Ex missus wants to claim CSA off me

Shedo-kuru

Zara33 wrote:

So Adam according to your ex you chose not to buy or use condoms

O_o !!!!!!

thats not true AT ALL and they know it

pipkin71

You were living with her for 9 months. Baby due next month. She's only 15 - nearly 16, which makes her 14 when you started having ILLEGAL sex with a minor.

If this is true and not a wind up, I believe you deserve everything you get.

Debt_Free_Chick

Cut the guy a little slack, eh?

He's only 19. I dread to recall how naive I was at that age ... sigh ... I can barely remember.

newcook

Graham_Devon wrote:

Easy. Place called Bebo.

She looks classy

G_D - I am terrible with this sort of stuff but could do with a giggle - can you send the link? either post or PM! x:D

Shedo-kuru

your all sick taking delight in my pain!!

seven-day-weekend

Debt_Free_Chick wrote:

Cut the guy a little slack, eh?

He's only 19. I dread to recall how naive I was at that age ... sigh ... I can barely remember.

Yes, I agree. This could be YOUR son or brother asking advice.

Would you like him ridiculed and made fun of?

Everyone stop doing the Jade Goody impressions and let's try to help the lad.

How is he ever going to become more mature unless mature people show him a better way and point him in the right direction?

Shedo-kuru

seven-day-weekend wrote:

Yes, I agree. This could be YOUR son or brother asking advice.

Would you like him ridiculed and made fun of?

Everyone stop doing the Jade Goody impressions and let's try to help the lad.

How is he ever going to become more mature unless mature people show him a better way and point him in the right direction?

TT__TT thank you for your kindness..

Zara33

Shedo-kuru

BEST BIT OF ADVICE I CAN GIVE YOU, GET A DNA TEST DONE THEN WORRY ABOUT THE REST WHEN THE RESULTS COME BACK

Graham_Devon

No ones taking delight.

You tripped yourself over so many times its like watching a lemming on speed

If you had said 'My ex partner is trying to claim CSA off me, I think shes slept with others, where do I go from here' instead of saying you were raped while you were in a deep sleep and never woke up, not even when they pipes were cleaned out, think paracetamol is the pill, had slept with a girl over 16, didnt want to 'pay' these fake adopters to take it all away etc I'm sure the thread would have been a bit different.

Fact is, your still digging away with that trowel at a mighty impressive speed.

Pink_butterfly_3

Hes been given all the best advice we can possibly give in the first few pages. He needs to speak to his family or maybe the CAB.

What else can any one say?