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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 11

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  • 2AF days to add for me so far this week please.

    Not doing as well as I had planned, but the evenings I've had a drink have been much more controlled (just 2 glasses of wine).

    Hope everyone is recovering from being poorly!
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  • gien
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    I remember you noynoy!
    Welcome back.

    Thanks for the kind words Mari. I'mhopong I'll be fine now - I just have to keep watching my diet and exercise and I should be OK.

    Another AF night here - my husbands away for worh so it's just me and my kids. Think I'll have an early night.
    Trying to keep in budget.

    2270
  • missrlr
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    16 here
    still feeling rough so more tea and off to bed I think
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  • tracy_36
    tracy_36 Posts: 312 Forumite
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    Have been reading about all your goodness, yet I am stuck on 8 AF for June :(

    Why is it that when in a new relationship alcohol is heavily involved - wine with dinner, quick beer for lunch etc etc

    I haven't gone back to what I was drinking, but sure I would be nearly at target if I was single?!?!?

    Oh well, it's not as if I am out getting drunk, 2 beers last night, 2 the night before. Need to make an effort, as really, do I really need to drink?

    And the sickness thing, I have had waves of it for 5 days, and today so far has been ok......
    Hope all ok
    Tracy x
  • mackeroo
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    Hi Everyone
    Just a flying post to report 8 AF please Shaggy.
    Really struggled this eve but managed to remain AF, i had that bottle of wine in and out the fridge more times than i can count! However its safely back in the fridge with the lid still sealed. Yay. A wee small victory in the fight to be a 'cutter downer'.
    It’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts
  • evilsquid1603
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    hi everyone!

    sorry I've been MIA, life has been hectic recently.

    i got a job that involved getting up at 5.30am every morning and not getting home again til 7.30pm, then a week later found a better one closer to home so I've had two first weeks at a new job one after the other.
    then in the middle of all this, MIL decided to try suicide twice so I've been helping her and being there for DH.

    surprisingly, i haven't been drinking. i had one work night out but I've been either too exhausted or needing to be sober to deal with any more carp that i knew would come my way the second i was too drunk to deal with it. i do really want one though. although i just want one JD and coke, mostly because it will mean sitting down somewhere quiet with no stress and distractions while i drink it!
  • shaggydoo
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    Morning :hello:

    2 more AFDs.

    It's Friday :j

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    Have a Great one!

    Shaggyx
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  • shaggydoo
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    hi all i was noynoy back 18 months ago and i left as i fell pregant great way to give up! Anyway im back as i see my alchol is catching up on me with sharing a bottle of wine almsot every night with dh, and ive signed up a pledge to be tee total till september. i know im a late starter this month. Great to see some familar names! could you put me down for 9 days this month (so the remaining days of this month) many thanks x

    Iamjustme_welcomeback.gif You're on the list and Good Luck!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • *Mari*
    *Mari* Posts: 473 Forumite
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    Morning all :j thank goodness it's Friday!

    Shaggy 1 more AFD for me please :)

    evilsquid1603 What a lot for you to have to deal with, sending hugs and good wishes to you. Really well done on coping without a drink, you should be very proud of yourself :A

    mackeroo Well done on resisting the wine!

    tracy_36 You are doing well. Any reduction in intake is a step in the right direction whether you are giving up or cutting down. Hope you are feeling a bit better today.

    missrlr Hope you start to feel a bit better today.

    mummy2threeboys Welcome back :wave: and good luck for your plan to be AF until September.

    Cuppa Tea Hope you are OK my dear.

    :wave: To everyone else, hope you are all doing well.

    Its pouring down here and blowing a gale, lovely summer day! I am feeling positive still and even though last night the bells were ringing loudly, I stuck to my cup of tea :D. Have a fab day everyone, off to work for me now!

    Mari xx
  • shaggydoo
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    hi everyone!

    sorry I've been MIA, life has been hectic recently.

    i got a job that involved getting up at 5.30am every morning and not getting home again til 7.30pm, then a week later found a better one closer to home so I've had two first weeks at a new job one after the other.
    then in the middle of all this, MIL decided to try suicide twice so I've been helping her and being there for DH.

    surprisingly, i haven't been drinking. i had one work night out but I've been either too exhausted or needing to be sober to deal with any more carp that i knew would come my way the second i was too drunk to deal with it. i do really want one though. although i just want one JD and coke, mostly because it will mean sitting down somewhere quiet with no stress and distractions while i drink it!

    That's !!!!! Hope things get better soon.
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
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