Will - excluding a child

nobodyspecial

DUTR wrote: »

So you mean you like the companionship of a bloke, but scared in case they do one, after you start laying down the law?
And then to add insult to injury, the offspring is left a small % of the estate after he has passed away

Could we have that in English please?

DUTR

nobodyspecial wrote: »

Could we have that in English please?

Somebody explain it to nobodyspecial please

Money_maker

Just wanted to mention that the OP hasn't logged in again since 17/11!

Welshwoofs

nobodyspecial wrote: »

Could we have that in English please?

It was in perfectly recognisable and understandable English.

If I were you I'd wind your neck in; calling people w**ker on the basis that they disagree with you makes you look rather lacking in class.

nobodyspecial

No DUTR, no time to run and hide You explain exactly why any bloke should have unprotected sex without any consequences, because blokes are too stupid to understand the consequences.Or we could enter the real world, where real blokes accept the consequences of unprotected sex without whining "she trapped me" or "I'm so stooooopid, I didn't realise she could get pregnant if I ejaculated inside her" Poor blokes, never had a biology lesson, there, there xxx

nobodyspecial

Welshwoofs wrote: »

It was in perfectly recognisable and understandable English.

If I were you I'd wind your neck in; calling people w**ker on the basis that they disagree with you makes you look rather lacking in class.

Please use the whole quote. You really think DUTR was accurate in his (?)

assessment that my initial post suggested I didn't enjoy sex???????

Just because I think a man is equally responsible for contraception............. I give up!!!!!

DUTR

nobodyspecial wrote: »

No DUTR, no time to run and hide You explain exactly why any bloke should have unprotected sex without any consequences, because blokes are too stupid to understand the consequences.Or we could enter the real world, where real blokes accept the consequences of unprotected sex without whining "she trapped me" or "I'm so stooooopid, I didn't realise she could get pregnant if I ejaculated inside her" Poor blokes, never had a biology lesson, there, there xxx

It's not a run or hide, there are the odd few posters that mention that, I cannot speak for them, I had my one too many and paying the CSA without complaint , though with the spirit of the thread, I don't have to leave a large % of my estate to the off spring. It seems that some are offended by it, as it reduces their 'bragging rights'

nobodyspecial

DUTR wrote: »

It's not a run or hide, there are the odd few posters that mention that, I cannot speak for them, I had my one too many and paying the CSA without complaint , though with the spirit of the thread, I don't have to leave a large % of my estate to the off spring. It seems that some are offended by it, as it reduces their 'bragging rights'

I'm glad to hear you are paying for your responsibility:D But don't you think it horrible for your offspring to know how little you think of them. A relative of mine was given for adoption, on adulthood traced her mother, was rejected again. How do you think she feels? Do neither of her biological parents owe her nothing, they should be able to screw her over again and again???? A pox on them I say :D

DUTR

nobodyspecial wrote: »

I'm glad to hear you are paying for your responsibility:D But don't you think it horrible for your offspring to know how little you think of them. A relative of mine was given for adoption, on adulthood traced her mother, was rejected again. How do you think she feels? Do neither of her biological parents owe her nothing, they should be able to screw her over again and again???? A pox on them I say :D

A true story of a colleague, he was stitched up big time on csa 1, his Mrs worked for the same company too, denied him access, was getting 50% of his wages and still sending the children round 'unkept' after a time he lost the plot and ended up doing time, however whilst he was in prison, his ex got cancer and lost the battle, so as well as the life assurance he has the children , house and no more hassle, so it's not just the blokes that end up losing.
As for my circumstance, my points of contact are still the same as they ever were, so I am easy to find , the child has my skin flesh and bones, but the mind body and soul are there own, there is one bloke in life that NEVER has to do the chasing :cool:

nobodyspecial

It's late and I've had a drink or three, but your last post makes me think you may be female * shrugs*

Whatever, I think that to be prepared to screw up an innocent child you have to be some b@stard. To be happy to let someone carry your baggage through their life........ I'm speechless. Whatever happened to personal responsibility ????? Oh forgot, it's every git for themselves and devil take the hindmost. Bet the biggest abusers are the loudest complainers once the pigeons come home to roost.