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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 11
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idristhedragon wrote: »I DONT WANT to go for a drink. I am aiming to be AF most of October including weekends as I have mastered the School Nights but its just turned me into a binge drinker and Im sick of losing weekends.
I was AF yesterday and am fully intending to be the rest of the week and hopefully Friday too, although if not I am self imposing a "Find the Stop Button CHallenge" as I find sticking to a "couple" much harder than not starting in the first place...........
That's exactly how I was to begin with idris and I promise it does get easier. My first 'cutting down' challenge was not to drink on school nights then I found I couldn't open the bottle fast enough on a Friday.:o My next challenge was to be sure I didn't just play catch up on the weekends by drinking as much in 3 days as I'd previously done in 7! I think what happened with me was that the AF days lowered my tolerance so I just couldn't manage much more than a bottle at a time. I now have to either pace myself or stop. It doesn't always work but I'm getting there. You will too.:)
2 AFDs for October please Shaggy.0 -
Morning :hello:
1 more AFD making 3 in a row.
ShaggyxWhat do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.0 -
September :-
= 7 Days AF
= 14 days AF
= 21 days AF
= 28 days AF
= 30 days AF
:j = target achieved
Chocolate Cupcake 7/16
CheesedOffwithDebt /20
CuppaTea 23/29
Gien 8/25
Mackeroo 6/12
Maman 10/10:j
Mari 7/22
Markman 5/6
Miss rlr 11/11:j
OpenScreen 5/15
Penelopeedee 3/TF
Pixiegirl /12
Satchmo 8/TF
Shaggy 14/17
Pricey SOS 6/24
Tracy 11/TF
TrainingDad 18/15:j
Unself 8/TF
PLEASE PUT YOUR TARGET AFDs IN A BOLD RED FONT and good luck! (and if I've made any mistakes, don't be shy, please let me know!)
EVERYONE WELCOMEWhat do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.0 -
October :-
= 7 Days AF
= 14 days AF
= 21 days AF
= 28 days AF
= 31 days AF
= target achieved
Chocolate Cupcake 2/15
CuppaTea 2/20
Idristhedragon 2/20
Mackeroo
Maman 3/10
Mari
Markman /8
Miss rlr
OpenScreen
Penelopeedee
Satchmo 2/20
Shaggy 3/17
Pricey SOS
Tracy 1/15
TrainingDad 1/20
Unself /12
WBF 1/10
41 1/TF
PLEASE PUT YOUR TARGET AFDs IN A BOLD RED FONT and good luck! (and if I've made any mistakes, don't be shy, please let me know!)
EVERYONE WELCOMEWhat do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.0 -
Just read an article about Denise Welch giving up drinking and her catalyst was someone filming her drunk. My daughter did this to me this summer and when I watched it I *actually* looked like Ozzy Osbourne. I was shuffling around the kitchen trying to make boiled eggs and I just died a little bit when I saw that. I was also quite rude to a few people that night in a drunken " telling the truth" manner an I never ever want to be that person againHave nothing in your house that you do not know to be useful or believe to be beautiful.
£117/ £3951.670 -
Hello All,
Managed 4 AF nights last month!
Tonight is going to be my first AF night of this month! Had a row with Other Half last night after I went out for ANOTHER bottle of wine last night at 9pm!
StupotstuQuit Smoking 12 years 2 months.0 -
Drunk one litre and gave one litre to neighbout, 2 litres left I have started one. Managed to remain AF yesterday and so far today so Shaggy do your thing1 AF DAY ON RECORD
Tesco Credit Card £250 £25 DD 0% for next 10 months.
Barclaycard Initial £241.45 0% for next 7 mths.Your parents choose your beginning....
.... you get to choose the ending.0 -
Hello all. I was a bit disappointed with my September total, but I did have a holiday when we drank every evening, so I mustn't beat myself up about it. I'm here and I'm trying to cut down...not stop altogether!
Shaggy: October AF target is 15 days please
2 AFD's so far to add.
Thanks
x
Debt Free Date: November 20170 -
Following on from my post earlier....
22.07hrs and climbing the walls!
Nearly 1 AF night tonight!Quit Smoking 12 years 2 months.0 -
Hang on in there Stu, you'll make it!Trying to keep in budget.
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