Trying for a Baby Part 7

Nicki

Hugs tinkwings.

Were you checking to see if your HCG had come down to zero so you could start trying again, or are you towards the end of your first cycle ttc post mc? I thought we lost about the same time, and I'm not due to test for another 10 days or so. If this is the first negative post mc, then at least you know that your body is physically ready to start again. I'm not having such a good day either. I just got a letter in the post from my obstetrician suggesting we sit down together to discuss future pregnancy or contraception. Why he thought it would be better to wait for more than 2 weeks to write to me, when I might not be thinking of what happened every waking minute, rather than either suggesting this immediately or not at all I'm not sure, but hey ho.

Hugs to RebekahR as well. I've had cycles like yours as well when I was 100% convinced I was pregnant, but not to be. The body can be so cruel sometimes. Be nice to yourself for a few days.

Congratulations Legallyblonde. Hope the next 9 months fly by.

RebekahR

tinkwings wrote: »

So tested this am BFN :mad::mad::mad: Why oh Why do we do it to ourselves ???

Feel sooooooooooooo stupid now and that it was a total waste :mad::o

I am a good person I just want a baby that is meant for this world and not the next :mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:

Sorry not in a good place today

You and me both. Why did I kid myself. Too emotionally upset to make much sense of anything today. Wasn't going to post it as I didn't want to distract from the BFP posted. But as you have you can take some tiny bit of comfort that I feel the same.

Thanks all. No period party yet.

LegalBlonde

Thank you all so much and love and hugs to Tink and Rebekah

It has been me enough times in a bad or worried place when other people are BFP so keep posting Rebekah!

Not that I have much advice!!

I was very good with myself on Thursday before OH got home and wouldn't let myself google anything then I have been away. And now google is calling my name!!!

RebekahR

LOL. Now you need google!That must be a weird place between BFP and Midwife.

lemonmelon_2

Congratulations Legalblonde, that's excellent news, wishing you a very happy and healthy pregnancy


Rebekah ((((((((((massive hugs))))))))) be nice to yourself sweetie

colli

whoop! Congrats LegalBlonde. :j:j

Sorry for CD1 Rebekah

Sorry for BFN too Tinkwings, may be a bit early? You're only 12dpo so fingers crossed for a shy bfp . Sorry to hear about your other problems too, it always comes at once doesn't it . Hopefuly you're in for a massive run of good luck to compensate x

Hugs Nicki. I'm a massive fan of the NHS but sometimes it can be so frustrating. Hopefuly they just want to see you for a routine chat which is why it hasn't been mentioned earlier

Hugs to Lily too, pregnancy can make you emotional too so don't assume you're out just yet, hold tight

As for me, 10dpo. No symptoms as such but for the first cycle since coming off the pill nearly a year ago I have had NO mid-cycle spotting :j. I had spotting before my BFP last time so don't think it's an indicator of being pg, I've been taking a b vit complex so that seems to have helped. As long as AF stays away until Friday I can say this cycle is pretty much text book which is very reassuring, even if we didn't catch the eggy.

Hugs to anyone else who needs them xxxx. Hope there's lots of bding going on (whether you're around ov or not ) xxx

tinkwings

Nicki wrote: »

Hugs tinkwings.

Were you checking to see if your HCG had come down to zero so you could start trying again, or are you towards the end of your first cycle ttc post mc? I thought we lost about the same time, and I'm not due to test for another 10 days or so. If this is the first negative post mc, then at least you know that your body is physically ready to start again. I'm not having such a good day either. I just got a letter in the post from my obstetrician suggesting we sit down together to discuss future pregnancy or contraception. Why he thought it would be better to wait for more than 2 weeks to write to me, when I might not be thinking of what happened every waking minute, rather than either suggesting this immediately or not at all I'm not sure, but hey ho.

Yes my levels went back to 0 I am on CD26 using the 1st day of my MC as CD1.......Guess I just have to wait until AF arrives then we can use OV sticks next cycle to ensure we don't miss out I just feel odd using them as both times we have used them we have got PG and both times I have MC'd We got caught with DD2 from just being at it like bunnies twice a day for a week :eek::p

Sending you huge hugs xxxxx

colli

RebekahR wrote: »

You and me both. Why did I kid myself. Too emotionally upset to make much sense of anything today. Wasn't going to post it as I didn't want to distract from the BFP posted. But as you have you can take some tiny bit of comfort that I feel the same.

Thanks all. No period party yet.

keep posting good and bad. We're here for support through the bad times and celebration in the good. We ALL have enough ups and downs

Lily_The_Legend

colli wrote: »

Hugs to Lily too, pregnancy can make you emotional too so don't assume you're out just yet, hold tight

Thanks colli. This is going to be the longest week of my life! :eek::rotfl:

Elelyn

Congratulations LegalBlonde!!! I'm really chuffed for you.