MSE Pregnancy Club 23

Skint_Catt

Blimey! I've not leaked at all!

Saying I was not emotional - I've just had a blub.

DH doesn't get home until about 7pm but it's the time when most of my friends pop round (we've got one coming tonight), so I had a stress about what to do for dinner that he can eat when he gets in & I can eat later. He said we'd get a takeaway when she's gone but then I felt guilty as he'd be starving after working all day & I've nothing ready for him Not sure what to do in these cisrcumstances but I guess it'll become more common once Giblet's here!

Gillyx

To make matters worse just had a Tv Licence guy at the door, trying to tell me we don't have one :mad: Er we do? Then he discovers it's Flat 2, which is upstairs!! I hate living in a student area sometimes. How could I be taken seriously if he had a look at my top

Funny though our neighbours are noisy noisy animals, so it makes me happy I was listening through the door and they've just been forced into buying a TV Licence

Edit: Now they are squealing outside about how they have to pay and how they should have said "we don't have a tv" "How did he get in" etc It's at times like this I'm glad I'm having a boy, girls are too shrieky and high pitched at times. My head hurts and I'm grumpy

Winnie_in_Pooh

We're having what could be our last night alone as a couple curled up on the sofa with a huge pizza! DS has gone to stay with my sister as a precaution and won't be home again until Sunday night when he *should* be a big brother

I'm feeling lots of pressure and still getting contractions every 10 - 20 mins so I think the consultant is right and he's not far off arriving....am starting to brick it slightly :rotfl:

missymoo81

i cant work out if this is just me, hormones or what, but is anyone else feeling really unsociable at the moment?? I just don't really want to see or speak to anyone other than OH, went to see my friend today but left after an hour as just felt really sad and grumpy im usually antisocial but not this bad, you know when you make excuses not to see people.....

Winnie_in_Pooh

missymoo81 wrote: »

i cant work out if this is just me, hormones or what, but is anyone else feeling really unsociable at the moment?? I just don't really want to see or speak to anyone other than OH, went to see my friend today but left after an hour as just felt really sad and grumpy im usually antisocial but not this bad, you know when you make excuses not to see people.....

Its not just you hun, I've been like this too - especially in the third trimester. I've been glad we've had builders in and the house has been such a mess because I've had a good excuse to tell people not to come over. It's not really like me tbh, I'm usually really sociable unless I'm depressed. I've started to pick up a bit this past week though, with the end in sight

Gillyx

missymoo81 wrote: »

i cant work out if this is just me, hormones or what, but is anyone else feeling really unsociable at the moment?? I just don't really want to see or speak to anyone other than OH, went to see my friend today but left after an hour as just felt really sad and grumpy im usually antisocial but not this bad, you know when you make excuses not to see people.....

People make me angry, so angry I want to punch them in the face. I feel like this pretty much 90% of the time. Went shopping the other week and people are so rude, noone will ever move, I feel like I constantly move out of the way for other people and that makes me more irrate. Was looking through the sale rail in DP's at maternity clothes and some woman, with 2 children already, both still in the buggy, was stuck to me and trying to push me out of the way, surely she has some maternity clothes already? :mad:

I think I'm turning into a grumpy old woman

jenjade

missymoo81 wrote: »

i cant work out if this is just me, hormones or what, but is anyone else feeling really unsociable at the moment?? I just don't really want to see or speak to anyone other than OH, went to see my friend today but left after an hour as just felt really sad and grumpy im usually antisocial but not this bad, you know when you make excuses not to see people.....

I have been like that all week. worse still i am happy on my own but moan that i havent seen anyone. then someone comes round and i just want them to go away. can't win with me at the moment. i told other half not to come over last week coz i didnt want to see anyone then grumbled all week that he didnt care and hadnt been over etc. i am doing my own head in. I just want to sleep

missymoo81

oh im so glad its not just me, i cant sleep so dont want to do that, i just want to hide under the duvet, family keep texting and being all accusing that they havent seen me for a ages!!! Why should I make the effort to drive the 40mins using my petrol when hardly any bu$$er bothers to come and see me. Mind you saying that, I would probably say I was busy or hide if they turned up at my door!!! See GRUMPY!!!! I can't win. I too get cross with people Gilly, driving!! people are either driving too fast or too slow, at tesco people are always getting in my way and are just being annoying, friends are just irritating just because!!! And to top it all the only person I want to speak to is OH and he phoned today and I missed his call, I havent spoken to him since sunday morning before he left and then he must have qued for the phone and I had my phone on silent, I cried when I saw the missed call, in fact am welling up now. God !!!!!! what is wrong with me, I don't like it

Kandboys

missymoo81 wrote: »

i cant work out if this is just me, hormones or what, but is anyone else feeling really unsociable at the moment?? I just don't really want to see or speak to anyone other than OH, went to see my friend today but left after an hour as just felt really sad and grumpy im usually antisocial but not this bad, you know when you make excuses not to see people.....

God yes! Having to do the school run twice a day isn't fun as you always get someone saying oh any twinges, how long you got to go blah blah blah. Now I know they only care but I can't be arsed to actually answer and engage in conversation!!!!!

Good luck to Winnie - really hope this is it for you!!

Gillyx

I'm teetering between teary and angry tonight. My neighbours honestly either have the best social life ever or are running a brothel, all I can hear is mens voices constantly, in the hallway. The noise is constant, they don't walk anywhere they run, so it's continual thudding coming through the ceiling, running up and down the stairs (it's a 2 floored flat they have and I can honestly hear them when they're on the second floor!) takeaways arriving constantly who ring our buzzer then they don't answer their door so the take away people get mardy and end up leaving.

I know they're young and probably just moved out of parents house so I don't want to go charging in and moan, I'm young myself, and this time last year was probably a bit of a party animal, but I lived at home and was respectful of the other people in my street and in my house when leaving/coming home at 3 am in the morning. Plus I don't wanna go in all horns blazing because I have a baby due who will probably like to scream all night, so it could be a situation of pot kettle. It's getting me down though