The New Me And Our Quest To Become Debt Free And Have Self Belief

verynewmoneysaver

So glad you're okay Weller. Things will work out eventually, they always do somehow. You have a lovely husband and children. I am in my fifties and have gone through hard times in my life, but I have come through and so will you. I know it must be a terrible worry, and such a blow after everything else, but I believe you will get through this.:A

Snaggles

Weller, I'm really not sure what to say, but I feel so terrible for you, and hate to think of you so upset. I wish there was something I could do.

Having your house repossessed would be horrible, there's no doubt about that......but losing your hubby and those lovely children would be far worse, and I'm sure they think that losing you would be far worse too.

Please keep talking - to Andy, to the doctors, to us.....to anyone..... Don't give up now after you have come so far. If there's anything at all I can do, please PM me. Take care, Love Snaggles xxx

markokeeffe

Weller - firstly big hugs to you. For the second time in three days I am in tears over others problems - bit worrying really as I'm supposed to be the big hard man going for his bailiff certificate. Least they'll be someone out there with a heart hopefully.

Anyway, I believe that even if the company go into liquidation you should get something from the Redundancy Payments Service, a government agency. Certainly when a firm that I worked for went under I got some! This may help.

In the meantime, speak to CAB and your mortgage company. IF the lender goes for an eviction then get an application in to suspend the warrant straight away (PM me if you want) and I'll also email you my phone number if you need some more advice.

catewithers

Hang in there - every time that mist descends come back onhere and read all the posts from everyone. When things look like there's no way out, remember that Andy, Sam and Molly are what matter. When it feels hopeless, remember that this too will pass. I know it's hard to try and think positively when things are so tough but my experience is that these things will pass and in a few more hours or tomorrow you won't feel quite so desperate. It's a cyclical thing.

We're all thinking of you and rooting for you. Stick with us and you will be ok.

Dumyat

I dont have any practical advice to give about the mortgage. hopefully andy will find work quickly. I suppose best thing to do is to inform the mortgage company. its not his fault the company went in to liquidation and maybe they will look kindly on your situation especially when you think he will get another job quickly.

I am thinking of you...kept checking back to see if you had posted. I wish I could help you.

moonlightpjs

If you wonderful people weren't enough for me (and you all are, believe me) then I have just had my faith in humanity restored by a very kind, wonderful, special, caring DFW whom I will not name as this person probably wants to stay annom but you know who you are and how I feel about you :A

Anyway, we have decided to ask my dad for help, he may not be speaking to me but I am positive he will not let our house be repossessd, if not for my sake (though I think he would) but for his grandchildren, so we are going to swallow our pride and ask him. i will pay him back every penny and hopefully this could be just what we need to get things right for us (Dad and me) again, hopefully it will get us talking at least. Fingers crossed for me please. Will update when 've spoken to him.
Am going to bath my beautiful daughter now - have you seen the time????

Thank you so much to each and every one of you - you are all so special and fantastic - what would I do without you eh?

Love to you all xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Snaggles

I've got everything crossed for you that your Dad will be able to help (and especially that it will get you talking again).

The reason people are being lovely to you is because YOU are lovely, and you deserve the support that people are showing you.....and don't you forget it lady!

Lots of love, Snaggles xxx

firesidemaid

i too am so glad you are ok - was quite worried today about you all.

i hope all goes well with your dad.

i also wonder whether you would be entitled to some benefits/money (even retrospectively) for the time your husband has worked and not been paid?

take care for now x

catewithers

Fingers crossed. Enjoy Molly's bath! x

jennynoo

My fingers are crossed, making it hard to eat my grapefruit but grapefruit are hard to eat anyway. (she says with grapefruit juice splattered all over her face):rotfl: