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Trying for a Baby Part 7

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  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    Thanks for the well wishes for my appt:o

    Secretdebts,
    good news re promotion, 3-5 months will fly away, and it'll be great when you get pg:o
    You spammed me???:eek:
    Fannyanna, how are you? :wave:
    claire, I'd love to go to Hawaii:happyhear
    Was is as nice as one imagined?(Tropical paradise?)
    Littlezee, I love it when men wants babies, they'll become great dads:happyhear
    We will obviously never be using contraception again:cool:
    Dr didn't think much about PCOS, was more concerned with DH's swimmers. He asked if DH was the dad for my mc baby:shocked: He thought it was very unlikely with his numbers, but it was his. Definitely:mad:
    Twigglet & Time2deal, hugs for AF:(
    smiley_hug.gif
    Jen, it looks like a TLP!:j
    Kavics17, welcome:wave: Which CD are you?
    So so sorry for you mc (((hugs))). Feel free to talk about it here, as many of us unfortunately have been through similar recently:(
    You got pg very quickly last time, hope you'll get pg with the forever baby very soon:)
    Primmer, I'm discussing it at the moment, but DH feels we can do it on the January cycle:mad:
  • colli
    colli Posts: 669 Forumite
    sorry your appointment was disapointing QQ :(. Men (mostly) don't get the urgency. If my OH had said "it just takes time" once more I would have throttled him! :eek: Though he was well meaning, he just wasn't in any rush :o xx
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    colli wrote: »
    sorry your appointment was disapointing QQ :(. Men (mostly) don't get the urgency. If my OH had said "it just takes time" once more I would have throttled him! :eek: Though he was well meaning, he just wasn't in any rush :o xx
    Men:mad:
    Honestly, if one can make a baby without men, it'll be far more efficient:cool:
  • kavics17
    kavics17 Posts: 2,235 Forumite
    CD2 here. Thank you for the warm welcome.

    I'm ok in general, MC shook my confidence but I'm building it up again. I had quite a delayed reaction to it tbh, I felt fine weeks after it and was ok with it but the last 2 weeks I can't stop thinking about it and feel just in general quite sad. I'm sure the period doesn't help, can't wait to have it over and start trying again.
  • kavics17
    kavics17 Posts: 2,235 Forumite
    QQuaver wrote: »
    Men:mad:
    Honestly, if one can make a baby without men, it'll be far more efficient:cool:

    Hear, hear...
  • Birdie85
    Birdie85 Posts: 9,330 Forumite
    edited 9 December 2011 at 3:48PM
    Sorry about the MC Kavics, not seen you on Dinah's thread for a while :)

    I'm feeling quite frustrated today, I hate all of this waiting! Waiting for AF to start, waiting for it to end, waiting for OV, waiting for AF... all I seem to be doing is counting days and knicker watching! Another BFN this morning so it just looks like an annoyingly long cycle... hurry up you witch and arrive so I can start counting days again! :mad:

    Really sorry that the appointment wasn't all good news today QQ, it would be so much easier if we didn't have to rely on our menfolk! *hugs*
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  • emsbet
    emsbet Posts: 5,237 Forumite
    Sorry your appointment didn't go as well as you wanted QQ. Can you not go back to the clinic you used last time or is that not an option?

    Welcome Kavics :wave: As QQ said there are a number of us who know what you are going through. Feel free to talk/rant on here, everyone is lovely :) I hope your next baby is your forever baby.

    xx
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  • sexymouse
    sexymouse Posts: 6,131 Forumite
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    Hugs for all who AF has claimed today.

    Fingers crossed that that TLP turns into a BFP soon Jen.

    QQ I'm pleased that the clinic is nice. So frustrating that DH can't be home earlier. Still, the New Year will bring you a new baby, and you can put this upsetting year behind you. Hugs.

    Well I'm home unexpectedly early today - thought I was invilating all day today (that's what we were told yesterday) and it turned out to only be until lunchtime. Annoying, as I could've told the supply agency I could work this arvo. Still, at least I get to chill out a bit now, so it's not too bad. Cat is on the bed, so I think I'm going to have a cuddle and watch a film in a minute.

    Hugs for all who need or want them, and welcome to all of the newcomers. Moon and I will BD when he gets home from work. Just hope it's not too late to catch the eggie, and that Moon is too tired.

    sexymouse xx
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  • bigzippy
    bigzippy Posts: 4,034 Forumite
    Hope you get confirmation of that bfp soon jen

    Welcome kavics :wave: sorry too hear about the mc and af :(

    :( for all the ladies with af

    I've not had any more coloured streaks since that one yesterday, but as it's really close to af appearing if I'm not lucky, I can't get excited about possible implantation. I'd take it too hard. I've got skin break out going on though, which is doing my head in, and I only recall getting them for ov normally... :cool: I'll have to double check on ff. Maybe it's laaate ov again?? Meh. I just want to know what's going on so I can deal with it accordingly :o

    Rang mil at lunch time to check up on her and she was "mithered to bl0ody death" and sounded panicky so I'm back here with her, making the most of my phone's 3g :o I really look forward to being able to spend an entire 24hrs at home :o

    Qq I hope you get the ivf lark sorted soon. the doc was rude! :shocked:
    Would either of you ever consider a donor?:o
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  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    kavics17 wrote: »
    I had quite a delayed reaction to it tbh, I felt fine weeks after it and was ok with it but the last 2 weeks I can't stop thinking about it and feel just in general quite sad.
    It'll take some time, one doesn't ever recover from it completely, but it'll become easier with time (((hugs))).
    Birdie85 wrote: »
    Another BFN this morning so it just looks like an annoyingly long cycle... hurry up you witch and arrive so I can start counting days again! :mad:
    Or not, and get a beany:cool:
    emsbet wrote: »
    Sorry your appointment didn't go as well as you wanted QQ. Can you not go back to the clinic you used last time or is that not an option?
    It's still an option, but the one I chose has a better doctor I think:cool:
    He's done millions of IVFs, and is older (and wiser?:p).
    He is especially good with people with older or poorer quality eggs. He believes in not using too much artificial hormones, and does not like hcg shots (I got OHSS from that).

    The other one is just a bog standard fertility doc (nothing wrong with that, but it didn't work, so I'd like to try a different one).
    sexymouse wrote: »
    QQ I'm pleased that the clinic is nice. So frustrating that DH can't be home earlier. Still, the New Year will bring you a new baby, and you can put this upsetting year behind you. Hugs.
    :(
    I haven't given up yet, I'm going to do something about it.
    Still, at least I get to chill out a bit now, so it's not too bad. Cat is on the bed, so I think I'm going to have a cuddle and watch a film in a minute.
    Have a relaxing time:)
    Hugs for all who need or want them, and welcome to all of the newcomers. Moon and I will BD when he gets home from work. Just hope it's not too late to catch the eggie, and that Moon is too tired.
    Good luck!:j
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