should i do this

mazy_m

Wise point from bitterandtwisted don't forward the post as he'll know that you have the address etc...just tell the companies his change of address.

suziesmith2011

ive done it they are in the post,he doesnt know i have his address,and i have sent them back to his creditors,

rachie_2011

dirtysexymonkey - as you seem so against this, could you tell us how you'd go about this situation if you were suziesmith2011, or any other person for that matter.

dirtysexymonkey

rachie_2011 wrote: »

dirtysexymonkey - as you seem so against this, could you tell us how you'd go about this situation if you were suziesmith2011, or any other person for that matter.

id contact the creditors informing them that he doesnt live in the house any longer attaching evidence (council tax single supplement letter for example) and inform them that any future correspondence will be put back in the post with 'not known at this address' written on it.

id also have my solicitor write to the ex and inform him of this, making him aware that all his post will be returned to sender so he should make appropriate plans with the postal service and those who write to him.

my advice was for someone clearly scared of her ex who she says is very angry. theres no need to antagonise someone your scared of. thats just stupid.

if someone wasnt scared then id be all for them knowing exactly what id done.;)

dark_lady

rachie_2011 wrote: »

dirtysexymonkey - as you seem so against this, could you tell us how you'd go about this situation if you were suziesmith2011, or any other person for that matter.

Dont hold your breath Rachie.

dirtysexymonkey

dark_lady wrote: »

Dont hold your breath Rachie.

you should learn to read the thread before you post your little attacking comments.:D:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

dark_lady

dirtysexymonkey wrote: »

you should learn to read the thread before you post your little attacking comments.:D:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Its called cross posting which is posting at the same time. The last post on the thread which i saw was Rachies which is what i was replying to.

dark_lady

dark_lady wrote: »

Its called cross posting which is posting at the same time. The last post on the thread which i saw was Rachies which is what i was replying to.

Your post was at 4.17 . mine was at 4.18 so there isnt much in sixty seconds is there?

Bloody hell. Gaslight much??!!!

suziesmith2011

thank you all for your advice,its done now.he can deal with it,and not me.

Starrystarrynight

It sounds like you are already going through enough, OP, without having to worry about debt collectors etc turning up on your doorstep. Your former partner seems to have no qualms in leaving you in a mess, so please don't feel bad about giving the forwarding address and protecting yourself.