MSE Pregnancy Club 24

emsbet

robyn297 wrote: »

Is anyone doing anything for their DH/OH for fatherday?

Not sure whether to do anything.

I almost bought DH a daddy to be card but chickened out, didn't want to jinx us

xx

RebekahR

No. It's not his thing. And he didn't for me lol. He thinks its a load of poppycock and too commercial.

Kitten_Pie

emsbet wrote: »

I almost bought DH a daddy to be card but chickened out, didn't want to jinx us

xx

From the other side of things, if the worst were to happen it would be another memory to keep, which when it is all you have you appreciate.

*sorry to bring things down*

LittleMoog

robyn297 wrote: »

Is anyone doing anything for their DH/OH for fatherday?

Not sure whether to do anything.

I've got a Father-to-be card with our 12 week scan picture on, from funky pidgeon. It's this one. I'm using it as an anniversary card though, as it's our 6th wedding anniversary on Sunday
He didn't do anything for me on Mother's day (I don't think it even occurred to him )

twinklie

I just got an email from work asking if it's just the fact I can't drive stopping me coming to work or the fact I've been signed off. I feel all a tiss now.

I'm going to the doctors tomorrow to get a sick note anyway (like the GP suggested). Not really sure how I feel, I feel like I'm being accused of being a fraud a bit. I'm sure I'm just being paranoid though.

Kitten_Pie

Twinklie I know how horrible an email like that can be. At least it was an email and not a phone call putting you on the spot.

Get signed off and just be very factual with them.

twinklie

They can't phone me...my home and mobile phones have both broken!!! Ha ha ha. They both died on me yesterday within an hour of each other.

Apparently they appear to have sorted out my maternity leave (all a bit hush hush), so I'm wondering if they are wondering whether this chap can start now or not. I've told them I'm telling them what I know and I know nothing. I just know I'm not meant to be at work. I'll go to the consultants tomorrow and then pop by my GP's to request a sick note. I've had my 5 days of self cert now anyway.

Kitten_Pie

As long as you are keeping them up to date (whether that is telling them nothing because you know nothing) then you are in the right and I wouldn't worry. (easier said than done)

LadyMorticia

For the past few days I've been having a sharp stabbing pain but it's hard to explain where it is. Kind of like at the bottom of your groin where the bikini line is? Almost where the bladder would be? See, hard to describe! lol. I also have a very painful lower back but I don't know if both together are normal or not. It's so bad that I can't stand up properly (well I can't anyway but this is in a different way, if that makes sense?) and it's worse when I go to the toilet but I have no burning or anything so don't think it's a UTI.

Not sure if it's normal or not. =/

Kitten_Pie

Lady M, I have had a similar pains which have been stretching etc however if you are worried as always call the midwife. UTI's can show themselves in different ways, I have had a couple but no pain on peeing or anything that made me think I had one.