Trying for a Baby Part 7

scarly

Hi everyone, :hello:

So, I'm back again, sadly much sooner than expected.

Long story, but basically found out last Monday at 9 weeks that our little bean didn't make it past 7 weeks and I'd had a missed miscarriage. Had an ERPC on Friday so am now at home recovering. The GP said to wait 2 or 3 cycles before trying again, but the Docs at the hospital said to ignore that, and that it's fine to try again immediately once I've stopped bleeding and am feeling emotionally ready for it. I feel OK. Sad obviously, and not quite ready for work again yet, but definitely ready to step back into the TTC world and at least talk about TTC, if not doing it straight away :cool:

So I'm thinking, this first month I'm going to take it easy, NTNP, and then once I've had a proper AF get back to temping/OPKs/CM etc. Have already ordered some more OPKs as I was pretty much all out by the time we caught the bean last time. So QQ, please put me back on the list - according to FF CD1 was the day of the ERPC on Friday, so I should be CD4 today.

Hope all you lovelies have been keeping OK. I see there's been a few more BFPs and some newcomers so congrats :j and hello to you all :wave:

xxx

emsbet

Welcome back Scarly. I'm sorry you've had to come back to us again so soon.

I was wondering over the weekend how you had got on.

xx

Nicki

Sorry again Scarly. There are several of us in a similar situation posting on ttc at the minute so I hope you'll find some support here as you work through it all. xx

tinkwings

Scarly - Hugs

We had the same thing happen to us with our 1st MC. Take care of yourself.

I waited for once cycle then we got caught with DD2

tea_lover

Hello all,

just a quick hello from me, hope everyone's doing ok. I haven't read all the posts but have seen there have been some m/cs and bad news lately so big hugs to everyone that needs one.

We're on cd 18 atm, usually ov between about now and cd 22ish so fingers crossed we'll catch it this month. We were both ill last month and it was the last thing we could be bothered with tbh!

Here's to lots of sticky BFPs before Christmas x.

QQuaver

Haven't quite finished reading back but:

Littlezee, oops, you are right about Primmer:o Thanks.
Birdie, I know what you mean, my sister just got engaged too:o
Ikkle, don't you have to go to the doctors? Sounds like you might need something from a pro for it:(
Secretdebts, fingers crossed it's implantation:o I'm still hoping for the choccies you promised:cool:
Scarly, massive hugs

Secretdebts

QQuaver wrote: »

Secretdebts, fingers crossed it's implantation:o I'm still hoping for the choccies you promised:cool:]

Yup. I think my savings jar will cover the postage & chocolate costs . Fingers crossed you'll all have to pm me your addresses!! Been googling - & I think I might test on Wednesday if this doesn't turn out to be cd1. What would I need to take next month to lengthen my lp? I seem to have ridiculously long before ov then not long enough after!!

emsbet

Secretdebts wrote: »

Yup. I think my savings jar will cover the postage & chocolate costs . Fingers crossed you'll all have to pm me your addresses!! Been googling - & I think I might test on Wednesday if this doesn't turn out to be cd1. What would I need to take next month to lengthen my lp? I seem to have ridiculously long before ov then not long enough after!!

You could try Agnus Castus as that apparently helps balance your hormones and can help lengthen your LP. You only take it up until ov though because you are not supposed to take it while pg.

xx

QQuaver

Tea lover, hi there:wave: How do you determine ov?

Secretdebts, how is your temp today? Some people swear by taking Vitamin B-complex to lengthen LP, but most doctors don't believe it:D

It's up to you, I took it for months, but it didn't change my LP, but it was long enough to begin with.

It's not medical advice, I'm just repeating what I read somewhere while Googling:p

Secretdebts

Oooh. Just checked my list and bigzippy guessed my cycle would be 42days thus month. As it's cd42 for me bigz is guaranteed a chocolate bar either way