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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 11

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  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    tracy_36 wrote: »
    Well, managed the full 31 days of March, plus the 1st day of April :j:j

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    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    April :-

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    smiley-face-cloud9.gif = 21 days AF

    angel-smiley-004.gif = 28 days AF

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    animal-smiley-085.gif= target achieved


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    Beck7
    2/16


    Chloris /30

    Cleggie 2/20

    Evilsquid
    1/15


    Gardenanna /TF

    Mackeroo 2/16

    Maman 1/10

    Markman /7

    Miss P /20

    Miss rlr 2/19


    Shaggy 2/17

    Peterbunny

    PixnMix

    Pricey SOS 1/23

    Tracy_36 /25

    Rachel




    PLEASE PUT YOUR TARGET AFDs IN A BOLD RED FONT and good luck! (and if I've made any mistakes, don't be shy, please let me know!)

    EVERYONE WELCOME
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    April 2012

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    Everyone Welcome.
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • Miss_Piggy_2
    Miss_Piggy_2 Posts: 3,631 Forumite
    Morning all

    Getting back on an even keel here. 1 please Shaggy!

    Looking forward to this afternoon - off for a tour of the gardens at Highgrove with my Mum and Sister in law. Wonder if I'll see Charlie??:D

    Have good days all

    Miss P
    xx
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  • mrsrainman
    mrsrainman Posts: 304 Forumite
    Morning All,

    Not been keeping up with the thread I'm afraid. just been so busy with stuff.

    MissP - Sending hugs to you and your family. I hope 2012 gets better for you.

    Cleggie - Well done for completing you dissertation.:j

    Nothing new to report on the AF front in the Rainman household.

    Hope you've all been enjoying the sunshine.

    MrsR xx
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  • evilsquid1603
    evilsquid1603 Posts: 1,399 Forumite
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    last night was AF so one more for me please :)

    tonights our last night with the flat, officially back home tomorrow. then i just have an epic career development loan thats due to come into repayment with payments set up that are over half our JSA to worry about :(
  • mackeroo
    mackeroo Posts: 806 Forumite
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    3 AF please Shaggy
    Looking forward to a cookery/baking eve on the TV with cup of tea and creme egg...nom nom nom
    It’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts
  • tracy_36
    tracy_36 Posts: 312 Forumite
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    3 as well for me please Shaggy
    Back home now, really looking forward to a sleep in my own bed, in silence!
    Just had a nice hot choc, it's the weather for it, brrrr
    Heating back on again, at least we have no snow predicted

    Kids are off to their Dads tomorrow eve for 4/5 days
    I must make some plans that don't involve alcohol, as them not being here is usually wine time :(
    Bingo it is then:rotfl:
  • melg1973
    melg1973 Posts: 207 Forumite
    Hello everyone, my first time on here, been drinking every/almost every night for the last 6 months and its getting out of hand, at least a bottle of wine or half a bottle of vodka, sometimes more.

    I just wanted to 'celebrate' 2 nights in a row not drinking - for the first time in 6 months - and (as far as I know) no-one else realises I have a problem (and I want to keep it that way) so thought I would come on here and tell you lot instead!!!

    Am not sure about going AF altogether but I definitely want to get back to enjoying it just a couple of times a week.

    The only thing that is worrying me is a friend told me of someone that had been drinking heavily for only 5 months, decided to give up and died 2 days later......anyone else heard something similar?
  • crazymum_2
    crazymum_2 Posts: 189 Forumite
    Just passing by to say a quick hello.... 97 days drink free now and 67 days smoke free - feeling fabulous.
    I've wobbled all over the place along the way - it's been a bit of an emotional rollercoaster....but I'm getting there.

    OH who drank 5 bottles of whisky a week and smoked 10 packs of ciggies a week is now on week 3 of giving up both :j.....miracles do happen - I couldn't be more happy. Life has its little moments - he fell down and bought a bottle of whisky on Saturday and I emptied it in the flower bed :o - he accepted that and didn't drink.

    So life is good but very busy. The old man I work for has been in hospital with pneumonia so I've been 24/7 looking after his 90 year old very frail wife, doing hospital visits and of course we have now hit Easter hols so it's all a bit tricky juggling - but I'm happy to be busy, working and looking after other people because it stops me from mooching about and getting sad.

    Lots of hugs to anyone in need. Thankyou as always to everyone on here - you have helped me rebuild my life in such a positive way. I was looking forward to spring and being sober - it is amazing, our garden has never looked so fine and we have about 600 seedling flowers and veggies growing in the conservatory - yes.....I am a gardening nerd :cool:.

    Shaggy - I'm not ever going to drink again - there's no way I would go back to that horrible horrible place. So I'm not going to worry you with the targets anymore. But thankyou a million times over for running it - it was one of the biggest things which pulled me through the first month of giving up :)
    thankyou.
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