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Trying for a Baby Part 7

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  • TeamLowe
    TeamLowe Posts: 2,406 Forumite
    tinkwings wrote: »
    I think more because I know what they have to give & what I am missing out on :o I had to wait 13 years & 4 days between dd1 & dd2 (due to ex husband having a versectomy when dd1 was 1 month old as he never wanted kids) It took me a long time to trust & find a new man that I could dream to hope of having another baby with.

    Now that I have DD2 she has gone someway to making me feel complete if that makes any sense at all. :o

    Having Lost 2 babies :A & been given the honour of having two babies I still have a gap for another.....:o:o:o:o

    Does that make any sense ????..................


    Goes off to make a cuppa as totally going off & spouting!!!!! :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

    makes sense to me :)

    on the subject of BDing, after telling DH during the day that i'm getting up to Ov so he'll be on call soon, he denied me. he happened to be lying on the bed at the time so i used the age old trick of sitting on him and wiggling my butt a bit (both fully clothed btw). that did the trick i got the 'well, if you're on top...' so i feel quite triamphunt today as i don't usually like being on top and worry that the swimmers will fall out but they didn't seem to come out any quicker and the strongest defy gravity anyway.

    Course, that sounds sexy but whilst doing my subtle work to get him in the mood he was telling me that a colleague's friend has a speech impediment/disorder whereby she can only make the 'a' sound and no other vowels. so we was very immature and replicating this then giggling a lot. so inapprporiate
    oh, and when i kissed him goodbye this morning at the station, the last thing he said to me? 'kass ma an tha tats' and then left me laughing like a loon in the car park :rotfl:
    Little Lowe born January 2014 at 36+6

    Completed on house September 2013

    Got Married April 2011
  • tea_lover
    tea_lover Posts: 8,261 Forumite
    OMG stop burping you disgusting little man. You're in an office, with other people, who can hear you :mad::mad:. Once is an accident, by the time you're in double figures it's just a complete lack of manners.

    Ok, rant over :rotfl:.
  • mrsj28
    mrsj28 Posts: 1,287 Forumite
    I just had lovely news from one of my best friends - she got a BFP this morning and has been trying since the beginning of last year, and had a miscarriage last summer. So pleased for her - and she has PCOS. Praying this is a sticky for her. :j

    If there was anybody I actively WANTED to get pg before me, it's her!
  • TeamLowe
    TeamLowe Posts: 2,406 Forumite
    edited 1 August 2012 at 12:41PM
    nooo Mrsj28, that's very nearly my story! she's stolen my BFP :rotfl:only joking, very pleased for her, i'm sure it will be her forever baby and it will be great for you two to have children the same age and go through pregnancy together ;):D

    ordered a legsuit, like what the Olympians have! the ultimate in modesty and massive thigh hiding, well pleased, was only 8 squids on amazon but from sportsdirect
    SO exercise plan
    C25K MonWedFri, swimming as a treat SatSun but those sessions are optional
    as an extra bit of motivation in the spreadsheet of my life i'm logging how far i run so i can hopefully see it rising up and i've set myself a goal of at least 5k a week. think i'll add the swimming to that to, it's a 25m pool so should be easy to work out lol x x
    Little Lowe born January 2014 at 36+6

    Completed on house September 2013

    Got Married April 2011
  • mrsj28
    mrsj28 Posts: 1,287 Forumite
    TeamLowe wrote: »
    nooo Mrsj28, that's very nearly my story! she's stolen my BFP :rofl only joking, very pleased for her, i'm sure it will be her forever baby and it will be great for you two to have children the same age and go through pregnancy together :):)

    Let's hope so! Would love to go through pregnancy with her.

    Fingers crossed you'll have an August BFP so that your stories are the same :)
  • Mogwai, team lowe and mrsj that's lovely about your friends :) well done for being happy for them. Hopefully it'll be you soon too

    Not having a good day here and I have to keep popping to the loo :( plus I've got some spotting so I guess af will be here tomorrow :(
    I'm supposed to be going out with my friend and her 1yrold after work but I might just go home and sleep instead
  • mrsj28
    mrsj28 Posts: 1,287 Forumite
    lemonmelon wrote: »
    Mogwai, team lowe and mrsj that's lovely about your friends :) well done for being happy for them. Hopefully it'll be you soon too

    Not having a good day here and I have to keep popping to the loo :( plus I've got some spotting so I guess af will be here tomorrow :(
    I'm supposed to be going out with my friend and her 1yrold after work but I might just go home and sleep instead

    ((hugs)) lemonmelon, hope you feel better soon! Going home and sleeping sounds like a good plan. ((hugs)) for the spotting too :(
  • abis21
    abis21 Posts: 1,120 Forumite
    Testing list

    Wed 1st Aug - Good Vibes

    August graduates - Winner of June BFP predictions (7) vesper, razwaz :T




    August BFP predictions

    Abis21 - 7
    Birdie - 8
    Lilymay - 9
    Time2deal - 9
    :love: Married my lobster in July 2011 :love:

    TTC # 2 since Oct 2011 - good things come to those who wait :o

    :dance: 2013 is going to be our lucky year :dance:
  • abis21
    abis21 Posts: 1,120 Forumite
    Team Sticky!

    CD62 Secretdebts - 38DPO :cool:
    CD55 scarly* - 36DPO :cool:
    CD40 blacksta - 25DPO :cool:
    CD36 Loulou123 - 20DPO :cool:
    CD27 good vibes - 15DPO :cool:
    CD25 time2deal - 13DPO :cool:
    CD25 needhelpsaving - 13DPO :cool:
    CD32 Tea lover - 12DPO :cool:
    CD37 claire16c - 11DPO :cool:
    CD24 lemonmelon - 10DPO :cool:
    CD21 niknok - 9DPO :cool:
    CD24 Birdie85* - 6DPO :cool:
    CD21 Elsie37 - 6DPO :cool:
    CD17 tinkwings - 5DPO :cool:
    CD16 codemonkey - 5DPO :cool:

    CD114 Fannyanna - Awaiting ov :o
    CD69 mfwbutneedhelp - Awaiting ov :o
    CD50 *BigBird* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD50 mssas - Awaiting ov :o
    CD35 Lily_The_Legend - Awaiting ov :o
    CD31 coops228 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD27 i love holidays - Awaiting ov :o
    CD26 MrsHappy - Awaiting ov :o
    CD26 mrs_dave - Awaiting ov :o
    CD25 teaandcupcakesplease - Awaiting ov :o
    CD22 onlywayisup - Awaiting ov :o
    CD20 vesper - Awaiting ov :o
    CD20 Flee - Awaiting ov :o
    CD18 mrsj28 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD16 TeamLowe - Awaiting ov :o
    CD16 Helenlk - Awaiting ov :o
    CD16 TTC40 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD15 lilymay - Awaiting ov :o
    CD14 Squ1rrel5 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD14 Rumfeeble - Awaiting ov :o
    CD13 Leopardlady - Awaiting ov :o
    CD12 twigglet35 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD11 Miss Maid - Awaiting ov :o
    CD10 Nicki - Awaiting ov :o
    CD9 RazWaz - Awaiting ov :o
    CD6 atton83 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD6 Metranil Vavin - Awaiting ov :o
    CD6 claretsgirl - Awaiting ov :o
    CD4 QQuaver* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD4 becca0417 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD3 COMP - Awaiting ov :o
    CD3 Definitely Blonde - Awaiting ov :o
    CD3 Abis21 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD2 apple*pie - Awaiting ov :o
    CD2 mogwai - Awaiting ov :o


    Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
    The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart
    :love: Married my lobster in July 2011 :love:

    TTC # 2 since Oct 2011 - good things come to those who wait :o

    :dance: 2013 is going to be our lucky year :dance:
  • abis21
    abis21 Posts: 1,120 Forumite
    Lilymay - Yay for the dresses arriving. Hope they don't fit you for too long tho ;) So sad about your bosses son :(
    Codemonkey - I've geared up for ov a few times and then it didn't happen til later. I think my stress levels effect the egg releasing. Either that - or the egg has a quick look at the big slide (the falopian tube) and chickens out! Its hard work keeping BDing when ov keeps threatening tho :o Hope you manage to catch the eggy.
    Niknok - Do you temp as well? I found that temping really helped to know when I did ov (altho its too late to BD at that point). My cycles were all irregular after coming off the pill so it also gave me some warning of AF approaching. Hope the queasiness passes soon for you.
    Mogwai - desismileys_0849.gif for CD1. DH sounds lovely tho, its so nice to have their support. Hope you enjoyed your cake :D Does your friend know you are TTC? Hopefully you will have LO's the same sort of age.
    Teaandcupcakes - AF symptoms are similar to pregnancy symptoms :o Which day will you test on & I'll put you on the testing list?
    COMP - Heavy periods suck :( Already bled thru my leggins by 9.30am, but luckily they're black and I have a long top on. Its still yucky tho :o
    Tealover - I sometimes stalk the pregnancy thread to check out how the graduates are doing. Hugs for getting cranky round ov time. I just tell DH whats going on, so the other night it went like this. Me, fancy DTD? DH, not really. Me, but AF is due tomorrow and we won't need to use a condom. DH, laughing, you shouldn't be so direct about these things. Me, would you prefer if I was cryptic and you didn't have a clue what I meant? DH, fair point. (we did go on the DTD as well :D)
    Teamlowe - Don't be bitter :D Good things come to those who wait and you are clearly due a baby that sleeps thru the night from day 1, and thats poo smells of roses ;) Yay for your trousers fitting better :j Thats much better than a figure on the scales anyday.
    Razwaz - Sounds like a good plan :cool: Hopefully you will be nicely relaxed and cath the eggy.
    Lemonmelon - :rotfl: at opossums - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Opossum Good news for you tho :j You are now 10DPO ;):p Not sure about your upset tummy tho - any chance you could ask at a pharmacy and explain the TTC?
    Time2deal - Fingers crossed you are just too early for a BFP. I got a tiny >tiny< TLP @ 11dpo and DH didn't believe me that it was an actual line. You're not out yet. I agree tho, I also know my body sooooo much better from TTC. Not sure if this is a good thing yet or not as I do notice more twinges etc. Don't want to end up a hypocondriac :p
    Marie - Big hugs for your loss. I think I would cound that day after your ERPC as CD1 tho. I had abnormal HCG levels due to the molar & tested positive for 6 weeks +. I have AF after 6.5 weeks tho. Hope you are super fertile now :cool:
    JoJoB - AF might take a little time. Its a !!!!!! cycle after a m/c as noone can predict what will happen. I'm sorting my diet out now too after my loss. Lost 3 lbs so far this week. We do need to be ready to prepare our bodies for our forever babies :cool:
    Tinkwings - Yayyy for mentioning it at the docs. Bloods are a good start tho and will give you some info. Hows the CBFM trial going?
    Definately blonde - Good luck with the OPKs. Holiday sounds lovely if you can make it - any ideas where? Did they give you a time frame for OH's biopsy?
    Goodvibes - Get testing girl :rotfl: Start off the august BFP boom :p
    Amyloofoo - :wave: Hello and welcome to [STRIKE]the mad house[/STRIKE] the board :D Hope your stay here is short and sweet. QQ will add you to the front page when she is back. Do you know what cycle day you are on now and I will add you to the sticky list? If I were you I wouldn't bother temping for the first couple of months. I'd just go with the flow and BD when you can. It can get stressful trying to time it right with ov, so I would try that in a couple of months if the relaxed approach isn't working :cool:
    Bigzippy :wave: hello, how are you doing?
    Binkyboo - Good news about the bleeding stopping. Have a happy and healthy 9 months :beer:
    Birdie - Pregnancy and birth aren't that bad or we wouldn't be coming back for seconds ;):p Have a word with your OH's boss. Am sure he would grant an early finish so you can DTD :rotfl:
    MrsJ - Yayyy for successful operation BD :j Sounds like you had a lovely date night. TTC sends us all crazy but at least you are in good company :D
    Tealover - Work will get used to it if you do need time off for appts. Just say its a gynae issue - they won't question it. And yes - my wagging finger is at the ready if needed :rotfl:
    Atton - Have you seen the doctor about yr depression or a counsellor. Sounds like you have a lot going on in your life at the mo and a bit of outside help might be useful. Hugs.
    :love: Married my lobster in July 2011 :love:

    TTC # 2 since Oct 2011 - good things come to those who wait :o

    :dance: 2013 is going to be our lucky year :dance:
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