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Ex missus wants to claim CSA off me

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  • djdido2
    djdido2 Posts: 3,446 Forumite
    When is the baby due shedo???
    I'm not a "SINGLE" mum, I'm a "DOUBLE" mum!:D
  • Zara33
    Zara33 Posts: 5,441 Forumite
    1,000 Posts
    Shedo-kuru wrote:
    If you'd read the entire thread, i was technically raped.. when i was actually awake we were careful. If you were raped did you report it to the police? you were careful :confused: what with paracetmol
    Well, the first thoughts, when we were together were going to be she was going to have the child adopted at birth.. if you both didn't want the child would abortion not have been an option?
    But her mother was going to kick her out of the house and claim the child as hers :mad: so eventually the daughter joined her side of thinking

    Still appears far fetched :confused:
    Hit the snitch button!
    member #1 of the official warning clique.
    :D:j:D
    Feel the love baby!
  • I think the child should be adopted by decent parents who would do anything for a baby personally.

    Shame you have to fit so many rules and regs before these families can do so.

    Yes, I totally agree.
    (AKA HRH_MUngo)
    Member #10 of £2 savers club
    Imagine someone holding forth on biology whose only knowledge of the subject is the Book of British Birds, and you have a rough idea of what it feels like to read Richard Dawkins on theology: Terry Eagleton
  • iceicebaby
    iceicebaby Posts: 3,633 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Shedo-kuru wrote:
    If you'd read the entire thread, i was technically raped.. when i was actually awake we were careful.

    Well, the first thoughts, when we were together were going to be she was going to have the child adopted at birth..

    But her mother was going to kick her out of the house and claim the child as hers :mad: so eventually the daughter joined her side of thinking


    SORRY TO BE SO GRAPHIC FOLKS

    So you were jumped on, had s*x with and then u ejaculated all without knowing ?

    I'm sorry , but myself and others here find that ludicrous.

    Unless you were dead you surely would have felt something? even the pleasure?

    Either this whole thing is a lie or you are saying that you were "raped" in order to absolve yourself of having unprotected s*x. Either way, you still knowingly had s*x with an UNDERAGE girl
    Baby Ice arrived 17th April 2011. Tired.com! :j
  • Just visited her Profile page on a website..Read the things she loves, and bare in mind this is a 15 year old, 7 or 8 month pregnant girl

    "-x-My name is charl-x-
    -x-Can clearly see what i look like so no point me giving a description to much work-x-
    -x- I have a baby girl whos born next month-x-
    -x-Change my hair to much-x-
    -x-Getting my belly pierced (again) for a 4th time after babys born-x-
    -x- I really cant stand really bad emos they do my head in-x-
    -x-I love goin out with ppl an having a laugh with my bros band half the time-x-
    -x-Like strongbow,snakebite,carling,l
    ots of beer yum!!!Smirnoff ice,WKD,takeila slammer (or how ever stupid way u spell it),Jack daniels,shots,rooster,red bull an well anything really-x-

    Happiest When
    AAHHH the joy of the thing called sin!!!Weve all tryed it and it feels good...too good :D as in hvin a romp or gettin pist i mean"
  • Yes, I totally agree.

    I hope it does get adopted..if it does and it is my child..i'll happily pay them.
  • iceicebaby wrote:
    SORRY TO BE SO GRAPHIC FOLKS

    So you were jumped on, had s*x with and then u ejaculated all without knowing ?

    I'm sorry , but myself and others here find that ludicrous.

    Unless you were dead you surely would have felt something? even the pleasure?

    Either this whole thing is a lie or you are saying that you were "raped" in order to absolve yourself of having unprotected s*x. Either way, you still knowingly had s*x with an UNDERAGE girl

    Look, for the last time, im already on the register for admitting sleeping with an underage girl..

    But yes, she was also sleeping with me unprotected as i slept. I myself found it rediculous..That is the reason we broke up. Shame it was too late
  • Zara33
    Zara33 Posts: 5,441 Forumite
    1,000 Posts
    Shedo-kuru what complete and utter b*llocks!! your whole story is a load of tosh.
    Hit the snitch button!
    member #1 of the official warning clique.
    :D:j:D
    Feel the love baby!
  • djdido2
    djdido2 Posts: 3,446 Forumite
    So did she tell you she had raped you then because if you never felt it then you would never know would you???


    And besides, even if the child is yours by the time the CSA catch up with you and retrieve any monies from you the child will have left school and have a job of its own.

    *Huge dig at CSA*:)
    I'm not a "SINGLE" mum, I'm a "DOUBLE" mum!:D
  • iceicebaby
    iceicebaby Posts: 3,633 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Good point. How did you know she had done it if you didnt feel it ?
    Baby Ice arrived 17th April 2011. Tired.com! :j
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