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Taxi...from an ugly duckling to a swan

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  • taxi73
    taxi73 Posts: 20,815 Forumite
    beanielou wrote: »
    Did you ever go for the DLa?
    If not please do it now.

    No I didn't don't think I'm sick enough to qualify for that
  • taxi73
    taxi73 Posts: 20,815 Forumite
    kissjenn wrote: »
    On bad days I do things by stages. So clean my teeth and back to bed for a chapter of my book. Contact lens in then chapter of book. Get towel and all my clothes together then chapter of book. Shower and dress then book etc.

    Somehow makes it more manageable for me...the little things aren't too daunting.

    That's what I do if I can be bothered....I can't even find motivation to get dressed most days..think I need a kick up the !!!
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,458 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    taxi73 wrote: »
    No I didn't don't think I'm sick enough to qualify for that

    I really think you need to apply for it.
    Do it now as it is being replaced in April.You do meet a lot of the criteria.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

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  • kissjenn
    kissjenn Posts: 2,358 Forumite
    Mortgage-free Glee!
    I've been like that today. I know I'd feel better all fresh and dressed but somehow it doesn't sink in. I'm going to work tomorrow and can't do that in my gownie.

    Be kind to yourself, you'll get there.
    :A Let us be grateful to people who make us happy: they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom. Marcel Proust :A
  • taxi73
    taxi73 Posts: 20,815 Forumite
    mental health team said to apply for it as well so will think about it
  • taxi73
    taxi73 Posts: 20,815 Forumite
    kissjenn wrote: »
    I've been like that today. I know I'd feel better all fresh and dressed but somehow it doesn't sink in. I'm going to work tomorrow and can't do that in my gownie.

    Be kind to yourself, you'll get there.

    If I had to go out then guess I'd get dressed.I've had it too easy with my lot as they do everything for me so I don't go out unless absolutely necessary ie hospital.
    I did instigate going out the other day for DH birthday but was glad to get home again...I will get there

    Everything is so hard and can understand how you feel too x big hugs xx
  • kissjenn
    kissjenn Posts: 2,358 Forumite
    Mortgage-free Glee!
    And you. xx

    As for DLA worse they can say is No. Macmillan can help with the forms I think. They have specialist Benefit Advisers. One of the nurses said that they have details of grants and things as well, stuff most of us would know nithing about and so never think to claim.

    Worth a chat?
    :A Let us be grateful to people who make us happy: they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom. Marcel Proust :A
  • taxi73
    taxi73 Posts: 20,815 Forumite
    keep meaning to phone them but as usual never get it done..definitely worth a chat
  • kissjenn
    kissjenn Posts: 2,358 Forumite
    Mortgage-free Glee!
    Gentle Hint - 0808 808 00 00

    xx
    :A Let us be grateful to people who make us happy: they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom. Marcel Proust :A
  • taxi73
    taxi73 Posts: 20,815 Forumite
    Thanks will try to do it tomorrow..am going to bed now as exhausted xxx night night hope you have a good sleep x
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