The New Me And Our Quest To Become Debt Free And Have Self Belief

jennynoo

Oh weller, that's awful, poor Sam. You never know, maybe some parent will find them and demand they are returned.

bobbadog

I hope they turn up tomorrow, Weller - they probably just got pushed aside in the whole madness of getting changed and all that. No decent parent would let their kids come home with someone elses shoes without doing something about it Fingers crossed for you and Sam! x

jennynoo

Hi Weller, How are things? Did you get the shoes back? I hope you are well and enjoying the sunshine today

chevalier

I have read your thread over the last months, and I think you have done amazingly well. You have so much to cope with. I hope your family are proud of you. I don't know you, but I am very proud of you
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Honeybee_2

Weller, what size is he?

moonlightpjs

Hi everybody
Things not so good at the moment - hubby was laid off today - just came out of the blue and I'm at my wits end. The mortgage won't be paid on Tuesday and we are on a suspended possession order and we haven't a penny to our names - have spent everything we saved in going towards a very nasty debt.

My Dad isn't talking to me as my Mum has told him, drilled it in to him that all the debt she got into was to give me money and he believes her to a point but its just not true and I can't convince him otherwise as he wont answer the phone or open the door - shes so nasty and horrible and I want a new Mum (how sad is that - I'm 36 years old and all I want is a Mum). She admitted what she was doing so I dont know why she has changed her story, I suppose it just wasnt going her way -she told my dad that she didnt tell him at first as she didnt want him to fall out with me but since my dad said she had to pay it all back herself as he wasnt going to help she changed her story - probably thinking he would pay it back if he thought it was my debt. I just dont know.

We (on this site) the other day were talking about soap stories - well I think I'm living one and I have had just about enough and I cant see any way forward now. We had a DCA phoning a neighbour looking for us but have called them and asked them to stop so just waiting on a letter from them.


I dont know if I should post anymore as I'm a disgrace to this site and useless to my family, in fact, lets be honest I might as well not be here at all then hubby would get insurance money, pay mortgage and debts off and everything would be ok - he'd meet someone else, nicer, slimmer and who would be a good mum to my kids and all in the garden would be rosy

Sam wants to know why I've been crying all day, I've eaten my nephews easter eggs taht I'd bought for them and now cant afford to buy them anymore.

I am totally at the end of my tether and you all dont derserve someone like me bringing you all down so take care everyone - so sorry, everything was going so well and Icant take anymore

jennynoo

Weller, don't be silly, you haven't done anything wrong. I'm so sorry to hear that things are not getting better for you but they will eventually. You have made the effort to try and sort things out and that is the most anyone can ask. We on MSE are all behind you and will help in any way we can. Big hug to you.

WiseOldBird_2

Weller, please PLEASE please hang on. NOTHING is that bad. Your lovely family really need you. I know you feel at the very bottom at the minute, and we can be our own worst enemies. Please don't give into these negative feelings. Your posts have shown your NOTHING like that. You're a loving wonderful mother and wife. You've had a lot of c**p to deal with over the last years so I can imagine how hard it is.

Take a long slow breath and try and let us know exactly what the pressing problems are and we'll see if we can help. I'm sure all your cyber friends will be along soon to let you know how much we care. Sending a great big hug (even though I'm not computer literate enough to send any clever smilies or owt).

gettingitsorted

weller711 wrote: »

Hi everybody
Things not so good at the moment - hubby was laid off today - just came out of the blue and I'm at my wits end. The mortgage won't be paid on Tuesday and we are on a suspended possession order and we haven't a penny to our names - have spent everything we saved in going towards a very nasty debt.

My Dad isn't talking to me as my Mum has told him, drilled it in to him that all the debt she got into was to give me money and he believes her to a point but its just not true and I can't convince him otherwise as he wont answer the phone or open the door - shes so nasty and horrible and I want a new Mum (how sad is that - I'm 36 years old and all I want is a Mum). She admitted what she was doing so I dont know why she has changed her story, I suppose it just wasnt going her way -she told my dad that she didnt tell him at first as she didnt want him to fall out with me but since my dad said she had to pay it all back herself as he wasnt going to help she changed her story - probably thinking he would pay it back if he thought it was my debt. I just dont know.

We (on this site) the other day were talking about soap stories - well I think I'm living one and I have had just about enough and I cant see any way forward now. We had a DCA phoning a neighbour looking for us but have called them and asked them to stop so just waiting on a letter from them.


I dont know if I should post anymore as I'm a disgrace to this site and useless to my family, in fact, lets be honest I might as well not be here at all then hubby would get insurance money, pay mortgage and debts off and everything would be ok - he'd meet someone else, nicer, slimmer and who would be a good mum to my kids and all in the garden would be rosy

Sam wants to know why I've been crying all day, I've eaten my nephews easter eggs taht I'd bought for them and now cant afford to buy them anymore.

I am totally at the end of my tether and you all dont derserve someone like me bringing you all down so take care everyone - so sorry, everything was going so well and Icant take anymore

Weller ,You are not a disgrace to this site or anyone else ,please stay on here there are soooo many people who can advise you and help you through this situation we are all hear to SUPPORT YOU .

jennynoo

Weller, I can't imagine what it's been like for you these last couple of months, so many ups and downs and I don't know if I could cope but please don't loose hope. I lost my dad when I was 20 and even though I was quite mature it still hurts, no one can replace your parents. Your kids need you.