So confused

Bumpmakesfour

Lotus-eater wrote: »

Well it's better than posting the photos on newbie nudes

Newbies nudes??What am I missing??? :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Lotus-eater

Bumpmakesfour wrote: »

Newbies nudes??What am I missing???

Tis a sheltered life you have been living

**Patty**

Having reached the ripe old age of 44 without discovering *newbie nudes*......I'm good thanks.:o

OP......the parents will probably want to know:

Whether you have good manners.
What you do....and how much you earn.
Are you likely to stay in employment for long periods of time & not flit from job to job.
What your parents do.
Where you live (i mean the type of area)
Whether or not you have any predjudices.

etc, etc.

I am the mother of a Princess:D and everyone wants the best for their daughter.

Lotus-eater

**Patty** wrote: »

Whether you have good manners.
What you do....and how much you earn.
Are you likely to stay in employment for long periods of time & not flit from job to job.
What your parents do.
Where you live (i mean the type of area)
Whether or not you have any predjudices.

Or....... they probably just want to find out if you are a nice bloke. Or until you get more serious, will probably not be that interested.

I don't think you are going to get a grilling, despite what Patty says.

I did get a grilling from a granddad once though wanted to know everything about me, unfortunately I was in my young rebel stage and I basically told him to sod off. not the clever thing to do. I'm still with the young lady though.

TheTruthMachine

haha I wasn't going to give the details of naughty things ahahaha

As for the chat with the parents. Why would they want to know my earnings? Do you openly ask "How much you on?" Should I take P60's Credit reports haha :P


So in all seriousnous who is worse the mum or dad when it comes to their daughter? Will they be summing me up? Or would they know from questioning her already?

The interogation err meet does scare me! Should I take gifts?

TheTruthMachine

Lotus-eater wrote: »

Or....... they probably just want to find out if you are a nice bloke. Or until you get more serious, will probably not be that interested.

I don't think you are going to get a grilling, despite what Patty says.

I did get a grilling from a granddad once though wanted to know everything about me, unfortunately I was in my young rebel stage and I basically told him to sod off. not the clever thing to do. I'm still with the young lady though.

So a light chat before the grilling when we get more serious? :P

She's already told me her folks don't like her travelling up to Manchester and I should go down there

Lotus-eater

TheTruthMachine wrote: »

So a light chat before the grilling when we get more serious? :P

IF you get more serious, let's not count our chickens, eh?

Lotus-eater

TheTruthMachine wrote: »

haha I wasn't going to give the details of naughty things ahahaha

As for the chat with the parents. Why would they want to know my earnings? Do you openly ask "How much you on?" Should I take P60's Credit reports haha :P


So in all seriousnous who is worse the mum or dad when it comes to their daughter? Will they be summing me up? Or would they know from questioning her already?

The interogation err meet does scare me! Should I take gifts?

A bottle of wine and some flowers is always a good idea.

Just calm down a little and maybe slow down a little as well. If they're nice people you will get on with them, if they're not, you put up with them, either way you'll be OK.
Don't answer anything you don't want to. It's their daughter you want, not them.

TheTruthMachine

Lotus-eater wrote: »

IF you get more serious, let's not count our chickens, eh?

I always look on the bright side and be optimistic. Way I am at work aswell!

Lotus-eater

TheTruthMachine wrote: »

I always look on the bright side and be optimistic. Way I am at work aswell!

Yeah but... a relationship's a bit different. Don't let her hear you say "when we get married....." etc