should i do this

newcook

Id ask for a list of things that he wants as as far as you are aware he has all his belongings.

as for the post, send it to the creditors with his new address - as he doesnt know that you know it he wont know it was you that told them!

fannyanna

I don't think it's unreasonable at all. Just do it and don't feel guilty.

suziesmith2011

i worry too much,he just wants to intimidate me now,i have started divorce proceedings,i have never opened his post, but have done after he left,he owes a lot of money and needs to impress his girlfriend.so he cancelled his direct debits.

Mupette

if he needs to gain access to your joint home, arrange a time when someone can be there with you.

Don't trust him, as already said remove your precious items just incase he damages them or takes them claiming to be his.

never ever let him turn up and come in when you are on your own.

dirtysexymonkey

Mupette wrote: »

if he needs to gain access to your joint home, arrange a time when someone can be there with you.

Don't trust him, as already said remove your precious items just incase he damages them or takes them claiming to be his.

never ever let him turn up and come in when you are on your own.

its his house too. if he wants to turn up at 3am and make a brew then he can and theres nothing the op can do to stop him.

im wondering how angry this man can be if the op wants to declare war in this way. would you really antagonise someone who you're scared of?

suziesmith2011

i wont,but i was burgled whilst i was on holiday,my burgler only took the tv and cut a cable for the internet,disabled the house alarm,oh and smashed the back door,

suziesmith2011

im not antagonising,i him dont have any communication with him at all,only through the solicitor.

dirtysexymonkey

suziesmith2011 wrote: »

im not antagonising,i him dont have any communication with him at all,only through the solicitor.

what do you call giving his creditors his new address? do you really think he wont find out it was you?

im all for people getting their comeuppance but in this case, i dont think itd be a good idea.

mazy_m

Susie you're not antagonising him by forwarding on his address to the relevant companies...as someone said you don't want people turning up on your doorstep demanding money or threatening to take things. If they then are able to locate him and chase him for the money then he will just have to face up to his responsibilities.

suziesmith2011

the letters are getting very frequent,almost daily,im trying to avoid people turning up on the doorstep,nothing much left to take now anyway,he took things before he left without me knowing, he knew what he was going to do.