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Time to move on?? I'm scared.....but I have to

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  • I didn't see this thread at the time even though a similar thing was happening to me at around the same time so my heart goes out to you. I'm really glad things are looking up for you (you too pooka).

    Best Wishes all
    XXX
    Esthomizzy
    MFi3 member 105 - MFW date Oct 2023 - 12 years 9 months more
  • amyface
    amyface Posts: 84 Forumite
    Good to hear that there is positivity & that the fair folk of the forum may have helped to some small degree.

    Have a great 2008 and beyond x
  • MissKJ
    MissKJ Posts: 780 Forumite
    I agree with Jamesd entirely. Become legally seperate from your husband, making sure YOU get your full entitlement. Don't go soft on him! Then ensure you have comfortable monthly budget. When the dust settles you can join teh mortgage free wannabes.
    unsecured Debts at [strike]August 2007 £79,984[/strike] September £79,579 [STRIKE]Snowballing date July 2013[/STRIKE].

    May 2009, £76,772 unsecured debts

    DMP started Dec 2008, End date at start 2133!
  • benbenandme
    benbenandme Posts: 12,377 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker Photogenic
    Am really pleased things have worked out for you ... like you I am now in control of my life and loving it again, but I will never forget the hurt I went through and it really makes you appreciate those that helped you through it :rolleyes: :D
    Mortgage Total: £50,720/ £75,000
    Mortgage Overpayments Pot £1587
  • amyface
    amyface Posts: 84 Forumite
    Just diving through my old posts & this one was the only one I remembered! Hope all is well pepper x
  • dimbo61
    dimbo61 Posts: 13,727 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    edited 18 June 2010 at 11:29AM
    Sorry old post hope things are well !
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