Trying for a Baby Part 7

atton83

Morning ladies

There seems to be a baby boom in our town at the moment but still no luck for me. Its looking like my dreams never going to come true. So im basically provingmy dad right on the failure front grrrrrr sorry i seem to b really down at the moment. I just want my forever baby sooooo much that when i see a kid i act like a kid around them but then when i see a woman pregnant i seem to get down depressed and angry that people who shouldn't be given the privalige end up poppin them out like ping pong balls.

I know i need to keep positive and keep believing but how can i when even my friends who are pregnant basically tell me to give up trying as im flogging a deadhorse

Sorry its one of those days for me today and i cant talk to oh as all he says wait till october. Hes gonna go get his swimmers tested an if still no good then hes gonna pay the £100 for them to buypass the tubes and get them out with a needle and test them that way. He thinks that there is no point getting tested till october as the quality could change between now and then but weve been trying since i was 18 which just knocks you down and makes you feel your being punished for something.

Im sorry don't mean to bring you all down. Maybe next cycle i will stop everything on bd when we want not when we think we need to due to my body schreaming at me

I don't know what to do anymore as i can't even get a +opk

mogwai

lemonmelon wrote: »

Hugs for bfns mogwai and definitely blonde mogwai was this cycle better being more relaxed?

Thanks LM - this cycle was def better, more enjoyable, inc the BDing and I think I'll continue to do it this way unless we have to go to the docs, and are told differently.

The funny thing was this month I havent been taking any tablets as I got tired of pill popping too and I had the most ewcm (5/6 days) with ovulation spotting! i think there is more to staying relaxed than we think..

So this month after AF finishes we'll BD every 2/3 days and then try for more freq around CD10-14. Thats it. And not SS in the 2ww and not POAS until AF is due/late.

Welcome missmaid!

abis21

Testing list

Mon 30th July - Apple*pie
Tue 31st July - Time2deal
Wed 1st Aug - Good Vibes

July graduates - Winner of June BFP predictions (7) time2deal:T

msnigella TTC#1 since 04/12 BFP 01/07/12:j
Findingmyownway TTC#1 since 03/12 BFP 06/07/12:j
Sequeena TTC#2 since 04/12 (1mc 3 chemicals) BFP 08/07/12:j
2ba3c (32) TTC#1 since 05/11 (mc twins 1997) BFP 10/07/12:j
penguin83 (28) TTC#3 since 08/11 BFP 16/07/12:j
Jen151 (31) TTC #1 since 08/10 BFP 25/07/12:j


July BFP predictions

[STRIKE]Definitely Blonde - 5[/STRIKE]
Leopardlady - 6
lilymay - 6
vesper - 7
RazWaz - 7
Birdie - 8
becca - 8
Quaver - 8
Tea lover - 8
good vibes - 8
onlywayisup - 9
abis - 9
mrsj28 - 9
Time2deal - 10

abis21

Team Sticky!

CD60 Secretdebts - 36DPO :cool:
CD53 scarly* - 34DPO :cool:
CD38 blacksta - 23DPO :cool:
CD34 Loulou123 - 18DPO :cool:
CD28 COMP - 16DPO :cool:
CD31 Definitely Blonde - 15DPO :cool:
CD32 apple*pie - 15DPO :cool:
CD28 mogwai - 15DPO :cool:
CD25 good vibes - 13DPO :cool:
CD23 time2deal - 11DPO :cool:
CD23 needhelpsaving - 11DPO :cool:
CD30 Tea lover - 10DPO :cool:
CD35 claire16c - 9DPO :cool:
CD22 lemonmelon - 8DPO :cool:
CD19 niknok - 7DPO :cool:
CD22 Birdie85* - 4DPO :cool:
CD19 Elsie37 - 4DPO :cool:
CD15 tinkwings - 3DPO :cool:
CD14 codemonkey - 3DPO :cool:

CD112 Fannyanna - Awaiting ov
CD67 mfwbutneedhelp - Awaiting ov
CD48 *BigBird* - Awaiting ov
CD48 mssas - Awaiting ov
CD35 abis - Awaiting ov
CD34 Lily_The_Legend - Awaiting ov
CD29 coops228 - Awaiting ov
CD25 i love holidays - Awaiting ov
CD24 MrsHappy - Awaiting ov
CD24 mrs_dave - Awaiting ov
CD23 teaandcupcakesplease - Awaiting ov
CD20 onlywayisup - Awaiting ov
CD18 vesper - Awaiting ov
CD18 Flee - Awaiting ov
CD16 mrsj28 - Awaiting ov
CD14 TeamLowe - Awaiting ov
CD14 Helenlk - Awaiting ov
CD14 TTC40 - Awaiting ov
CD13 lilymay - Awaiting ov
CD12 Squ1rrel5 - Awaiting ov
CD12 Rumfeeble - Awaiting ov
CD11 Leopardlady - Awaiting ov
CD10 twigglet35 - Awaiting ov
CD8 Nicki - Awaiting ov
CD7 RazWaz - Awaiting ov
CD4 atton83 - Awaiting ov
CD4 Metranil Vavin - Awaiting ov
CD4 claretsgirl - Awaiting ov
CD2 QQuaver* - Awaiting ov
CD2 becca0417 - Awaiting ov
CD2 Binkyboo - Awaiting ov

Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart

abis21

QQ - Hope you have a nice time with your sister. I'm attempting to update the lists for you. Hope I don't stuff it up :rotfl:
Goodvibes - Hope you are feeling better soon xx
Lilymay - Crazy chart this month so far!! Are you ill?
:rotfl: @ the scrotters comment. Hope your chat with your boss went ok. Let us know.
Mogwai - Hugs for BFN. 10 years?! It won't take all that time for you.
Becca :wave: Happy honeymooning. for the witch catching you
Claretsgirl for the with catching you too. It will be your turn soon
Binkyboo - Welcome :wave: Do you want your age and any other details adding for the front page? QQ will have to update that one, but we can get ready for that. Do you use fertility friend for your temping?
Lemonmelon - Any pics of cakes?
Metranil Vavin - Hope your OH is on the mend - sounds nasty Keep on cheering us on tho :rotfl:
JoJoB - As Birdie said, full red flow for CD1. Its nice to know its back in a wierd way isn't it Hopefully you won't see the witch again this year tho. Sorry I can't help with the soya questions - hopefully someone else can tho.
Birdie - Hugs for insensitive comments but it sounds like your OH handled it well :rotfl: Good luck with the blood tests.
Teapandcupcakesplease - Hugs for feeling frustrated - I think we all do at times
Teamlowe - :rotfl: at stealth pregnancies. Am shocked that your friend brought her LO to your meal - I would never do that to anyone. Glad you had a nice meal tho. Any pics of your embroidery?
Tealover :rotfl: at there being more mondays than anything else and :rotfl: at dreaming of graduates. Will be you soon - just work on that faith and patience
COMP - Hugs for you. Your chart did look so promising
Elsie - Looking at your chart I don't think you have ov'd yet so keep BDing every day or 2 if you can How long are your cycles normally?
Miss Maid - :wave: welcome. If you want to be added to the front page, just let us know your age and any other details and QQ will update that when she can. Are you using fertility friend? You can link your chart to here too so we can [STRIKE]be nosy[/STRIKE] help with any questions you may have
Atton - It might be wedding stresses effecting ov at the moment. Sounds like your OH has a good plan tho, so just be patient. :cool:

abis21

Shout up if I made any mistakes - lol! Its hard being a stand in for QQ - hope I did ok. Thank you once again for all your hard work QQ and keeping us all on track.

My weekend away was amazing, and I managed absolutely fine with driving the motorhome. Was all set up, on the sun lounger with a beer and the bbq on by the time DH arrived :cool:

Only 1 more week to wait for our next holiday too :j:j

I think its CD1 today. Gonna call it later for sure. If its not today it will be tomorrow. Obviously haven't been trying this month, but not sure whether to this month or not... :think: Will have a chat with the molar nurse this week and see. I'm thinking of NTNP, as we BD without a condom last night (seeing as AF was threatening) and now don't think I will want to go back to condoms as they're really not nice

zcrat41

TeaLover - re Sarah/99/OT fertility (!) I have a friend from a home group I go to. Her and her DH have been married for 8 years, she's 40 next month and they've just had their first baby after 8 years of trying and praying very hard.

Not quite on the OT scale but another good outcome.

*BigBird*

Can I ask a question of the CBFM users on this forum? How many "high" days do you usually get? I'm currently on my 11th consecutive day of getting a high reading, but no peak. (Actually, I forgot to test on the 7th day (CD15), but I'm assuming that would have been high too; if it was a peak wouldn't it have dropped back to low by now?)

I've heard of people getting high readings but no peak, but is it normal to have so many highs in one cycle?

Going by EWCM, I'd say I ovulated last week. My cycles are usually around 30 days and today is CD19 so unless this one is going to be a particularly long cycle for some reason, I can't see that I'm still waiting to ov.

I think this CBFM is just causing even more confusion

Hugs to anyone who needs one, or even just wants one. Sorry I'm being rubbish at keeping up lately, work is a bit hectic

tea_lover

Yay, the garage have called and my car's ready to collect! :T Not in the slightest TTC related but will be so glad to get my poor little dented* car back - I can't drive the hire car for the life of me lol.

* well - hopefully not so dented now!

clearing_out_my_pockets

CD1.

Positives:

- At least she's on time which means my cycle is regular
- More time to save
- I don't need to hide not drinking when I meet my friend in an hour's time