Ex missus wants to claim CSA off me

Zara33

The CSA do not contact you until the child is born and even then it is several months, so if you are going to lie please make sure you know all the facts before you start.

seven-day-weekend

I don't think he actually said the CSA had contacted him, did he?

Shedo-kuru

Zara33 wrote:

The CSA do not contact you until the child is born and even then it is several months, so if you are going to lie please make sure you know all the facts before you start.

1. Im not lying

2. No i didnt feel it, so all i have to go by is what she told me

3. I shall see what i can do to sort it out before they come a knocking then

Thanks to all who gave serious thoughts to this..

And i apologise to all who think this is a wind-up, but again, this is my !!!! little life at the moment, where i've dug my own grave with a horrible family..

Pink_butterfly_3

She sounds incredibly immature and stupid. What on earth you were doing with her, i don't know. Maybe you like that sort of girl.

Its awful that people like this are allowed to procreate willy-nilly and ruin their kids lives, whilst loving couples have to go through months if not years or anuguish and waiting if they want to adopt.

I'm speechless.

Shedo-kuru

seven-day-weekend wrote:

I don't think he actually said the CSA had contacted him, did he?

No the CSA havent, her mother has contacted me demanding benefits

Rikki

Who's aimee?

Shedo-kuru

Pink_butterfly wrote:

She sounds like an immature and stupid. What on earth you were doing with her, i don't know. Maybe you like that sort of girl.

Its awful that people like this are allowed to procreate willy-nilly and ruin their kids lives, whilst loving couples have to go through months if not years or anuguish and waiting if they want to adopt.

I'm speechless.

Well, as before mentioned.. i myself was immature.. i always have been young for my age, i was no better than she..

She was my first sexual partner, first and only sexual partner, whereas i was definately not hers..

I don't feel sorry for myself, i made my own mistake, i have to live with it, i feel sorry for the child, its going to have a !!!! life if it stays with them..

And the adoption service is crap, like you said, it takes forever

newcook

If (as you said) you were 'raped' why did you not report it to the police???

you then said you woke up and then used precautions so are you assuming that the pregnancy was from when you were 'taken advantage of' *trying to stifle giggle* rather that when you consented seconds later when you were awake...??

I hate to ask an obvious question but what is a (by law) grown man doing having a relationship with a schoolgirl?? you are old enough to drink and vote - she's not old enough to have a NI card!

you need to get a dna done - end of story.

Shedo-kuru

Rikki wrote:

Who's aimee?

O-o where'd that come from?

Rikki

Shedo-kuru wrote:

O-o where'd that come from?

Nice new haircut too!