Being realistic, being kinder and taking my time.....

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OrangeFairy wrote: »

Oh Choc! Sorry to hear of family problems! It really bugs me that families cause problems for wedding! No one other than the bride and groom should really have a say in anything. I hope you get it sorted.

Here's to a stressfree day tomorrow! Take your anger out at combat class!

Thanks hon. I did...pictured a few people and punched like mad :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

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New day, going to try and focus on the positive rather than negative as can't change peoples behaviour but I can change my own.

Todays mini-to-do list....

• Working until 6pm
• Combat class
• Eat sensibly
• Check online banking and work out plan for remaining couple of weeks until payday
• Mini spruce of house

That's it - small and simple. Nothing too major in there so should be able to do all of them. Combat isn't until 8pm so I will fit in a mini spruce during my lunch break or after work.

I'm happy as weight 10st 7lbs this morning, the lightest i've been in a long while and I feel and look a lot better for losing those few lbs. Now my next aim is to get to 10st - I shall prob stop there and try and maintain it. However, I think this 7lbs is def going to be the hard part and it's going to be watching carefully what I eat not something i'm good at!

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Yesterdays update....


Work
Finished at 6pm as planned


Diet and fitness
Ate reasonably well - did have a couple of biscuits though
Combat class - done!


Money
No spend day :j
Checked online banking - looks ok(ish)


House
Spruced entire house
2 washloads
Put some things back up in loft
Batch cooked spag bowl and chilli


Wedding
Wrote out final evening invites - ready to post today
Wrote list for OH to do on his day off

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No aims for me today. Day of rest exercise wise. Meeting friend after work for a coffee then travelling to Southampton to stay with another friend over night and then go to another friends little girls birthday Saturday afternoon. Followed by a visit to my Dad later on. All in all a nice weekend ahead visiting friends and family

Which reminds me I must pack an overnight bag at some point!

Hope everyone had a good day!

Karen x

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£3.46 transferred to debt repayment fund. Means I now have £203.46 sat there ready and waiting to overpay on a particular debt. Although I think plan will be to actually save enough to clear one in full. This is my aim.

wendz86

Hi,

Just found your diary!

Hope you had a nice weekend in southampton.

Sorry to hear you have been having family problems to do with the wedding, what a nightmare.

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wendz86 wrote: »

Hi,

Just found your diary!

Hope you had a nice weekend in southampton.

Sorry to hear you have been having family problems to do with the wedding, what a nightmare.

Hey! Had a lovely time thank you

It is a nightmare but it's less than 3 months to go now and I fully intend on enjoying every last minute until the big day itself! Glad you found a potential venue - so very exciting!!!!!

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Productive day/eve had yesterday wedding wise....

Started gift list
Made table names
Started preping for table planning
Emailed Order of Service to Church
Got file up together
Delegated some duties to others - ease stress on ourselves
Ordered gorgeous trinket boxes as presents for bridesmaids

Not bad and all done with a poorly (man flu) OH behind me! :rotfl:

No plans as such for the day ahead as working but shall update later tonight.

Have a good day x

wendz86

Sounds like you got lots done. There are so many little bits to think about aren't there!

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wendz86 wrote: »

Sounds like you got lots done. There are so many little bits to think about aren't there!

It's the little bits that drive me crazy! I can cope with the big jobs, they're straight forward (most of the time!) the little things as niggly!