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Struggling but determined... Mostly!

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  • Wellyboots6
    Wellyboots6 Posts: 2,735 Forumite
    No curry for tea tonight. Had chicken and left over veg instead, was quite nice. Curry is now tomorrows mission :)
  • Wellyboots6
    Wellyboots6 Posts: 2,735 Forumite
    Feeling so down in the dumps today about the money situation...

    I can clear my debts eventually, I know this. I am just getting so isolated and bored. I live quite a distance away from my friends and so it costs to even just go and see someone for a coffee. I haven't been for a night out in so long.

    I live alone, and spend alot of my working week working alone, and its all getting a bit much.

    Ho hum...
  • Herewego
    Herewego Posts: 2,541 Forumite
    Chin up hunny look how far you have come :D
    Its always a little overwhelming at the start if you can clear the loan in 4 months could you make token payments to the water and electric bill, then throw the spare money at other debts. Just a word of warning eon doubled my DD without telling me last year which left me skint I would wait for a payment card that way you control it.

    You dont need to feel down when you have so many new friends on here :p

    HWG x
    MARCH 2016 DEBT £25750/ £25035
    EST DFD JAN 2021 (that needs to change)
    NOW JAN 2019 (that still needs to change)
  • Wellyboots6
    Wellyboots6 Posts: 2,735 Forumite
    Thanks HWG :)

    I didn't really want to do the direct debit with eon, but the bloke on the phone thought I was lying about the payment card not arriving. I had rung up once before about it not arriving, so they have it on the system that two have been sent out, but I have received neither.

    If I carry on the way I am going then the debts will be cleared in the next few months, I will just shrivel up and become a hermit!

    The dog is appreciating the new budget however as he is having his little legs walked off as free entertainment!
  • Herewego
    Herewego Posts: 2,541 Forumite
    Why not get your friends to join you on your walks sell it to them as good exercise LOL
    MARCH 2016 DEBT £25750/ £25035
    EST DFD JAN 2021 (that needs to change)
    NOW JAN 2019 (that still needs to change)
  • Wellyboots6
    Wellyboots6 Posts: 2,735 Forumite
    They live too far away :(

    One comes every 6 weeks or so, and another one I see every couple of weeks for a walk but I have to travel over to hers.

    Just found out I need major car repairs too, not good!!
  • Herewego
    Herewego Posts: 2,541 Forumite
    Think you need to make some local friends maybe dog walking buddies
    Im just arranging to meet all my friends for a long walk with a hot choc at the end tomorrow gets us away from the usual chores and gives us all a chance to catch up.
    Hope the car doesnt cost too much fingers crossed
    MARCH 2016 DEBT £25750/ £25035
    EST DFD JAN 2021 (that needs to change)
    NOW JAN 2019 (that still needs to change)
  • Wellyboots6
    Wellyboots6 Posts: 2,735 Forumite
    I've blown it today :(

    Went food shopping and bought way too much. I now have to make it last a month.

    I also need to get two new car tyres tomorrow.

    My budget is tight as it is and tyres dont come in to it :(
  • Wellyboots6
    Wellyboots6 Posts: 2,735 Forumite
    Now in a major panic!!

    Thought I needed a new back tyre, turns out my brakes are destroyed. Would cost me £550 to fix, although the car is nowhere near worth that amount.

    I cant afford to fix the car but cant afford a new car.

    I also need the car for work, tomorrow :(

    Totally, totally stuck!!
  • Wellyboots6
    Wellyboots6 Posts: 2,735 Forumite
    Managed to take the week off work as holiday, so got a bit of breathing space to come up with a solution. Luckily!!
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