Trying for a Baby Part 7

Student_Mrs

QQuaver wrote: »

Welcome Student_Mrs:wave:
Shall we count today as CD1 for now?
There's list of acronyms on the first page:)
Can you figure out when you are ovulating? Are your cycles regular?
Hope you catch the eggy before you get your AF:j

Thank you QQ! Don't think today is CD1 as it's just a withdrawal bleed, is that right? I won't be able to tell about OV I think as haven't had a normal cycle since before I got married, that's why I came off implant as it was no fun. Only off the pill on 20/10, last thursday.

I did look at the acronyms, I promise! but still prone to get confused

morocha

hi ya everyone, well aparently i am ovulating today, yesterday and today so far, we have BD'ed But he didnt ehem.. come inside me. I think DH is not sure what he wants and i am doubting too, being ill for a week, i have managed after 4 years to be back to my almost pre pregnancy shape, i am shocked.
So dont know what we are doing !!!....i know if he doest come inside me there are few chances of getting pregnant, so i might aswell use condoms.

QQuaver

squ1rrel5 wrote: »

Just checked my CM as 2b suggested (TMI warning).... its very creamy white so nowhere near EWCM - theres no chance that OH's swimmers are gonna get through that tonight!!

Have some faith in your OH's swimmers:D

divorcingjack wrote: »

I'm rather ashamed that I got a waggy finger from QQ for ss'ing. Naughty me

our mice have stripped my feather duster to nest in my cupboards.

Are you going to be getting some baby mices?:D

morocha wrote: »

hi ya everyone, well aparently i am ovulating today, yesterday and today so far, we have BD'ed But he didnt ehem.. come inside me. I think DH is not sure what he wants and i am doubting too, being ill for a week, i have managed after 4 years to be back to my almost pre pregnancy shape, i am shocked.
So dont know what we are doing !!!....i know if he doest come inside me there are few chances of getting pregnant, so i might aswell use condoms.

Don't pressure your DH too much:o
Men tends not to produce the goods so to speak when he thinks he is performing for the baby. Better not tell him you are oving.
They are sensitive beings:o

mrshappy

:jcongratulations mrsbryan:j

Hugs lemonmelon, I hope you are on the road to recovery

welcome missty and student_mrs

mrsmcawber-your post was lovely, congratulations, I love hearing stories like yours

lol, claire, I'm a google addict as well, and I have read through the graduates to try and work out an average, but I'm crap at numbers, the nice guidelines amused me as well given the things we are all doing while ttc :rotfl::rotfl:

squ1rre5-there is no harm in going to see your GP, mine has been fantastic even though we have only been trying 6 months-she has referred us both for testing mainly because of our ages but she has been brilliant

Hope everyone is good and had a nice weekend, I've had a very dull weekend-lots of studying and finishing off my application form for my own job :mad:

mrshappy

QQuaver wrote: »

Don't pressure your DH too much:o
Men tends not to produce the goods so to speak when he thinks he is performing for the baby. Better not tell him you are oving.
They are sensitive beings:o

:rotfl:I hadn't realised I was until he started asking if ff said it was a green day :rotfl:now when it's around ov the first thing he says when we are finished is "do you think that one worked?" :rotfl:

mishkanorman

Student_Mrs wrote: »

Thank you QQ! Don't think today is CD1 as it's just a withdrawal bleed, is that right? I won't be able to tell about OV I think as haven't had a normal cycle since before I got married, that's why I came off implant as it was no fun. Only off the pill on 20/10, last thursday.

I did look at the acronyms, I promise! but still prone to get confused

Ive been on and off this thread for the last 4 years and I still dont get them all :rotfl::rotfl: thats half the fun isnt it ??

morocha,

that happened to us a few times when we first started to try for a baby, think OH was just so caught up in the moment he forgot that it wont actually work if they get flushed down the loo after spending so long trying not to get pregnant it can seem a bit strange to actively try !

Nothing exciting going on for me, think AF is due any minute as Im getting cramping but who knows ??

Hope you are all well

morocha

i havent told him, but everytime he is about to come, he asks do you want a baby? then decides to do something else cos he is not sure. He finds it quite daunting the "planning a baby" bit, our DD was an accident, so to speak. We love her dearly tho.
He has said if i find out i am pregnant next month it would be great, but actually "planning it" we is in two minds.

claire16c

RebekahR wrote: »

You know your obsessed when you go through the list on the front and track how long its taken those who have left this thread to concieve ... and the average time!!

Ive never actually done that but when someone announces their bfp I do go to the 1st page to see how long it took!

I just worked out the average for the whole list because now you have me wondering and I think its 3.29! Which is pretty fast!

Although I guess it depends on whether when someone comes onto this thread they say they actually started ttc at a certain time, or they dont and therefore their date becomes that month or not??

divorcingjack wrote: »

:rotfl: :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

I'd be having quints if this was true!! LOL

I'm rather ashamed that I got a waggy finger from QQ for ss'ing. Naughty me

Needless to say that I didn't manage to get much tidying done, because I am a lazy slattern. I did discover that as well as living in my OH's car, our mice have stripped my feather duster to nest in my cupboards.

Cheeky beggars.

Oh no! My Nan once had mice in her garage and they made a very nice nest out of the stuffing from an oven glove mitt!

mrshappy wrote: »

:jcongratulations mrsbryan:j
lol, claire, I'm a google addict as well, and I have read through the graduates to try and work out an average, but I'm crap at numbers, the nice guidelines amused me as well given the things we are all doing while ttc :rotfl::rotfl:

Yes they are clearly crazy :rotfl:

mishkanorman

morocha wrote: »

i havent told him, but everytime he is about to come, he asks do you want a baby? then decides to do something else cos he is not sure. He finds it quite daunting the "planning a baby" bit, our DD was an accident, so to speak. We love her dearly tho.
He has said if i find out i am pregnant next month it would be great, but actually "planning it" we is in two minds.

well thats not very helpful is it ? sadly must be a man thing, mine comes out in a cold sweat at any talk of babies, though he does love the trying part :rotfl:

I sometimes sit and think am I mad, are we doing the right thing ? But then i have doubts about any big decision and thats totally normal, i think anything as life changing deserves a bit of too-ing and fro-ing.

Its one of the reasons I like coming here, no-one is going to roll their eyes because I've gone gooey at a baby on an advert or Im window shopping on eBay for baby gear

claire16c

morocha wrote: »

i havent told him, but everytime he is about to come, he asks do you want a baby? then decides to do something else cos he is not sure. He finds it quite daunting the "planning a baby" bit, our DD was an accident, so to speak. We love her dearly tho.
He has said if i find out i am pregnant next month it would be great, but actually "planning it" we is in two minds.

Oh goodness what a moment to ask!