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CSA Law UNFAIR! From a woman!

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  • Zara33
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    Anyway he might be able to sleep till noon tomorrow, but me personally i have to get up early i'm sure the mods will delete or lock the threads that master99 has continually insisted on abusing PWC.

    Nite nite xxx
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  • kelloggs36
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    See you tomorrow no doubt!
  • kelloggs36
    kelloggs36 Posts: 7,712 Forumite
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    master99 wrote:
    YOU AGAIN THATS SO IGNORANT AND STUPID PLEASE LEAVE

    Yes, I'm very ignorant, but very knowledgeable about the workings of the CSA. Many people value my advice - and I would hedge my bets that my advice is more valued than your opinions overall. No offence. So, no, I shall decline your kind invitation to leave so that if needed, I can help people deal with the CSA in a proper manner.
  • Sensemaya
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    Totally agree with you. Now I'm really going to bed. And you sleep well too xxx
  • kelloggs36
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    I was about to delete that last post as I am not sure he was directing it at me, but on balance of probablities, it probably was. Don't know why he quoted Scarlett, unless she offended him with that comment so badly!
  • kelloggs36 wrote:
    I was about to delete that last post as I am not sure he was directing it at me, but on balance of probablities, it probably was. Don't know why he quoted Scarlett, unless she offended him with that comment so badly!


    sorry to say that comment was not at you. there you go again off on one you shoot the gun and ask questions later never mind hay you still get your money from the csa even though you shot the bullet in my head. i dont get offended its just your opinion weather people agree with me or not or value what i say i dont care its what i say what counts but u have a good night and im sure we will meet again remember just bcos some one does not agree with u does not make thema troll or what ever turns u on night night dont let the bitter vindictive twisted bed bugs bite:o
  • Zara33 wrote:
    Anyway he might be able to sleep till noon tomorrow, but me personally i have to get up early i'm sure the mods will delete or lock the threads that master99 has continually insisted on abusing PWC.

    Nite nite xxx


    im sorry you feel that way and if the mods beleived in are great country they would understand what i am typing is not abusive but fact but if you feel that way fair comment night night dont let the bitter twisted bed bug bit
  • newcook wrote:
    I agree with Loui that there are some (not loads, just some) women who do use men as a donor - some of you may know from a previous post of mine that my OH was (she told him she was infertile when it turned out it was her ex) luckily OH has always been part of his sons life and they have a private arrangement with money.
    she has been able to go from living at home to having a nice 2 bed place not far from her parents. she gets all the benefits that SWP's get plus a while ago, as she had been in her council house for x amount of time she was able to buy it for an amount just above my salary (which by the way is not huge).
    me and OH in the meantime were living in a pokey 1 bed converted attic while we scrimped and saved for a deposit on a house - even then we had to go down the 50% ownership as we couldn't afford to buy outright.

    as I said, I only think its a small minority of women who do this.

    I certainly don't agree with the women who don't even tell the man they have gotten pregnant (be it one night stand or long term relationship but split before found out pregnant) and then decide to chase for money 7 or 8 years later - the woman has obviously done fine without the man for all that time and its her choice that the child had not had its dad in its life.


    i agree 80% of women do this including the vindictive ones on here no offence i just call it as i see it weel done keep it
  • iceicebaby
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    USE CONDOMS = NO ACCIDENTAL PREGNANCIES

    If men are daft enough to not use condoms on a one night stand more fool them I say . Also goes for women too.
    Baby Ice arrived 17th April 2011. Tired.com! :j
  • DKLS
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    llh189 wrote:
    Also a while ago there was a post on here from a man who had had the snip after he found his ex putting pin pricks in their condoms!

    That was me, I am now enjoying my jaffa status, Some of my original posts were about women who didnt believe me that I didnt want children, and one particular bunny boiler who I caught armed with a pin and my condom stash, hence becoming a jaffa, also if I go out on a weekend, there seems to be certain females, who you can clearly see have the biological clock ticking away, If I smile at them, they weigh you up they are already naming the child!!!:eek:
    I partially agree with the OP, BUT men must take responsibility for their own fertility, If you dont wear em, dont complain when a CSA demand drops through the letterbox. Having said that it about time that more contraceptives were made available to men other than the snip and condoms.
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