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Trying for a Baby Part 7

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  • LittleMissGiggle
    LittleMissGiggle Posts: 138 Forumite
    edited 7 October 2011 at 3:43PM
    Emsbet, My heart broke for you and Mr Emsbet when I read your news. Cry when you need to, hug when you want to and sit alone and say nothing when you need to. I hope that you and Mr Emsbet support each other through this. If you need anything then do let us know.

    In my own TTC world I am mid 2ww and feel weird, my boobs normally hurt from after ov until AF arrives and they dont hurt at all. An odd twinge but not the heavy feeling i normally get.
    TMI alert I feel a little swollen which is unusual and has never happened before. Not sure whats going on but I am knicker watching already as I only managed 19 days last cycle and I'm cd18 today but previous cycles were 25 days so part of me just wants to get to cd25 for a reasonable length cycle but part of me cant help but wonder if it's my month.

    Away to see family this weekend and there's plenty of sport on to distract me so we shall just see what the next few days bring. Hope everyone is ok. You all looked so so gorgeous and happy in your pics.
  • twigglet35
    twigglet35 Posts: 140 Forumite
    edited 7 October 2011 at 4:05PM
    Afternoon Lady's,

    Congrats to Kaemi have a H&H 9 months xx

    I'm so sorry Emsbet, we are all thinking of u at this sad time xx

    Well I'm still waiting for AF :(

    Had a very strange night last night, i woke up at 2 AM and i was wet all over (like i had just got out the shower) my first thought was have i wet the bed lol but after a sniff test, it didn't smell, so went for a wee and had to use a towel to dry off.
    I don't remember having a dream or anything like that, and i have the window open all the time, so wasn't to hot.

    Its one of them strange mystery's.



    Huggs to all that need them xxx
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    edited 7 October 2011 at 11:27PM
    Testing list

    Mon 3rd Oct - twigglet35
    Sat 8th Oct - Primmer
    Mon 10th Oct - Secretdebts
    Tue 11th Oct - Triangle
    Wed 12th Oct - morocha
    Wed 19th Oct - Flee
    Wed 19th Oct - Tinkwings

    October graduates- Winners of Sept BFP predictions (8) BB1984, RebekahR, QQuaver, sexymouse, twigglet35

    jovichick123 (30) TTC#2 since 09/11 BFP 03/10/11:j
    Plans_all_plans TTC since 08/11 BFP 04/10/11:j
    Kaemi (26) TTC#1 since 05/11 BFP 07/10/11:j

    October BFP predictions

    Lazarou-true - 6
    QQuaver - 7
    Sa-ra-ra-ra - 7
    b_girl - 7
    Sexymouse - 8
    MrsHappy - 8
    Whattoonow - 8
    Triangle - 8
    Secretdebts - 9
    Rebekah - 9
    Flee - 9
    Countrybum - 9 (incl self)
    BB1984 - 10
    MrsRobertson - 10
    Tinkwings - 10
    robyn297 - 11
    Kaemi - 12
    2ba3c - 13
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    edited 7 October 2011 at 8:58PM
    Team Sticky!

    CD35 Jen151* - 20DPO :cool:
    CD44 Secretdebts - 18DPO :cool:
    CD35 morocha - ?DPO :cool:
    CD29 Bezzyk - 13DPO :cool:
    CD24 Primmer - 12DPO? :cool:
    CD34 Maire1 - 11DPO :cool:
    CD39 Jules68 - 11DPO? :cool:
    CD47 BB1984 - 10DPO :cool:
    CD26 Triangle - 10DPO :cool:
    CD18 mrsrobertson - 6DPO :cool:
    CD18 Whattodonow - 5DPO :cool:
    CD17 robyn297 - 5DPO :cool:
    CD19 RebekahR - 5DPO :cool:
    CD18 LittleMissGiggle - 3DPO :cool:
    CD15 colli - 2DPO :cool:
    CD18 tinkwings - 2DPO :cool:
    CD20 Flee - 2DPO :cool:
    CD14 mrshappy - ov? :cool:
    CD25 pot8o - High CBFM :cool:
    CD7 nicki - High CBFM :cool:


    CD81 Derby2 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD78 MrsRogers - Awaiting ov :o

    CD75 Praline - Awaiting ov :o
    CD71 ilovecusions - Awaiting ov:o
    CD50 Lurker1972 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD50 pinkjelly - Awaiting ov :o
    CD44 robyn297 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD37 pokey128 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD33 littleme - Awaiting ov :o
    CD29 QQuaver* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD29 welshpolarbear - Awaiting ov :o
    CD28 fannyanna - Awaiting ov :o
    CD24 esio trot - Awaiting ov :o
    CD24 penguin83 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD23 twigglet35 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD22 claire16c - Awaiting ov :o
    CD22 Moneysaver12 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD22 Gizmogiz* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD21 scarly* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD21 Europa - Awaiting ov :o
    CD20 The Next Verse - Awaiting ov :o
    CD17 b_girl - Awaiting ov :o
    CD16 Lily_The_Legend - Awaiting ov :o
    CD16 i love holidays - Awaiting ov :o
    CD15 GemmaE - Awaiting ov :o
    CD15 lemonmelon - Awaiting ov :o
    CD13 i luv freebies - Awaiting ov :o
    CD13 Dovetail - Awaiting ov :o
    CD13 MrsBryan - Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 trixietoes - Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 Bigzippy - Awaiting ov :o
    CD8 Elelyn - Awaiting ov :o
    CD7 2ba3c - Awaiting ov :o
    CD7 mrs_dave - Awaiting ov :o
    CD6 divorcingjack - Awaiting ov :o
    CD5 lazarou_true - Awaiting ov :o
    CD3 TTC40 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD2 Squ1rrel5 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD2 sexymouse - Awaiting ov :o
    CD1 Tryingforathird - Awaiting ov :o
    CD1 countrybum - Awaiting ov :o
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    Lost a massive post I've just written:mad:
    Will be back later, still haven't caught up, you lot have been chatty:shocked:
  • tinkwings
    tinkwings Posts: 3,288 Forumite
    emsbet wrote: »
    Hello all,

    Just wanted to let you know that I will be joining you all again at some point in the not to distant future.
    We found out today that our little baby's heart had stopped beating. :( It had stopped just a few days after our dating scan. We are both absolutely devestated to have gotten to over 13 weeks and formed a real attachment to our little onea and then to have it taken away. We have opted for a "medical miscarriage" and so I have taken a pill this morning and have to go back to hospital on Sunday for further medication and to wait to see if I will pass the baby.

    We've been told because this is our second mc that we will have more regular checkups and a consultant next time.

    Anyway I hope you are all well and don't mind if I hang around while I wait so we can try again.

    xx

    Oh honey I am so deeply sorry to read your sad news. Sending big big hugs to you and Mr Emsbet. Take care of both of you and please know that we are always here for you xxxxx :A:A:A:A:A
    If you can think it........it will happen
  • mrshappy
    mrshappy Posts: 982 Forumite
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    hello :)

    Congratulations Kaemi, lovely news x

    hugs Emsbet, sorry to see your post, take care of yourself x

    Going by my CM and discomfort I think I may have ov'd yesterday/today, am feeling totally poo today and was sent home from work at lunchtime, which I don't normally do-the lst time I was off work not well was over 2 years ago after a really bad car crash! but I have been fighting this flu type thing all week and came home and have been in my bed all afternoon. I feel awful, but rather frisky at the same time, lol, have lots of decent CM, so will do my best to look/feel a bit better for DH getting in from work ;)
  • Triangle
    Triangle Posts: 1,044 Forumite
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    So sorry to hear your news Emsbet, absolutely heart-breaking, sending you lots and lots of love xxx


    Hugs to sexymouse and tryingforathird - and to you too lemonmelon, hope everything will be OK.

    Cheers Rebekah - twas very hard not to spill it down my dress!

    BB1984 you are my cycle buddy! How are you feeling? I have had mild cramping all day, think maybe AF will arrive early over the weekend, boo hiss!


    Love to all and have a lovely evening - Friday night woo hoo :D

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  • Emsbet, I am so sad to hear your news. And to think that all we've been told to focus on is getting to 12 weeks. I hope that physically it's not too painful, take as much time off work as you can and make sure you talk about it. I'll be thinking of you.
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  • claire16c
    claire16c Posts: 7,074 Forumite
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    claire16c & elelyn - thanks! Gives me some hope! We've only been together 12 years!!! :o

    We will were together for 7 and a half when we got engaged and almost 9 now so youre not far off!

    Someone I know had such a laid back boyfriend and knew he would never propose so she literally just started booking things like the regsitry office, flowers etc, and told him the date and time and when he needed to turn up. He did! theyve been together years now and got 2 kids!

    My DH is a bit like that, always talking about these huge dramatic proposals (coming from someone who said he didnt believe in marriage before - turned out he thought it was a religious thing! I said people have been getting married before religion and for me its got nothing to do with religion and same for many others -hence why more people get married outside of church than in! so he seemed to change his mind after that!) but I knew he is so laid back hes practically horizontal, so I just started suggesting a year when we could get married and as we wanted to go abroad wed need to inform our families 2 years in advance to give them time to save up..

    He agreed that was a good idea, so then I said well seeing as were going travelling in 2 years, why dont we do it at the same time to save money and flying back and forth, and he said ok then.. And then I said well then we better start getting telling everyone then seeing as that time is now and he didnt object so i made him ring his mum to make it official! lol

    he still wanted to get down on one knee though and 'do it properly' so he did that when we went on holiday to the grand canyon. We bought the ring there so I knew he was going to do it but it was lovely all the same!



    Kaemi - Congratulations thats fantastic to have another BFP!!! :)




    Emsbet - I am so so sorry for your loss. It made me sad just to read your post so cant imagine how you are feeling inside :( xx
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