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Taxi...from an ugly duckling to a swan

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  • kissjenn
    kissjenn Posts: 2,358 Forumite
    Mortgage-free Glee!
    You're sounding much more chipper Taxi. So pleased for you. I hope everything keeps on the up. :A
    :A Let us be grateful to people who make us happy: they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom. Marcel Proust :A
  • taxi73
    taxi73 Posts: 20,815 Forumite
    Thanks you two...am feeling chirpier as long as I don't think of chemo.
    Mental health worker woman phoned earlier to say that she'd had a meeting with psycologist and discussed a plan.Apparently, shes going to work on getting me out of the house first and is coming thursday afternoon to see me...my lot think I've become agrophobic as have very rarely ventured out of the house in months
  • mum2one
    mum2one Posts: 16,279 Forumite
    Xmas Saver!
    this is the old taxi coming back, not taking anything lying down and getting to the bottom of things,
    It sounds like the new team are on the ball, and hopefully there be able to help, have they made any plans re CBT yet?

    Completly digressing........
    I changed my car last week, now got astra sxi (new to me), considering had last car for 11yrs........ dads now had that one, his gone to the scrapyard....... I got him double from what we were originally offered for his, but was a 10 mile drive!! - so he drove his, I followed - typical scrap yard - deep in mud - my boots just attracted it... about to get in the drivers seat - dad pipes up, you sit in the passenger seat (ok!!) I'll take your boots off so you don't get the mat dirty, but then you can't drive in socks, so I had better drive u home!!

    He was like lord muck....... playing with electric windows, testing the controls, even enjoying the up and down of the seat - anyone would think I;d brought a Rolls...... while they do say boys and toys!" xx
    xx rip dad... we had our ups and downs but we’re always be family xx
  • taxi73
    taxi73 Posts: 20,815 Forumite
    Can just picture your Dad sat there playing..lol
    Am not sure about the CBT yet but think they have a lot of issues that they need to deal with with me...she definitely said that they are planning on getting me out of the house first as that should help my mood before they work on other stuff...complex case me..lol
  • Ohhhhhh that sounds like a good plan Taxi - I know how much being in the house for just over 3 months started to get to me!

    I very nearly ended up having a panic attack the first time I went in the supermarket (and it's only a little one ... and it was mid afternoon / mid week so not busy) as there were so many people there & I couldn't cope with it.

    Fingers crossed
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    Debt free & determined to stay that way!
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,458 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    All sounding good indeed :)
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    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
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  • kissjenn
    kissjenn Posts: 2,358 Forumite
    Mortgage-free Glee!
    I think you're doing brilliantly Taxi.

    One day at a time is a good way to go.
    :A Let us be grateful to people who make us happy: they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom. Marcel Proust :A
  • taxi73
    taxi73 Posts: 20,815 Forumite
    think it would help if I got dressed as I've not been dressed for days
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,458 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Did you ever go for the DLa?
    If not please do it now.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • kissjenn
    kissjenn Posts: 2,358 Forumite
    Mortgage-free Glee!
    On bad days I do things by stages. So clean my teeth and back to bed for a chapter of my book. Contact lens in then chapter of book. Get towel and all my clothes together then chapter of book. Shower and dress then book etc.

    Somehow makes it more manageable for me...the little things aren't too daunting.
    :A Let us be grateful to people who make us happy: they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom. Marcel Proust :A
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