Trying for a Baby Part 7

RebekahR

Gillyx wrote: »

Sooner than you think more than likely, and be terrorised and pulling your hair out, but it'l be worth it

I was pulling my hair out saturday night with little man. It was his 1st night away from his mummy. :eek:He screamed for 3 hours from his wake up afternoon nap til bed time! I nearly cried a couple of times. Gave up and left him in the end as I was dying for a wee after 45mins of rocking. Within 2 mins the screams turned silent lol. So I didn't go back in for half hour.

RebekahR

QQuaver wrote: »

emsbet, did you get to see Alex in person?

I really wanted to ask this but felt too insensitive. Did you get to hold him and get some photos?

mrshappy

Huge hugs 2ttb3, how sad for you and OH. I know nothing I say can make you feel better, take care of yourself xxx

i_love_holidays_2

sexymouse wrote: »

Twas me who proposed on 29th February and we also got married abroad. We didn't have any family with us, but some friends we met on the internet were our witnesses as they were on holiday at our hotel. We'd been together 9 years by the time we got married.
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im just scared he will say no

squ1rrel5 wrote: »

My little part time kitty is being picked up tonight - I am so upset
Have become so attached to her this weekend, I'm absolutely gutted that she's going!!

I dont want to cry when my colleague comes to pick her up as I'll never hear the end of it but I dont think I'll be able to keep a stiff upper lip!
I'm so bad at emotional things - already been crying for the last hour!

can you not offer to have her again soon?

emsbet wrote: »

We did. I saw him/her when it was over but DH wasn't in the room at the time. They took Alex away to be cleaned up then bought him/her back in for us to say goodbye properly.

xx

glad you got to say goodbye properly

typed this message 3 times but kept losing it :mad:

thanks to colli i have googled mat allowance which i should be entitled too..not ideal but we'll have to see what happens...my next consultation is wednesday but i know that we will find out within the next 2 weeks who is going...i might not be pregnant for another 12 months going off my rate and have a new job (PMA)
i feel really sick cos of what has happened today and in the 2ww aswell GREAT!!!:mad: i dont think ill be sleeping

OMG 2 trying to become 3 i am soooo sorry hugs to you and OH xxx

RebekahR

scarly wrote: »

Also, I loved seeing everyone's wedding pics! How good looking are you lot?? No-one looks like I thought either I know the moment has passed, but I didn't want to look at everyone's and not offer my own. Our reception venue has pictures up on their website here: http://www.thejamfactoryoxford.com/weddings/weddings/ They're not all of our wedding, but any pics of people's faces, or anything involving purple/dark turquoise are pics of me and DH. :cool: They cycle through on a slideshow so take a little while to show all of them.

We had the butterfly theme at our wedding too. Made all the place cards - table plan - and invitations ourselves! :eek:

RebekahR

2_trying_to_become_3 wrote: »

Hi everyone,

Sorry i disappeared after coming back to tell you all how I told OH!!

I haven't had a chance to read back but will do when i can!!

Bad news from me I'm afraid, reading back my posts I always new something wasnt right and unfortuately i was right!! My pregnancy was ectopic, I had to have emergency surgery, not good news after either, surgeon said one tube lost and the other badly damaged so no chance of concieving again naturally!!

Absolutely devastated, got to wait a few weeks to know for sure if we need ivf but the consultant seemed pretty definite.

Hugs to all who need tonight and i will catch up soon,

SBDTA xxx

Oh my goodness :eek::o I am now terrified of getting a BFP. The changes of keeping hold of your little one seem as remote as getting pregnant in the first place Why the heck do we do this to ourselves! So so sorry. Flip.

squ1rrel5

i_love_holidays wrote: »

can you not offer to have her again soon?

Best not the state I'm in right now!

2ttb3, so sorry. Big hugs to you and your OH. xxxx

squ1rrel5

i_love_holidays wrote: »

im just scared he will say no

I'm thinking of the 29th Feb too but really hoping he does it sometime in the next few months so I dont have to go through with it!!

Flee_2

2_trying_to_become_3 wrote: »

Hi everyone,

Sorry i disappeared after coming back to tell you all how I told OH!!

I haven't had a chance to read back but will do when i can!!

Bad news from me I'm afraid, reading back my posts I always new something wasnt right and unfortuately i was right!! My pregnancy was ectopic, I had to have emergency surgery, not good news after either, surgeon said one tube lost and the other badly damaged so no chance of concieving again naturally!!

Absolutely devastated, got to wait a few weeks to know for sure if we need ivf but the consultant seemed pretty definite.

Hugs to all who need tonight and i will catch up soon,

SBDTA xxx

OMG that is awful. So very sorry to hear your news. Hope you are looking after yourself and get lots of rest.
There are no words to say that can help, so big hugs.

emsbet

2ttb3 I'm so sorry for your loss. ((hugs)) Take good care of yourself.

QQuaver wrote: »

(((hugs))).
Mine was swallowed up in a vacuum cleaner via erpc:o

I was too scared to have the GA Remember it wasn't your baby really but the body he left behind.

xx