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Ex missus wants to claim CSA off me

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  • dmg24 wrote:
    May I ask why she got you imprisoned?

    I really dont know.. one minute we were friends, the next police had me locked up..

    And then there were the lies, it took me over 3 months to get all the truth out of the police, turned out, whilst saying one thing to me, she'd told the police i'd beaten her up and technically raped her..

    Which is bull..I was the raped.
  • How old are you? This sounds like a total wind up to me.

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  • How old are you? This sounds like a total wind up to me.

    PP
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    I'm 19, and i swear on my life, my mothers life, all my pets lives, this is NOT a wind up
  • Rikki
    Rikki Posts: 21,625 Forumite
    dmg24 wrote:
    This has to be a wind up?!!

    If its not you are one very stupid naive person.

    Under age sex, no protection, what do you expect? :confused:
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  • dmg24
    dmg24 Posts: 33,920 Forumite
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    She is under sixteen. Technically, you did rape her. You are very lucky that you were not locked up for a great deal longer.

    The advice from the others is correct. Get a DNA test, and if it is yours, then you will not to pay child support. The income of the mother's family is irrelevant.
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  • djdido2
    djdido2 Posts: 3,446 Forumite
    You've got the cheek to say she slept around but it didn't stop you sleeping with her unprotected?????


    and underage!!!
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  • Rikki wrote:
    If its not you are one very stupid naive person.

    Under age sex, no protection, what do you expect? :confused:

    This is where i had the police force on my side, i recieved sympathy from the whole force, and remember the argument recently, over wrongly accused men, it was sparked off by my case.

    She was raping me in my sleep, i can't wear protection when im asleep.

    And there were more factirs, including taking the pill, she wasn't, she was swapping her pills for paracetamol..

    This is where i see the problem, she was signed up for the pill by her mother, before 16, i was living with them, allowed to live in the same room..

    I made my mistake, but i was a fool for love..

    And now they are letting a child be raised into that family, and im paying the price
  • If you put it about without taking the necessary precautions, then it's your own fault.

    So get ready for a dna test to see if you are the "lucky" one from the 9 to have knocked up that catch of a century.

    If you are an older guy, can you get done for s*x with a minor since it's obvious (after a dna test if it's positive) that you did?
  • angelfire
    angelfire Posts: 870 Forumite
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    Since when have contraceptive pills looked anything like paracetamol?! This has GOt to be a wind up?!
  • I don't believe a word of this. This is a wind-up by someone with too much time on his hands.
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