you know when all you lovely people give advice...

SarahNeedle1872

postingalwaysposting wrote: »

hi sarah... things havent been well. Still low and just reading at present and not posting so much :rolleyes:. Lots of things doing my head in really, completed day 5 of ten today and i am truely knackered to the point wehre i cant even be bothered to clean my awful room :rolleyes: seriously stressing about money since payday. Mum asked about our holiday today (may) that isnt going to happen unless i pass my driving test ~ great more pressure. Just loads of things building up and making things worse and worse. Cant deal with xmas or anything right about now... had stupid thoughts again friday even to the point i ended up dreaming that this was all over, quite frightening really however that the best nights sleep i have had in ages... need to get through to teh weekend and i will be fine... its just getting there

anyways best go and lurk again speak soon

Try not to stress too much hun, and if u wanna chat/vent, u know where I am!

Take care of urself x

Sarah xxx

postingalwaysposting

SarahNeedle1872 wrote: »

Try not to stress too much hun, and if u wanna chat/vent, u know where I am!

Take care of urself x

Sarah xxx

thanks sarah, just want to fade into the background if i am honest ~ for a while at least

brummiebabe

postingalwaysposting wrote: »

Its a pain in the rear end really it is i dont have a fab birthday anyways as no one really cares as they are celebrating for themselves

Hi PAP - from another girl with a New Year's Eve birthday - it must be the worst (except for xmas day) day to have a birthday!! I hate it!!!! No one really remembers, it's too expensive to go out & everyone's just interested in THEIR night out:mad: :mad:

Anyhow....I just don't do New Year AT ALL - nor do most of my immediate family...we all hate it! I'm lucky really as my DH and my kids now make my birthday more enjoyable than it's been for years:T !!!

I'll be thinking of you on our birthday

postingalwaysposting

thinking of you too hun, maybe one day i can enjoy my birthday? anyways i was actually due christmas day so in a tiny way i am glad i was born after xmas even if it is the second rubbish day in the whole year :rotfl:

have a great birthday hun :j

brummiebabe

You too PAP!!;)

Sea78

Hey PaP - mine is on the 29th, when everyone is on a downer because of christmas being over, but saving money for New Years Eve - so I can completely sympathise. Also I don't do New Year at all - really don't like gong out etc. So just stay in, have a drink and enjoy myself on the whole!! Lol. Christmas/birthday combined pressies as a kid were the worst, weren't they? I feel so sorry for Sophia as her bday is the day before mine so she's got all this to look forward to!

postingalwaysposting

hi sea.... yep combined presents are the worst... its my bros birthday on thursday so me and him always got combined presents but when you looked at it it was no more than what my sister got only she got more presents on her birthday in september... so unfair. Last year my sister never even gave me a birthday present so i have told everyone not to bother and i dont want anything, i dont celebrate it and no one truely cares! I guess thats why i am still annoyed at my camera because that was going to be 'my' gift. i have made a pile of ebay things including my old sega and puzzles so fingers crossed i can raise the cash... however i am so tempted to 0% it but i know that will solve nothing :rolleyes:

i feel sorry to sophia too grrr :rolleyes:

Sea78

You see - I'm blatent about it!! I tell people not to bother to give combined resents and at the mo I always mention Sophia's birthday and moan about it lol - this tends to ensure that people who genuinely forget, don't and those who don't care, don't try to give combined gift!

SarahNeedle1872

I've lost the post where i showed ur camera, so can't remeber how much it was:o .... but why not 0% it? U know ur disciplined enough to pay it off, and if it means u get a birthday treat, u should go for it! How longs ur 0% last until?

Sarah x

Sea78

And, actually, I think you shoudl make a big deal of it hon - shout about it frmo the rooftops - we'll certainly celebrate it on here.

All up for a PaP's birthday celebration on 31st December?

Sea xx