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  • MamaMoo_2
    MamaMoo_2 Posts: 2,644 Forumite
    sexki11en wrote: »
    I happen to think that asking if everyone into fetish or sex is a hooker, is actually not reasonable.

    SK x

    That didn't appear to be the case though. I don't think the link was fetish=hooker.
  • halibut2209
    halibut2209 Posts: 4,250 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    really curious about this nursery rhyme!
    One important thing to remember is that when you get to the end of this sentence, you'll realise it's just my sig.
  • Triker
    Triker Posts: 7,247 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    Just to add, and I'm sorry to remind you of the other horrible side to this, please don't forget to have some STI (sexually transmitted infections) tests done...urgently.
    DFW Nerd 267. DEBT FREE 11.06.08
    Stick to It by R.B. Stanfield
    It matters not if you try and fail,
    And fail, and try again; But it matters much if you try and fail, And fail to try again.
  • sexki11en wrote: »
    For goodness sake! You don't have to be a hooker to be into fetish! How small minded (or naive) are some people?

    SK x

    how rude

    i was asking if she was a hooker because she has a webpage and a profile of sorts. I thought she could possibly advertising herself

    i am not small minded and not naive. You, however, are very judgemental
  • sexki11en wrote: »
    I happen to think that asking if everyone into fetish or sex is a hooker, is actually not reasonable.

    SK x

    please direct me to where i asked this question


    i've obviously hit a sensitive issue with you :rotfl:
  • blue_monkey_2
    blue_monkey_2 Posts: 11,435 Forumite
    how rude

    i was asking if she was a hooker because she has a webpage and a profile of sorts. I thought she could possibly advertising herself

    i am not small minded and not naive. You, however, are very judgemental

    I too thought the same thing as lotus-eater so I do not think there was anything wrong with the statement. The woman has a webpage where she puts up picture of herself fondelling men. Just the same man, or different men?

    Do all people into fetish have a webpage with them fondelling different male members? Is this all part of the scene or something?

    Or maybe the woman is just easy and she will do the same to him as he has done to the OP. As that would be a shame. NOT! Karma and all that.

    Although I do think you touched a nerve with sexki11en for some reason...... I cannot think why that would be.
  • CH27
    CH27 Posts: 5,531 Forumite
    Have you managed to get photocopies of relevant documents yet OP?
    Try to be a rainbow in someone's cloud.
  • Melonade
    Melonade Posts: 747 Forumite
    Flippin eck, poor you :( I can understand ppl saying you need to keep it together and keep your mouth shut... play it safe and all that, I agree. It's going to be really difficult for you. I hope you can get things sorted on Monday with your solicitor and you'll have a clear idea of how you move forward.

    I would of flipped by now and printed the pics off 100 million times and wallpapered the whole house with them :eek: Emailed them to his work collegues, posted them as flyers through the neighbours doors and stuck them inside every phonebox within a 10 mile radius :(

    I hope you can stay strong, good luck and I wish you all the best xx
    Even if you stumble, you're still moving forward.
  • OP forgive me, I haven't read the whole update, but when they are away together seems like a good time to act.
    the mortgage is in his name, as is the house? how can the op stop it? the house may be an asset of the marriage but if he sells it or remortgages, then the money becomes an asset iyswim?

    Her solicitor can put a stop on the sale of it as their family (marital) home - OP is married, I believe.

    eta on remortgage you have to get signed agreement of all parties living in the house aged 17 or over.
    Please do not confuse me with other gratefulsforhelp. x
  • sassyblue
    sassyblue Posts: 3,793 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Tell you what l'd do. Don't let him know you have the video or photo of her fondling his genitals but wait until the divorce is through and post him a 'Good Luck' card with that photo on the cover, inside write 'Good Riddance really!'

    I wonder if funky pigeon would print it out, you can even get money off codes on here for it so it wouldn't cost you much either. :rotfl:

    Could you imagine their humiliation knowing you had that all along, would sure take the shine off their new life. :rotfl:


    Happy moneysaving all.
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