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Coco114

Masonn your day sounds perfect

I have been v busy so far - 3 black bags full of c**p already :T

Have also been making a list with the youngest. If MRS comes off and we stay here for a while - we have listed all the little jobs we would like to do here. Nothing major , nothing more than £100 or so things we can do bit by bit. So either way it feels like we are moving forward

Right , meat in oven so need to do my veg etc. Because my 2 sleep so late - we have lunch at 2.00 , dinner at 7ish and bowls of cereal at 10pm .... All back to front :rotfl:

Coco x

Coco114

All in all a good day

Downstairs tidy (though not hoovered yet) dinner washed up and kitchen tidy. 4 loads washing done. Upstairs not so tidy .... But , hey ho it will keep.

Watched a really bad chick flick earlier , not my usual cup of tea at all. But boys were out playing tennis so I had a peaceful couple of hours :T
Going to make appt to view that house on Tuesday - worth a look I reckon
NSD today & dinner for tomorrow already organised, as is lunch.

Quite a productive day really - going to sort clean washing , catch up on my tv and head off to bed with my book

Hope everyone had a good day !

Coco x

asparagus1968

oh,you must go and have a peek at the house!
always good to have an aim.
like the fact you are locking your door,he should have the manners to knock and wait any how:)

nimbo

Coco114 wrote: »

I'm sorry - guess just feeling a little sorry for myself as it took 2 to get in this mess but me that's left to clear it up. Have suggested that visiting be done elsewhere but sadly " tough it's still my house" seems to be the response I get - maybe I will just have to feed kids & then just go out everytime , maybe then the penny will drop !

Xx

don't go out and leave him in the house it's your's.... (i had an ex, and he'd snoop around, and answered my phone, and just got all up in my business - don't give him an inch he'll take more than a mile).

you pay the mortgage, and your name is on the deed. (he may give you child support but make it clear to him that the rest of the cash is going on the joint debt NOT the mortgage).

he needs to realise he cannot have his feet under your table.

sorry had to post when i got to page 2...

you're doing so well sweetie. - keep it up xx

Coco114

Hellooooooo :j
To be fair here - he doesn't really cause me any issues these days. The door is locked so he knocks. Always asks to use bathroom , is it ok to put kettle on etc and always refers to the house now as " it's your house". We have moved on a lot

The money side of it will be never be sorted in a fair way - hence the mess I am in now. But , hopefully we are nearly there. Either the house will be rented to me so it will be "mine" or , I will live somewhere else and it will be "mine" :T

Every day - life gets a little more normal for me so I am just watching and waiting to see what happens now. I am positive and a firm believer it will all come good in the end ....

Yuk .... It's nearly Monday already .... How did that happen ?!

Coco x

Coco114

Oh Nimbo - page 2 you poor thing

Hopefully , if your ever make it through , you will see just how far I have come - mostly thanks to the people on here

Coco114

Well that's Monday done :T

NSD today apart from a choc bar bought with a £1.00 I found in my drawer at work !

Nothing exciting to report really. Have arranged to view house on weds evening. Drove past it earlier and it looks really nice ..... Must not set my heart on it !! Should find out this week if mort/sec agree to MRS scheme - in limbo till I know that, these things take so long !

Squeezed back a little extra towards a deposit - still a long way to go though. I wish these flamin pay rises would hurry up

Did a couple of surveys at lunch time .... That's the level of excitement in my day !

Coco x

Aamberle

Well Done Coco - Good to see things going in the right direction. xx

PinotGrigio41

Just dropping in to say hello, and I haven't forgotten about you! I have a grand plan to whizz through the diaries tomorrow of which I am woefully behind !

Hope you are well though, will catch up on your posts tomorrow now though and see what you have been up to ! X

Coco114

Thanks

Well I feel a bit sick today. But still

Today is when I find out if MRS will be in time or not. All the endless phone calls / letters could all be in vain now. Will update more later but , either the long MRS procedure can begin ..... I have to move quickly. Hard to know how it's going to go so we just have to wait and see. But at least it will be done - one way or the other !!! Before anyone asks - I kept this to myself for a reason. The scheme will only come into effect once proceedings are under way so .... Here I am. Am very positive though - I have done my best.

Not planning on spending anything today - but let's see how the day progresses it's early yet!

Hope you all have a good day - I will update later.

Coco x