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Trying for a Baby Part 7

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  • emsbet
    emsbet Posts: 5,237 Forumite
    edited 11 October 2011 at 7:31AM
    Oh my gosh there is just so much bad news at the moment! We must be due some good news soon. Fingers crossed for all who are testing soon.

    Sending massive ((hugs)), all my love, and positive, healing thoughts to Mishka, 2ttb3 and Lemonmelon and anyone else who needs them.

    ETA sorry if I've missed anyone, please don't take offence if I have. I've had little sleep and I'm struggling to concentrate at the moment so my memory is not as it should be :o

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  • Triangle
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    Morning lovely ladies

    So much to catch up on - will have a good read through tonight!

    Just a quick message to say I tested this morning - BFN. Expecting AF tomorrow.

    Take care all

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  • emsbet
    emsbet Posts: 5,237 Forumite
    Triangle wrote: »
    Morning lovely ladies

    So much to catch up on - will have a good read through tonight!

    Just a quick message to say I tested this morning - BFN. Expecting AF tomorrow.

    Take care all

    T
    x


    ((hugs)) for the BFN. How many DPO are you?

    xx
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  • sexymouse
    sexymouse Posts: 6,131 Forumite
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    Sending hugs to lemonmelon, 2tryingtobecome3 and Triangle. Also more hugs for emsbet and mishka as I'm still thinking of you both. Fingers crossed lemonmelon that the operation acts as a wake-up call for your perfect eggie, which will turn into a perfect sticky bean for you both.

    No news here - CD6, so AF seems to be slowly departing, and Moon and I can get onto the BDing soon. Fingers crossed that it will be lucky cycle number 8 (we got married on the 8th, and my birthday adds up to 8 - 1st July), and I like even numbers, so you never know!

    Hugs to anyone else who is CD1, or has had a BFN, or who is just feeling fed-up and frazzled.

    sexymouse xx
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  • Birdie85
    Birdie85 Posts: 9,330 Forumite
    Morning all, wow this thread really does move quickly!

    2ttb3 I'm so sorry and sad to hear your news, I really hope you do get your baby soon, be that through natural conception or IVF. Sending loads of positive thoughts your way.

    Lemonmelon, fingers crossed that the operation goes well and I'm sure that the doctors will do everything they can to keep at least one ovary. :)

    Sending extra good healing thoughts to Mishka and Emsbet too, I'm tired this morning and feeling weepy at the bad luck you've had. :o

    No news for me yet, still waiting for AF so I can properly start keeping track of my body!
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  • 2 trying to become 3 - oh my god, I am in total shock at your news. I'm so sorry to hear that, sending you lots of (((hugs))).
    lemonmelon - sorry to hear your news too, I hope it is nothing serious and doesn't affect you TTC, (((hugs))).

    Feel really choked up at all this sad news :o
  • L1987
    L1987 Posts: 8 Forumite
    bigzippy wrote: »
    My HMS flares at/around ovulation too, I've noticed. Could it be that? What makes you think you are xDPO, have you been charting, or...? What level it's your Eds? Do you "just" dis locate joints, or vessels too - I suspect that would be what they would be most concerned about in pregnancy...? It has been suggests that I may need a c section, to avoid hip dislocation during labour/delivery (if we get that far, God willing), but there are issues with my reduced recovery time for that too, and how well (poorly!) I heal/scar tissue in the uterus etc... Has anyone said anything like that to you?

    My EDS was hurting a lot more for the past month so it didn't seem like just AF/ovulation flaring but I got AF last night anyway so I don't know what it was but hopefully I will start being able to move again.

    I just guessed what DPO I was from my phone app. I didn't chart or anything but my cycles are usually regular.

    I have Hypermobility EDS and mostly my problems are in the joints but I do take longer to heal cuts. I haven't really discussed anything with a doctor yet because my EDS specialist is going to wait until I do become pregnant first, she just told me a few problems that I might get.
  • Flee_2
    Flee_2 Posts: 770 Forumite
    So many bad things happening to our ladies. Hugs to all who need it.
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  • Nicki
    Nicki Posts: 8,166 Forumite
    Really sorry to hear your news 2tb3 and lemonmelon. I hope the outcome for you both is better than you fear at the moment.

    AFM I am having a difficult day. Feel quite down and tearful. I think the impact of the miscarriage is really starting to hit. I should be 11 weeks now and having my nuchal scan either today or next week. CBFM is still on high, and we are dtd either every day or every other day, but I feel less hopeful as time goes on.
  • Flee_2
    Flee_2 Posts: 770 Forumite
    I am not SSing. But I am struggling to stop myself eating constantly all day. I am starving. And I only went and forgot my lunch this morning. :(
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