Trying for a Baby Part 7

fluffnutter

emsbet wrote: »

Ok so I'm now getting myself worked up! :mad: When I was at the doctors she said that the hospital had written to them about me going in two weeks ago and the results of the tissue they removed etc. She said that they had said the diagnosis was endometriosis (although she said it different to how I've heard it pronounced it was definitely that because I looked on her computer screen). She said that just means an inflamation/infection of the uterus so I didn't think anything of it.
Now sitting at home, I'm thinking hang on can't endometriosis be quite bad?! And after doing some googling I found out it could be. Does anyone know can you just get it as a one off thing as a result of an infection or if you have it all the time if you have it? Naughty google has told me there is a link between endometriosis and miscarriage and now I'm worried that's why I lost my babies and that it will make it really difficult to carry a baby to term.

Somebody please tell my I'm being a ninny and worrying for no reason!

xx

I think she probably said endometritis, emsbet, not endometriosis. Which is why it sounded different.

Endometritis is inflammation or infection in the womb. If they're concerned they'll probably give you antibiotics. Ask what they're going to do for follow-up (if anything). If it's just inflammation it will probably settle on its own.

HTH, my love.

Nicki

QQuaver wrote: »

nicki, well done on getting your children to sleep this early:T
Didn't the 10 year old not notice the time?

See now you are making me confess to awful things. The 10 year old has severe learning difficulties and can't tell the time. And it is dark outside, so.....

I will pay in the morning when they are both up at silly o'clock. But DH will be home by then (he's away on business back late this evening) and I may have replenished my tolerance stores overnight.

fluffnutter

Nicki wrote: »

See now you are making me confess to awful things. The 10 year old has severe learning difficulties and can't tell the time. And it is dark outside, so.....

I will pay in the morning when they are both up at silly o'clock. But DH will be home by then (he's away on business back late this evening) and I may have replenished my tolerance stores overnight.

Brilliant! That's not awful - that's just resourceful

2ba3c

I hate it when you do a search on FF for 'charts like mine' and the come up with 80% anovulatory 13% miscarriage and 8% pregnancy.

Makes me feel really depressed. Although with this cold thing I suppose I shouldn't hold out any hope.

2ba3c

Nicki wrote: »

See now you are making me confess to awful things. The 10 year old has severe learning difficulties and can't tell the time. And it is dark outside, so.....

I will pay in the morning when they are both up at silly o'clock. But DH will be home by then (he's away on business back late this evening) and I may have replenished my tolerance stores overnight.

I've done this too Nicki, in fact I also thought it was later today - so ordered dinner (yes, Im sick, I can have a takeaway) at 4pm!

QQuaver

Nicki wrote: »

I will pay in the morning when they are both up at silly o'clock. But DH will be home by then (he's away on business back late this evening) and I may have replenished my tolerance stores overnight.

Let your DH deal with it then:p

2ba3c wrote: »

I hate it when you do a search on FF for 'charts like mine' and the come up with 80% anovulatory 13% miscarriage and 8% pregnancy.

Makes me feel really depressed. Although with this cold thing I suppose I shouldn't hold out any hope.

Cold can be a pg symptom:o
Also, you had Peak and +OPK, you probably did ov:cool:

fluffnutter wrote: »

I think she probably said endometritis, emsbet, not endometriosis. Which is why it sounded different.

Endometritis is inflammation or infection in the womb. If they're concerned they'll probably give you antibiotics. Ask what they're going to do for follow-up (if anything). If it's just inflammation it will probably settle on its own.

HTH, my love.

That's brilliant:T
Must remember that, never heard of endometritis, you are very clever:)

Nicki

2ba3c wrote: »

I hate it when you do a search on FF for 'charts like mine' and the come up with 80% anovulatory 13% miscarriage and 8% pregnancy.

Makes me feel really depressed. Although with this cold thing I suppose I shouldn't hold out any hope.

that would depress me too. I have just ordered a basal thermometer for next cycle and was contemplating signing up for FF but that kind of search is just what I would do to. FXd you are in the 8% though. I tend to rationalise these things by reference to examples in my life. So an 8% chance for me equate to 2 people from my primary school class being chosen for a special treat, of which I am one (when I was under 11 of course!) That did happen to me sometimes, so in my mind it is an achievable possibility.

trixietoes

mishkanorman wrote: »

I would like to nominate myself for numpty of the week, after reading it several times and sat wondering to myself "whats a brich" I have just realised that its whowantsto b rich and not whowantsto brich :rotfl::rotfl: I am awesomely stupid sometimes !!

OMG... I have to join you in the award as I thought the same until just reading your post :rotfl::rotfl:

emsbet

Nicki wrote: »

I don't know loads about endometriosis Emsbet, except that it can vary from being really severe causing major problems of pain and infertility, to being so mild as to have no impact whatsoever. AFAIK its just a catch all name for when little bits of the lining of your womb find their way to other bits of your reproductive system, and logically I can see how that might happen during the course of a prolonged miscarriage. Once you have stopped bleeding and are ready to start to ttc again, and are feeling a bit more emotionally steady, I would book an appointment with the GP to discuss this, and what went wrong this time round, and see whether they have any advice for you. Maybe not with the GP you saw today though if she is quite inexperienced. Perhaps you could ask your doctor's receptionist which of the doctors is best on gynae issues and book in with them?

Thanks. That's a good idea I'll do that. I think I just panicked myself a bit and also I think I'm having a hard time accepting that I lost two babies due to random chance events rather than some underlying cause

QQuaver wrote: »

emsbet, I don't know much about endometriosis, but if it is not the result of mc, but something you always had, then perhaps they could do an op to remove it? Like nicki said, it can vary in severity, so don't get worked up just yet:o

Thanks

fluffnutter wrote: »

I think she probably said endometritis, emsbet, not endometriosis. Which is why it sounded different.

Endometritis is inflammation or infection in the womb. If they're concerned they'll probably give you antibiotics. Ask what they're going to do for follow-up (if anything). If it's just inflammation it will probably settle on its own.

HTH, my love.

Fluffnutter: thanks for this. That does sound more like what she was saying but when she was out of the room for a good few minutes I looked over at the screen and I'm 90% sure it said endometriosis because I remember thinking I'm sure that's not how it's pronounced.
My emotions are still all over the place so I guess I'm just prone to reading into things at the moment so maybe it did say that and I read it wrong which I guess is more likely than the doctor mis-reading it

xx

emsbet

2ba3c wrote: »

I hate it when you do a search on FF for 'charts like mine' and the come up with 80% anovulatory 13% miscarriage and 8% pregnancy.

Makes me feel really depressed. Although with this cold thing I suppose I shouldn't hold out any hope.

You're only a few DPO so I think that will affect the outcome of charts it shows you especially with being poorly that will have affected your temps. As QQ said the peak and the +ve OPK are good indications that you have ov'd

xx