So confused

TheTruthMachine

Emmzi wrote: »

Am I clear here - you have a new g/f and one of the first things you do is raise a greivance about her boss?

You really know how to stir it.... do you like drama?

"Least said, soonest mended."

And get g/f out of the tea room! Every post you write she sounds more like trouble. Don't you know any slightly more mature girls away from the workplace? Second bit of advice

"Don't @@@t on your own doorstep."

I know, The grievence is deeper than being girlfriends boss. Shes said unforgivable things. I do throw her out of our room.

Kay_Peel

Let me get this right. The manager doesn't like the way you and your g/f carry on at work and has reported the disruption that it causes. You have raised a grievance about the 'unforgivable things' the manager said and you believe that the manager has it in for you.

Flippin' heck - you certainly know how to make a rod for your own back. Hark Emmzi's words about your career, for goodness sake. Have NO Contact with your g/f during working hours - no texts, no calls, no cosy chats in your room, nothing.

aggypanthus

what Kay said above.
I hear the workplace tales from my sister who is boss to 20 staff. the juvenile gossip and bickering is always done by the young women. You seem to be a rare guy who is getting into all this silly stuff at work. It only causes trouble.
i see trouble with this girl. best run whilst you can. how can you love her already? you only think you do cos she is chasing..

aggypanthus

thought you had a wife ? at least you talk about one..

is this whole thread for real?

aggypanthus

someone earlier asked if you were single and you didnt answer!!

Emmzi

gosh aggy you seem to be right!

https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/comment/46481703#Comment_46481703

troll or liar then!

Who is the "Mrs TTM" referenced in the other thread that you were "on a promise with"?

Moody_Mare

If this tale is for real then I think you both need to grow up. I am sorry if I soud harsh but you have been together for a handful of weeks and you have already met the parents:eek: My relationship with my now husband was quite quick in my eye's, we dated for about a year then moved in together (that was the quick bit), and finaly married 9 years after that.

But my point is this, your girlfriend does sound very needy and manipulative, it sounds from the info you have given that she is after a husband at all costs and and as quick as posssible. You obviously fall into the category of good husband material i.e good job with prospects and decent salary. She may be after escaping her rather odd parents or she maybe is one of the I must be married brigade. Just be careful and try to slow everything down or you could end up trapped. I have seen this happen to friends before and I hate to say it but a sudden pregnancy often happens if she is really needy and determined. Not all woman are like this but take responsibilty as well for both your future and hers.

*max*

Two options:

1: you're the most spineless guy I have ever come across (seriously, EVER), and she has you eating from the back of her hand.

2: you're another moronic troll who has been getting off on having your pathetic thread answered, and you deserve no respect (cos you're a !!!!).

Now go have it off with yourself.

Lotus-eater

*max* wrote: »

Two options:

1: you're the most spineless guy I have ever come across (seriously, EVER), and she has you eating from the back of her hand.

2: you're another moronic troll who has been getting off on having your pathetic thread answered, and you deserve no respect (cos you're a !!!!).

Now go have it off with yourself.

I wrote something like this yesterday, then removed it because I thought I was too harsh.

The thing that jumps out at me most, is that this guy is supposed to be a successful bloke at some high flying job and he can't even write or spell properly in English, his sentences are all over the place, as is his story and his grammar.

I haven't believed this thread for a while.

halibut2209

Plus he thinks it's illegal for people to offer financial advise on a money-saving website.

Sad to say I'm with the "bull****" camp, which is a shame cos I thought it was quite sweet at first.