Trying for a Baby Part 7

Secretdebts

How come I had an 11 day cycle last time and now on a 45 day and counting this time? No symptoms, no AF cramps, BFN. Feel like im stuck in limbo lol! With my bd timing this cycle tests would be showing positive by now wouldn't they?? Confused!

emsbet

mrshappy wrote: »

Aww, feel free to talk as much as you want, I am certainly not offended by any of your posts, I just feel so sad for you and your hubby this weekend, I can't imagine the pain you are going through, and I hope that you are getting some comfort from your posts and the responses you are getting xx

Thank you I know that a lot of people would rather not think about the things that can go wrong and I don't want to force that on anyone.

Having said that this thread has always been a place of great support for me and even though I hadn't planned on returning so soon, I'm glad that it's to this thread and you lovely ladies that I have come back, to begin my journey once more.

countrybum wrote: »

thinking of you this weekend emsbet xx

Thank you

xx

RebekahR

Right ladies - I'm off to drag hubby to the shops! C & H have a 20% sale on everything in store! And I want new curtains for the living room ... We aim to have it decorated fresh for when the family come at christmas. Dunno on the colour scheme we seem to change our minds ever time we set eyes on curtains! LOL. Then i'm bringing little man home with me so sister and her bf can have a date night. So he is staying over 1st time away from mum! Will be fun. I plan on bath -story - milk and then rocking to sleep and bed. Awww can't wait. Talk later ladies! Love you all xx

emsbet

RebekahR wrote: »

Yes I so much don't want it we are going to Norwich! To the norfolk broads for 4 days. Go Sat come back on the day - Tuesday. So hopefully it will help me forget it lol. And I never see any family on my birthday so will be nice to get away and do something different actually. I will test Friday AM before we go. Then I will know whether to pack any pads as i'm due on Sunday. That said even if a little line shows up I won't believe it and will still pack pads any way!!:rotfl:

Going away is a good idea. I went to Mallorca for mine and it was lovely to be away. Fingers crossed you have a birthday BFP

xx

Nicki

emsbet wrote: »

30 isn't middle aged. Maybe when people used to have a life expectancy of 60ish but that's not the case anymore. I know you've written before about how your age worries you in relation to TTC (i used to be the same) but try not to let it bother you. 30 really isn't old at all and at this stage stress will more likely play a part than your age.

I'm 31 and my DH is 33, although I think in our heads we are still 18/19 :rotfl:

xx

I had my first at 30, my second at 31 and my third at 40. I am now 42 (gulp!) and trying for fourth and hopefully still in the game having had a BFP which didn't go the distance in August. My DH is 43. I guess I genuinely am middle-aged though as 84 would be a ripe old age, though mum and dad are currently 83 and 86 and still hale and hearty (though dad is immobilized with arthritis) and my grandmother was 96 when she left us

CBFM still on high rather than peak today which is a bit of a shame as DH was rather awesome last night so it would have been nice to have conceived then . Wonder if he can keep his standards up for another week...

Triangle

Emsbet - I totally agree with Mrshappy. From the months of lurking I did before joining this thread, I know that you are a lovely, supportive person who gave lots of great advice...I'm sure many want to return that and let you know that you have lots of love and support in return

T
x

emsbet

Thank you T

xx

claire16c

RebekahR wrote: »

Right ladies - I'm off to drag hubby to the shops! C & H have a 20% sale on everything in store! And I want new curtains for the living room ... We aim to have it decorated fresh for when the family come at christmas. Dunno on the colour scheme we seem to change our minds ever time we set eyes on curtains! LOL. Then i'm bringing little man home with me so sister and her bf can have a date night. So he is staying over 1st time away from mum! Will be fun. I plan on bath -story - milk and then rocking to sleep and bed. Awww can't wait. Talk later ladies! Love you all xx

That exactly what I am doing very soon much to DHs disappointment ! M&S have 20% off homeware so off there to spend some wedding vouchers.

I also need curtains but I discovered last night after measuring, we have a very odd window that does not fit standard curtain lengths/widths. so will probably have to get them made to order which would cost a fortune. So might have to resort to putting up a sheet when DH insists on walking about in his boxers at night as Im paranoid people can see in through the net curtains! :rotfl:

QQuaver

RebekahR wrote: »

5 months older than me. 30 - I shall be joining the middle aged 30 number in 10 days :eek:

30s is the new 20s:cool:

emsbet wrote: »

I've been told they don't do any investigations until you have three recurring mc's.

Oh yes I knew that, but I thought since it was over 12 weeks:(

I'm sorry if I'm talking too much about this. I don't want to worry/upset any of you lovely ladies. If my posts are upsetting/offensive to ANY of you please let me know and I will not post anymore about it on here and confine it to the mc thread and just post TTC side of things.

No no, keep posting, we are all here for you (((hugs)))

twigglet35 wrote: »

Mornin all,

I have tested again as I'm now 3 days late, but still a BFN

So just think it must be a longer cycle this month.

Let's hope you ov'd late, and BFP is just around the corner:o

RebekahR wrote: »

Ohhhh come on QQ!! I must be further along than that by now shuuuuuuuuuuuuuurely!! I think you missed a 1 off the front of that number love

You wish:p

mrshappy wrote: »

I'm all excited cos I've moved from "awaiting ov" to "1dpo" really must get a life!

I love 1dpos too:D

emsbet wrote: »

Leaving your 20s is a bug think. I fretted a lot about it but once it happened it wasn't that bad. Have you got anything nice planned for your birthday?

I know, I felt that when I left my single digit onto 10 (end of childhood), then 20s:o They are nothing compared to leaving 30s...

Secretdebts wrote: »

How come I had an 11 day cycle last time and now on a 45 day and counting this time? No symptoms, no AF cramps, BFN. Feel like im stuck in limbo lol! With my bd timing this cycle tests would be showing positive by now wouldn't they?? Confused!

45 days cycles are better than 11 days one in my opinion:o

RebekahR wrote: »

I want new curtains for the living room

Have a nice shopping trip:wave:

morocha

Im 9DPO but for some reason i dont trust it,i guess it is because i messed up my cycle taking the pills... anyway i want AF to come, to know better about OV.
My OH is 31, i am 27.

Iam going shopping too, yay !... need to get few things to decorate DD's bedroom.