

Sweet dreams Carboot Queen!! Been lovely grabbing some quality chat time with you.

Speak soon, maybe with our third leg/wheel/whatever...!

smilealot :rolleyes2