Trying for a Baby Part 7

2ba3c

i_love_holidays wrote: »

Hi :j

Looking at all your lovely wedding pictures makes me jealous and the ladies who got married abroad did you have family go abroad with you or did you go just the 2 of you??

We didn't give anybody much notice and were supposed to be marrying in Toronto, but my immigration lawyer advised against me leaving the US (long story) - so we did a quick change and got married in Boston!


It was just the 2 of us, our photographers (who were student photographers and I found them on Craigslist - they were an absolute bagain :money: AND they are now our friends!) - BUT, we transmitted the whole ceremony via the internet for our family and friends. We had friends in Dubai, New Zealand - and all over the world who 'joined us'. It was amazing.

emsbet

Big ((hugs)) Nicki. Those landmarks are so hard aren't they?! And it's almost impossible to forget when they are approaching.

I had an email this morning from one of the baby clubs that I'd forgot to unsubscribe to, congratulating me on reaching 14 weeks and telling the things my baby would be doing this week

Hang in there sweetie and take good care of yourself.

xx

sexymouse

The friend who told me she was pregnant the other day has asked me to go for coffee with her today. She's bringing her leftover CBFM sticks and some conception vitamins. I'm feeling a bit uggh about meeting up, when she'll clearly have a baby bump and probably have her other little girl with her too, but I'm going to have to hear all about how excited they are etc at some point, so the sooner I get it over with the better I suppose. Still, at least it has made me realise that if we ever get our BFP, that I will need to think carefully about how I share my news, in case anyone I tell is upset by it.

emsbet

sexymouse wrote: »

The friend who told me she was pregnant the other day has asked me to go for coffee with her today. She's bringing her leftover CBFM sticks and some conception vitamins. I'm feeling a bit uggh about meeting up, when she'll clearly have a baby bump and probably have her other little girl with her too, but I'm going to have to hear all about how excited they are etc at some point, so the sooner I get it over with the better I suppose. Still, at least it has made me realise that if we ever get our BFP, that I will need to think carefully about how I share my news, in case anyone I tell is upset by it.

((hugs)) it is difficult to be around people who are pg when you so desperately want to be.

xx

2ba3c

2TTB3 - I'm so sorry ((big hugs))

lemonmelon - Please let us know how you get on, will be thining of you ((hugs))


For those who have miscarried, 14 years later, I still remember my two - On every important date; the date I lost them (Valentines day - I've never been able to celebrate it since) and the the date they were due.


My ex's mother went to see a spritiual person (I dont know what they are called and don't really believe in them) a couple of weeks after we lost them and she without ANY prompting (I heard the tape) talked about seeing twins (a boy and a girl) - which actually (despite my disblief in such things) gave me quite a bit of comfort. I don't know why I am talking about this (Im not suggestion people visit a psychic) - it just reminded me.


I wish I had been given the opportunity to see them.


Anyway, I have a feeling we due a whole load of happy and healthy BFPS soon. xxx

And for those with friends/colleagues etc who are pregnant. I know how you feel. I have a friend who is due very shortly, and the longer her pregnant is, the more I am reminded of how NOT pregnant I am.

emsbet

2ba3c wrote: »

We didn't give anybody much notice and were supposed to be marrying in Toronto, but my immigration lawyer advised against me leaving the US (long story) - so we did a quick change and got married in Boston!


It was just the 2 of us, our photographers (who were student photographers and I found them on Craigslist - they were an absolute bagain :money: AND they are now our friends!) - BUT, we transmitted the whole ceremony via the internet for our family and friends. We had friends in Dubai, New Zealand - and all over the world who 'joined us'. It was amazing.

Sounds lovely :happyhear We went to Boston as part of our honeymoon. We loved it

xx

sexymouse

Hugs to Nicki.

Sorry for being a moaning mini. I'll have to try and get my PMA back.

QQuaver

Testing list

Mon 3rd Oct - twigglet35
Sat 8th Oct - Primmer
Mon 10th Oct - Secretdebts
Tue 11th Oct - Triangle
Wed 12th Oct - morocha
Fri 14th Oct - RebekahR
Fri 14th Oct - LittleMissGiggle
Wed 19th Oct - Flee
Wed 19th Oct - Tinkwings
Wed 19th Oct - MrsRobertson
Thu 20th Oct - Lily_the_legend
Sat 29th Oct - Sa-ra-ra-ra

October graduates- Winners of Sept BFP predictions (8) BB1984, RebekahR, QQuaver, sexymouse, twigglet35

jovichick123 (30) TTC#2 since 09/11 BFP 03/10/11:j
Plans_all_plans TTC since 08/11 BFP 04/10/11:j
Kaemi (26) TTC#1 since 05/11 BFP 07/10/11:j
BB1984 (27) TTC#1 since 01/11　BFP 11/10/11:j

October BFP predictions

Lazarou-true - 6
QQuaver - 7
Sa-ra-ra-ra - 7
b_girl - 7
Sexymouse - 8
MrsHappy - 8
Whattoonow - 8
Triangle - 8
Secretdebts - 9
Rebekah - 9
Flee - 9
Countrybum - 9 (incl self)
BB1984 - 10
MrsRobertson - 10
Tinkwings - 10
robyn297 - 11
Kaemi - 12
2ba3c - 13

QQuaver

Team Sticky!

CD39 Jen151* - 24DPO :cool:
CD48 Secretdebts - 22DPO :cool:
CD43 Jules68 - 15DPO? :cool:
CD27 twigglet35 - ?DPO :cool:
CD30 Triangle - 14DPO :cool:
CD22 mrsrobertson - 10DPO :cool:
CD22 LittleMissGiggle - 10DPO :cool:
CD22 Whattodonow - 9DPO :cool:
CD21 robyn297 - 9DPO :cool:
CD23 RebekahR - 9DPO :cool:
CD26 Moneysaver12 - 7DPO :cool:
CD19 colli - 6DPO :cool:
CD22 tinkwings - 6DPO :cool:
CD24 Flee - 6DPO :cool:
CD20 Lily_The_Legend - 5DPO :cool:
CD18 mrshappy - 4DPO :cool:
CD26 claire16c - 4DPO :cool:
CD25 scarly* - 1DPO? :cool:
CD29 pot8o - High CBFM :cool:
CD11 nicki - High CBFM :cool:

CD85 Derby2 - Awaiting ov
CD82 MrsRogers - Awaiting ov
CD79 Praline - Awaiting ov
CD75 ilovecusions - Awaiting ov:o
CD54 Lurker1972 - Awaiting ov
CD54 pinkjelly - Awaiting ov
CD48 robyn297 - Awaiting ov
CD41 pokey128 - Awaiting ov
CD33 QQuaver* - Awaiting ov
CD33 welshpolarbear - Awaiting ov
CD32 fannyanna - Awaiting ov
CD28 esio trot - Awaiting ov
CD26 Gizmogiz* - Awaiting ov
CD25 Europa - Awaiting ov
CD24 The Next Verse - Awaiting ov
CD21 b_girl - Awaiting ov
CD20 i love holidays - Awaiting ov
CD19 GemmaE - Awaiting ov
CD19 lemonmelon - Awaiting ov
CD17 i luv freebies - Awaiting ov
CD17 Dovetail - Awaiting ov
CD17 MrsBryan - Awaiting ov
CD16 trixietoes - Awaiting ov
CD16 Bigzippy - Awaiting ov
CD12 Elelyn - Awaiting ov
CD12 littleme - Awaiting ov
CD11 2ba3c - Awaiting ov
CD11 mrs_dave - Awaiting ov
CD10 divorcingjack - Awaiting ov
CD9 lazarou_true - Awaiting ov
CD7 TTC40 - Awaiting ov
CD6 Squ1rrel5 - Awaiting ov
CD6 sexymouse - Awaiting ov
CD5 Tryingforathird - Awaiting ov
CD5 countrybum - Awaiting ov
CD4 Bezzyk - Awaiting ov
CD3 Maddie_s - Awaiting ov
CD2 Primmer* - Awaiting ov
CD2 morocha - Awaiting ov
CD1 penguin83 - Awaiting ov
CD1 Maire1 - Awaiting ov

QQuaver

lemonmelon wrote: »

Sorry I didn't come back in Friday and let you know, I got admitted to hospital and after an ultrasound and ct scan I have a huge mass filling my abdomen. They think its from an ovary (they can only see a bit of one of them) but its so big its hard to tell. I'm just waiting for an operation to take it out, find our what it is (just a cyst or something else) and desperately hoping they can save at least one of my ovaries.

(((Hugs))) Lemonmelon, hope it's just a cyst, and both ovaries will be fine.