Sexting:(

jamespir

if hes hitting you and leching after 17 year olds hes not the person for you and does not deserve anyone kick him out or if its his house find yourself somewhere else to stay

BitterAndTwisted

This absolute swine has assaulted you numerous times in the past and you're still there? Never mind his foul activities on the computer, you need to get the heck out of there. It sounds like he's already done a fair but of damage to your person, your spirit and your self-esteem or you'd have gone by now, so how much more of his !!!! are you going to tolerate before you pack your bags and make a run for freedom?

You know it makes sense so just get the hell out of there. Right away.

merlot123

BitterAndTwisted wrote: »

This absolute swine has assaulted you numerous times in the past and you're still there? Never mind his foul activities on the computer, you need to get the heck out of there. It sounds like he's already done a fair but of damage to your person, your spirit and your self-esteem or you'd have gone by now, so how much more of his !!!! are you going to tolerate before you pack your bags and make a run for freedom?

You know it makes sense so just get the hell out of there. Right away.

Well said ^^.

OP, if you need help or advice if you want to leave him, the peeps on here will give you all the help you need.

merlot123

scot88

BitterAndTwisted wrote: »

This absolute swine has assaulted you numerous times in the past and you're still there? Never mind his foul activities on the computer, you need to get the heck out of there. It sounds like he's already done a fair but of damage to your person, your spirit and your self-esteem or you'd have gone by now, so how much more of his !!!! are you going to tolerate before you pack your bags and make a run for freedom?

You know it makes sense so just get the hell out of there. Right away.

And he will continue to do so..unless you get rid of him. I know it's hard...but it can be done.

Interhacker

Send me the pics he has of her and i will judge the situation for you?

Seriously though, its probably an insecurity situation, nothing you should "blame" yourself for, its easy for other people to say throw him out... but it would be better to talk about it to him.

EDIT:

Found your 'my partner hit me' thread.

Show him the door - you are worth more than this.

Get rid asap, life`s too short, get police/friends involved if need be, dont even waste time

Empty_pockets

justmel wrote: »

If this girl really is under 18 not only is he betraying you in a disgusting manner but by exchanging pics with her he is breaking the law,itis illegal to do that with a girl under 18

Is it? Why?

NeverAgain_2

It is an offence for an adult to encourage a child to engage in sexual activity - swapping mucky pics would qualify.

The age of the girl is crucial.

The OP says she is 'probably about 17', clearly she could be anything from 15 to 20.

It is no defence for husband to say he thought, or she told him, she was over 18, nor is it a defence that she is a willing participant.

However, these matters will reduce his penalty, should he be prosecuted.

It might not do a lot for the marriage, but it's an option for the OP to contact the police with the information she has.

This is not a case where the coppers would do nothing, at the very least they would bottom out the age of the girl.

Big_Alf

As someone mentioned tough love and a reality check are whats needed here. If the physical abuse wasn't enough, now this?

If you are unwilling to help yourself and walk away from this sorry excuse for a man then im sorry, but all the e-hugs in the world are not going to do any good.

Honestly ask yourself , what does he have to do for you to leave him?

justmel

Empty_pockets wrote: »

Is it? Why?

It's because she is a minor,same applies to boys under 18 too,it's illegal to exchange,view or posess sexually explicit photo's of a minor..that is if she is under 18 which isn't known for sure.

I admit i only know that because i saw it on 'The sex education show' where they were educating kids about sexting and cyber sex but it makes sense really,all models used for proffesional erotic modelling must be 18 or over.

Anyway that is just a part of the problem,OP you have many,many reasons to leave this man and not a single one to stay,youmust reclaim your life x

Bufger

It may seem like a massive step at the moment and you may not want to make such a drastic change but you need to get rid of this man as he will only hurt you time and time again. It will be painful at first and you may want to go back to him but i promise you that you will be better off soon.

Dont delay, have your stuff ready, get somewhere to stay and tell him you're going. No room for talk, no discussion needed.