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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 11

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  • rachelww1
    rachelww1 Posts: 680 Forumite
    Have just got in from the hospital where they have finally admitted mum. She's very weak and dehydrated and has some sort of infection. At least she's in the right place now and hopefully they'll be able to sort her out. It's been a very long day, having tried to get her in there since Weds morning. Absolutely knackered now, but my mind is still racing so can't sleep yet. Need to though, as I have to be at work and do the school run in a couple of hours. Anyway 1 more AF day here making 9 please Shaggy. Night all x
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  • graemecarter
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    rachelww1 wrote: »
    Have just got in from the hospital where they have finally admitted mum. She's very weak and dehydrated and has some sort of infection. At least she's in the right place now and hopefully they'll be able to sort her out. It's been a very long day, having tried to get her in there since Weds morning. Absolutely knackered now, but my mind is still racing so can't sleep yet. Need to though, as I have to be at work and do the school run in a couple of hours. Anyway 1 more AF day here making 9 please Shaggy. Night all x

    As Churchill said "When you're going through hell, keep going"

    Be good to yourself, you deserve it
  • shaggydoo
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    Morning :hello:

    1 more AFD please Bearacus. The diet is still going well :) My weigh-in-day is Saturday morning so that should help me clock up some Friday AFDs.

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    Shaggyx
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    bretts77 wrote: »
    Hi all,

    Last week I drank half a bottle of whisky every night for 7 nights on the spin - no real trigger except that I enjoy getting drunk.

    Have now set myself a target of not drinking until Thursday 23rd Feb where I will allow myself to get drunk after completing a work project.

    I understand that this is completely the wrong attitude when it comes to cutting down/quitting alcohol, but at the moment it seems the best way for me.

    After even one night drinking my cravings usually take 3 AF days to subside, so even if I just have one drinking night a week I spend half the week craving another drink.

    Anyway, just wanted to get that off my chest.

    Good luck all. :T

    Hi Bretts - do you want to join the February challenge?
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    bearacus wrote: »
    crazymum thankyou thats lovely :)

    Ditto.gif Thank You :D
    bigdrinker wrote: »
    This is SO true for me too, massive thanks :)

    Thank You too :D
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    As Churchill said "When you're going through hell, keep going"

    Be good to yourself, you deserve it

    What a great thing to say.....

    ....we're all thinking about you Rachel....
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    January :-

    happy-smiley-thumbs.gif = 7 Days AF

    smiley-happy0005.gif = 14 days AF

    cheerleader-108.gif = 21 days AF

    angel-smiley-004.gif = 28 days AF

    10.gif = 30 days AF

    :j = target achieved


    Bearacus 25/TF
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    Beckseven 13
    /17
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    Bigdrinker 23/25 happy-smiley-thumbs.gifsmiley-happy0005.gifcheerleader-108.gif

    Caramelcaron 11/18 happy-smiley-thumbs.gif
    Cheezypeas 19/27 happy-smiley-thumbs.gifsmiley-happy0005.gif

    Chloris
    7/22
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    Cleggie 17/TF happy-smiley-thumbs.gifsmiley-happy0005.gif
    Crazymum 25/25 happy-smiley-thumbs.gifsmiley-happy0005.gifcheerleader-108.gif :j
    dprovan 16/31 happy-smiley-thumbs.gifsmiley-happy0005.gif
    Evilsquid 15/20 happy-smiley-thumbs.gifsmiley-happy0005.gif

    Fakeplastictwee 7/30 happy-smiley-thumbs.gif

    Flat Eric 8/25 happy-smiley-thumbs.gif
    Gardenanna 21/TF happy-smiley-thumbs.gifsmiley-happy0005.gifcheerleader-108.gif

    Gien 3/23

    Idristhedragon 12/TF happy-smiley-thumbs.gif

    Jevvers
    5/21


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    Mackeroo 16/16 happy-smiley-thumbs.gifsmiley-happy0005.gif :j

    Maman
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    Mari 17/TF happy-smiley-thumbs.gifsmiley-happy0005.gif
    May 14/18 happy-smiley-thumbs.gifsmiley-happy0005.gif

    Mrs Vimes 7/20 happy-smiley-thumbs.gif

    Nettttie 8/23 happy-smiley-thumbs.gif
    Shaggy 19/17 happy-smiley-thumbs.gifsmiley-happy0005.gif:j

    Peterbunny 12/20 happy-smiley-thumbs.gif

    Pinkprincess /21
    Pricey SOS 14/25 happy-smiley-thumbs.gifsmiley-happy0005.gif

    Rachel 9
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    WBF 11/13 happy-smiley-thumbs.gif




    PLEASE PUT YOUR TARGET AFDs IN A BOLD RED FONT and good luck! (and if I've made any mistakes, don't be shy, please let me know!)

    EVERYONE WELCOME
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • cleggie
    cleggie Posts: 2,169 Forumite
    Good morning all!

    Rachel- sorry to hear about your mum being poorly. I hope you managed to wake up to do the school run this morning!

    Well done crazymum for another AF especially as you fancied a drink last night!

    Yay, i got my next little person next to my name!! I am already thinking about Friday night and trying to decide if i am going to have another AF friday, or if i am going to have a small drink. Not sure yet, i'll have a ponder.

    Have a great day everyone!
  • rachelww1 wrote: »
    Have just got in from the hospital where they have finally admitted mum. She's very weak and dehydrated and has some sort of infection. At least she's in the right place now and hopefully they'll be able to sort her out. It's been a very long day, having tried to get her in there since Weds morning. Absolutely knackered now, but my mind is still racing so can't sleep yet. Need to though, as I have to be at work and do the school run in a couple of hours. Anyway 1 more AF day here making 9 please Shaggy. Night all x

    I take my hat off to you rachelww1, I struggle with work and the school run at the best of times, let alone on 2/3 hours sleep. I hope you managed to get some rest.......lots of positive energy vibes to you.
    And on the upside, at least your mum is getting the care and attention she needs to get better - everything crossed for her xx

    21 AFs pls Shaggy (YAY little pom-pom smiley :T)
    3 for the SNC please bearacus
  • Morning all

    3 for the SNC please Bearacus

    Busy day today so only popping on quickly (funerals day today :().

    Rachel - ((Hugs)). Look after yourself. Try and get some rest today.

    Miss P
    xx
    **Keep Calm and Carry On!**
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