Trying for a Baby Part 7

QQuaver

Congratulations esio trot!:j:j:j
Any SS? You wouldn't like to tell us your age would you? No pressure:p
I love 2 year age difference, my sister is 25 months younger than me:cool:
Have a great pregnancy!:j:j:j

Birdie85, (((hugs))) for painful AF:o Hope this is the last one:)
Primmer, how is your dog?
Flee, so did you get a +OPK?

bigzippy

Birdie85 wrote: »

Hope your MIL is OK Bigzippy. It might be a weight off your shoulders if you do tell your parents about getting some help, they may have some lovely advice for you, or just comfort and support. I'd want to tell my Mum if only to stop the constant chorus of 'I want a grandchild' and 'Oh it only took me 2 months to concieve both my babies', which doesn't help!

Thanks birdie
I don't think it will be a weight off, tbh. I don't talk to them about anything personal and even when planning my wedding I went and chose what I wanted and then told them about it afterwards, cos I couldn't bear them interfering or talking down what I liked, iyswim. Even when I did take her to see the wedding dress I'd picked, she didn't say anything nice about it!! (It was gorgeous, everyone said it, it's not just me being biased!) She just didn't say ANYthing. She's an oddity though. Anyway, I don't think I will be asking/talking to her/them about it, I might just ask eldest sis to find out what I need to know

My mum has been giving me the waatery moony eye whenever there's been a baby in the room, and I know she really wants more grandkids, but they do very little for the ones they do have, so it's all a bit bizarre! MIL does know, but also isn't the type to put the pressure on, and doesn't bring it up or talk about it unless we do, etc.
I think if I end up having a laparoscopy or IVF or something then I'll tell her...?:think:

esio_trot wrote: »

I did a digi

... and now I'm making all sorts of excuses for how it could be wrong, held tip in sample too long (it was 5-10 seconds longer than usual as testing early), didn't get around to testing FMU which was in a vial from this morning til I got home at 11 with the test...logically, i know none of that makes HCG appear so...

I guess it's positive :-)

I will obviously still compulsively check that result with the second stick in the morning!

:T Congratulations!

Primmer wrote: »

Kitten - will be thinking of you on Wednesday and good luck with the counselling, I really hope it helps.

What she (and they) said

I had to drop my dog off at the vets first thing this morning for an operation, it was so hard leaving him there as he was clinging to my leg but I know it is for the best. Am just wishing the time by until I can go and pick him up now

Hope the dog's ok.:) What's he having done?
I've got to take mine back in a couple of weeks to see if her lump's any bigger :cool:

QQuaver

Arggggggggggggh!!!:mad:

I've started spotting. Had the customary AF cramp this morning, but it's still 12DPO! If I get full flow AF tomorrow, then it's only 12 day LP, shortest ever:(

bigzippy wrote: »

Anyway, I don't think I will be asking/talking to her/them about it, I might just ask eldest sis to find out what I need to know

Good idea. My elder sister (6 years older) knew about our parents frantic efforts at TTC when she was young. Seems my parents moved the bed to different rooms (including downstairs) to BD in case that was the problem:p

I think if I end up having a laparoscopy or IVF or something then I'll tell her...?:think:

I told my mum about fertility appts and up to 3 IUIs but not IVF. I was tired of hearing 'are you pg?' every time:o I think she thinks I've given up now.

I've got to take mine back in a couple of weeks to see if her lump's any bigger :cool:

How's your doggy?

RebekahR

QQ - Can you add to the first post the link to the website that lists all the drugs and whether they are safe to take during pregnancy or not. I can't find it any where and recall it being put up recently.

esio_trot

QQuaver wrote: »

Congratulations esio trot!:j:j:j
Any SS? You wouldn't like to tell us your age would you? No pressure:p
I love 2 year age difference, my sister is 25 months younger than me:cool:

Honestly, at this stage, there's not a lot to spot. Generally just feel as though AF is on her way - just be implantation and stretching. Guess I'm a bit more tired than usual and had unusual mid cycle spotting and that's about it really. Was 6 or so weeks gone by the time I got nausea or anything last time.

I'm in the latter half of my 20s :-)

Primmer

Just brought my doggie home from the vets, he looks so sad. He had to have a castration as one testicle was retained inside of him and a cancer risk. It ended up being major surgery as he had 3 cuts and the missing testicle was found in his intestine. He is laid on his bed and feels so cold I have placed a blanket over him.

sexymouse

Aww - poor doogie - have you got a hot water bottle that you can put in his basket Primmer? I expect he has an element of shock. I remember picking our cat up after he had his leg amputated (he was run over) and he was really not himself - plus he'd had a lot of his fur shaved, so probably was feeling the cold.

QQuaver

esio_trot wrote: »

Was 6 or so weeks gone by the time I got nausea or anything last time.

I see.

I'm in the latter half of my 20s :-)

Thanks:cool:

Primmer wrote: »

Just brought my doggie home from the vets, he looks so sad. He had to have a castration as one testicle was retained inside of him and a cancer risk. It ended up being major surgery as he had 3 cuts and the missing testicle was found in his intestine. He is laid on his bed and feels so cold I have placed a blanket over him.

(((hugs)))

RebekahR wrote: »

QQ - Can you add to the first post the link to the website that lists all the drugs and whether they are safe to take during pregnancy or not. I can't find it any where and recall it being put up recently.

Good idea.
I do recall seeing it, but I haven't saved the link. Can someone who posted it post again please?:hello:

sexymouse

Found this about herbs and pregnancy on babycentre.

tinkwings

ESIO - Huge congrats xxxxxx