DFW with Depression Help

carer_adrian

Thanks sick as a chip and Erme for your replies you are both right in what you say i would of felt more guilty if i had went to the bookies and spent money in a totally non essential way on a positive note my daughter has had a fantastic weekend with me and is so excited about having her birthday tomorrow aswell, will talk later guys onward and upward the money saving journey continues

Erme

Yay go Adrian!!!!

Remember my phrase - it's not going down that's the crime but staying down....(or staying in debt)

Erme

carer_adrian

A beautiful day spent with my daughter today on her birthday once again my family have been awesome with her spoiling her rotten i am so thankful to them for there help looking forward in this next year clearing my debts

carer_adrian

A lovely perfect day for me i am on a ten hour shift tomorrow good night everyone on moneysaving expert.

KeyserSoze1

After a myriad of reasons as illustrated in another thread posted in this forum, my financial, emotional & health circumstances have severely yo-yo'd over the years due to one reason or another.

I have suffered from depression on several occasions, five epileptic seizure (two in 2004, one in 2005, one in 2006 and one in 2008) and an ischaemic stroke all triggered through stress of which my financial situations have played a very heavy root cause of the stress and harassment caused by DCA's and different enforcement threats. :mad:

Needless to say I am frustrated by the issues that this has caused me. I raise and have improvements in my well being only for them to descend into chaos following severe financial stresses. :eek:

Could anything be done on these grounds or is it wishful thinking on my part?

carer_adrian

A hard day but a good one i am keeping my head down and i am doing what i do best working hard i am very blessed with my career path there s always a need for carers and there is always that bit of overtime there for me when i am available to do it, i am continuing to earn money instead spending it that is so in the right direction. Today has been a non spend day for me and managed to work 10 hours again another 10 hours s scheduled for tomorrow i have also signed up to a company to sell cosmetics i have left there name out as i wasnt sure if i was allowed to mention incase it sounds like i am advertising i am aiming at family friends work colleagues neighbours to see if they will buy i am going to give it a go for the next month Every little Helps I really hope that everybody has had a good day good night.

I have also started a £2 savings pot and a £1 a day savings pot

sickasachip13

KeyserSoze1 wrote: »

After a myriad of reasons as illustrated in another thread posted in this forum, my financial, emotional & health circumstances have severely yo-yo'd over the years due to one reason or another.

I have suffered from depression on several occasions, five epileptic seizure (two in 2004, one in 2005, one in 2006 and one in 2008) and an ischaemic stroke all triggered through stress of which my financial situations have played a very heavy root cause of the stress and harassment caused by DCA's and different enforcement threats. :mad:

Needless to say I am frustrated by the issues that this has caused me. I raise and have improvements in my well being only for them to descend into chaos following severe financial stresses. :eek:

Could anything be done on these grounds or is it wishful thinking on my part?

Hi Keysersoze

It sounds like you're having a really hard time. You need help to deal with these aggressive communications and harassment - and there is help out there and rules they need to stick to. I would urge you to contact CCCS to get help and support - there's a sticky at the top of the debtfreewannabe page to talk to CCCS.

I'd also say, that it really would be worth you starting a new thread with this information, this will help people notice your information and be able to contribute information.

There's an awful lot of people around here with experience of debt and health problems and I'm sure they'll be happy to help but you really do need to start a new thread to get this noticed.

Best

SAAC

carer_adrian

Today has been a day of mixed emotions for me At work today it has been quite stressful i got shouted at by the manager for something that i have been accused of but i have been totally innocent she was effin and jeffin at me and i did fold a little i hate confrontation and i hate been accused of something that i havent done i went away had a little cry and felt better afterwards. Today i have worked 10 hours again, i am working 14 hours tomorrow, i have registered online now to sell cosmetics before i go to bed i am going to put £1 in my savings jar

carer_adrian

After working 14 hours on Thursday and a non spend day on Friday and also working 6 hours i am looking forward to a two day break hanging out with my beautiful daughter i have signed up to sell beauty products to people so i will let you know how that goes but i am working very hard very determined, i went to see my Health trainer my weight continues to be well balanced since the end of may until now i have lost just under 2 stone which is magnificent i have had to rearrange my counselling appointment but that is going to get sorted very happy how things are going i am also looking aswell into possibly getting some money back from a PPI claim which i am dead pleased about

Erme

Sorry you've had such a rough time lately Adrian

It has to get better @ some point..Hugs

I went out for a jog yesterday with my new headphones then did housework...finally the sun is out this am :j...wonderful..it's been so gloomy for days though the building was rocking last night and the wind was whistling and I'm still sleeping in the hall as too anxious to sleep in my bed (due to having compulsions to go out the window. Now bare in mind I'm more than 1st floor high this is not a good idea)...

Have complained to the Scottish exec and also my local health board re the smoke free indoors in psych wards. Bearing in mind in the Royal Ed they were smoking in the loos and in my local unit they have to be taken 1/4 of a mile to the main entrance to have a cig in the night it seems badly thought out....That's my gripe....never mind no research on e-cigs....but that's always the way with e-cigs..they'll be taxed or made illegal before long LOL...

So now more housework then a party today...can't wait till tuesday when I can fling another £40 at the macbook :j

E