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  • I'm staying off like a few of you.

    Got my family round me, got work to deal with and then I'm off for a while at start of January.

    Been away from it a while, decided that it was going to get me down more, so instead I've just been reading, and seeing friends.

    Hope we all have a good christmas- and it doesn't matter if we are single at this time of the year, as long as you have your family around you'll be fine
  • LisaB85
    LisaB85 Posts: 2,008 Forumite
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    Subject: Hi
    From: s.u.f.c.
    Sent Date: 12/23/2011 12:20:51 PM
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    hi sexy how are u love u look very nice in your pic and wots your number then sexy xxxx


    My new love interest :D
  • missmontana
    missmontana Posts: 1,994 Forumite
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    Ooh he looks like a keeper LisaB!!
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  • LisaB85
    LisaB85 Posts: 2,008 Forumite
    Ooh he looks like a keeper LisaB!!

    I'm worried that I must really look desperate x
  • Im getting a bit bored with it all. One guy message me from southport and wanted to get to know me and the conversation was boring, he hardly told me about himself and kept asking how was my day. Boring!

    So Ill just tell him there is no spark for me in the communication department.

    Im off from work now till 4th Jan.:D
    Just been drinking disaronno and coke, five small glasses.:beer:
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  • LisaB85 wrote: »
    http://www.pof.com/member32948504.htm


    Subject: Hi
    From: s.u.f.c.
    Sent Date: 12/23/2011 12:20:51 PM
    View Profile View All Messages

    hi sexy how are u love u look very nice in your pic and wots your number then sexy xxxx


    My new love interest :D

    Ewwww disgusting! weird lips, weird eyes and ears. and weird photos of his hand trying to find his todger.
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  • LisaB85
    LisaB85 Posts: 2,008 Forumite
    Ewwww disgusting! weird lips, weird eyes and ears. and weird photos of his hand trying to find his todger.

    I know I'm short fat n ugly....but am I that bad that I get contacted by him? :D
  • Well my date last night went really well! :D He looked like his photos (good looking!) and he was exactly as he came across via email, we'd both had a lot to say in our emails and that was exactly the same IRL, we were out for almost 5 hours and we were talking and laughing so much that it flew by! He paid for everything (and I hadn't expected him to, I was quite happy to pay my own way!) and was a complete gentleman. He walked me to my car and asked that I let him know that I got home safely which I did and we had a short conversation where we both established that we'd enjoyed ourselves and liked each other and that we'd like to see each other again. It had come up in our emails that we both thought that honesty was the best policy rather than messing people about so it was nice to see that come into play!

    It was my first date with anyone off the internet and pretty successful as far as I'm concerned! Even if nothing had come of it or even if nothing more does come of it, at least it's helped to give me some faith in internet dating away from all the horror stories!
  • sapphireeye
    sapphireeye Posts: 275 Forumite
    edited 24 December 2011 at 11:49AM
    LisaB85 wrote: »
    http://www.pof.com/member32948504.htm


    Subject: Hi
    From: s.u.f.c.
    Sent Date: 12/23/2011 12:20:51 PM
    View Profile View All Messages

    hi sexy how are u love u look very nice in your pic and wots your number then sexy xxxx


    My new love interest :D

    Oh god, that photo of him with his hand down his shorts, whyyyyy?!! I wonder whether he gets many dates? haha.
    LisaB85 wrote: »
    I'm worried that I must really look desperate x

    I don't think it's that at all, I think it's more likely that a lot of people on dating sites will contact someone that they wouldn't dream of approaching IRL and will say things that they wouldn't dream of saying to their face! In some ways that's good if, like me, you'd be a bit cautious about approaching a guy in a bar because you're shy/they're in a big group/you're not sure if they're single/you're not sure if they're straight, whereas online you can contact someone and you already know that they meet the 'essential criteria' of being single and straight and you don't risk losing too much face. However, in this case, said bloke probably wouldn't walk up to you in a bar with his hand down his trousers and say 'hi sexy what's your number' (well, if he's really odd he might do!) but because he's hiding behind a computer screen it opens him up to a lot more opportunities than he'd have IRL and because it's 'only the internet' they forget that the people they're messaging are real people and think it's ok to do or say anything they like.
  • Lotus-eater
    Lotus-eater Posts: 10,789 Forumite
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    LisaB85 wrote: »
    I'm worried that I must really look desperate x
    Well I think we need to see your profile to discuss that :D
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