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Trying for a Baby Part 7

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  • codemonkey
    codemonkey Posts: 6,534 Forumite
    time2deal wrote: »
    Definately Blonde - sorry about the BFN. It's not over til AF appears though!
    Apple pie - good luck for Monday.

    I need you both for the July numbers! :beer:

    Secrets - It's so hard isn't it when people just announce it. I am finding it increasingly hard to be happy for people who seem to have it easy! But I try to think that there are good and bad things in life. It's just that we are all SO focussed on this at the moment that we may be losing perspective...

    (Please note, I am failing at doing this! I am super jealous all the time if I am honest.)


    niknok: I hope you are right, but let me promise you that everyone on this board has been convinced many a time. But also lots of people do get pregnant every month, so fingers crossed!

    Code: Good luck, hopefully you did manage to catch the right time. The OPK's for me tend to come up a bit early, so there could still be time.

    AFM, nothing much going on. I thought I had a faint deep down crampy feeling which isn't a good sign as I normally get a solid 'twinge' one week before AF. But I've also been very sensitive to foods the last few weeks, so might just be that. B00bs are sensitive as normal pre AF too, but I am still hoping. I think I said, but I have quit drinking this month (and I probably drink too much normally) so I think there could be a few changes coming from that too.

    On that note, what are people doing about alcohol while TTC? How much are you drinking/not drinking during your cycle?

    D'ya know I've been thinking about this lately. I know some people will say that you shouldn't drink at all, or have caffeine or whatever, but...I've been at this for a long time and feel like I'm putting my life on hold for no reason. So, I am relaxing. That being said I'm not a big drinker anyway and I do admit to testing before a big night. A few glasses of wine over Sunday dinner isn't going to do any harm, otherwise there wouldn't be any French people.
    Eu não sou uma tartaruga. Eu sou um codigopombo.
  • time2deal
    time2deal Posts: 2,099 Forumite
    codemonkey wrote: »
    D'ya know I've been thinking about this lately. I know some people will say that you shouldn't drink at all, or have caffeine or whatever, but...I've been at this for a long time and feel like I'm putting my life on hold for no reason. So, I am relaxing. That being said I'm not a big drinker anyway and I do admit to testing before a big night. A few glasses of wine over Sunday dinner isn't going to do any harm, otherwise there wouldn't be any French people.

    :rotfl::rotfl: about the French! Very true.

    I don't drink a LOT, but I do have semi regular big nights out. Apart from that it's a few glasses with dinner a few times a week. This month has been a bit of a test to prove it to myself that I can not drink.

    It's funny how people don't like it if you really don't drink. It feels very anti-social not to drink. And of course everyone asks me if I am pregnant...
  • Birdie85
    Birdie85 Posts: 9,330 Forumite
    I still drink. Tried to cut it out but my friendship group tend to do a lot of drinking (we don't have a problem, I swear! ;)) so couldn't really get away with not drinking at all... and TBH I don't want to! If I'm not PG I might as well enjoy myself whilst I still can! We're all going to Bierkeller next week to drink steins of German beer and eat big pretzels, yum! I'll probably get a BFP next Saturday so I have to have soft drinks all night! :p

    Had a fair bit of EWCM this morning so decided to initiate BD just in case I'd got OV wrong but OH panicked and pulled out at the crucial moment so the deposit missed the mark, think he forgets that we're TTC sometimes! Bloody hell! :rotfl:
    Overcome the notion that you must be ordinary. It robs you of the chance to be extraordinary!
    Goal Weight 140lb Starting Weight: 160lb Current Weight 145lb
  • Metranil_Vavin
    Metranil_Vavin Posts: 5,025 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture
    CD2 for me today Q x
    Metranil dreams of becoming a neon,
    You don't even take him seriously,
    How am I going to get to heaven?,
    When I'm just balanced so precariously..
  • atton83
    atton83 Posts: 604 Forumite
    QQ ty for the hug.

    This weekend has been really busy for me yesterday i tiled the bathroom with my oh. Walls were done yesterday and today weve painted them.

    Saw the vicar this morning for our wedding and we got all the hymns taken out of the service. Yes get in.

    Tommorow i have to go to church and then monday i get a new washing machine. Tuesday the bathroom floor is being tiled. Then wed i get to see my maid of honour.

    Few busy week for me.

    I don't know when i start testing for opks as i don't know what cycle length i should go with 24 or 25 help please
    Thank you
  • atton83
    atton83 Posts: 604 Forumite
    I have 3 beers now and then but i never go over 4 beers so i don't go out on a binge anymore cause of my seizures
  • codemonkey
    codemonkey Posts: 6,534 Forumite
    Ugh. Feeling really miserable today, like its never going to happen :(
    Eu não sou uma tartaruga. Eu sou um codigopombo.
  • time2deal
    time2deal Posts: 2,099 Forumite
    edited 29 July 2012 at 12:46PM
    codemonkey wrote: »
    Ugh. Feeling really miserable today, like its never going to happen :(

    Me too. Mild cramps starting, very sore boobs, mild persistent headache, and general irritability... ie. exactly bang on time standard pre-AF symptoms.
  • codemonkey
    codemonkey Posts: 6,534 Forumite
    time2deal wrote: »
    Me too. Mild cramps starting, very sore boobs, mild persistent headache, and general irritability... ie. exactly bang on time standard pre-AF symptoms.

    Hugs. Dont read the mirena and trying thread. Its full of people telling stories of having their coil removed and getting their BFP 2 minutes later ( oh would you look at that? My phone autocorrects BFP to BFN). I feel abnormal.
    Eu não sou uma tartaruga. Eu sou um codigopombo.
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    edited 29 July 2012 at 4:50PM
    Testing list

    Sat 28th July - DefinitelyBlonde
    Mon 30th July - Apple*pie
    Tue 31st July - Time2deal
    Wed 1st Aug - Good Vibes

    July graduates - Winner of June BFP predictions (7) time2deal:T

    msnigella TTC#1 since 04/12 BFP 01/07/12:j
    Findingmyownway TTC#1 since 03/12 BFP 06/07/12:j
    Sequeena TTC#2 since 04/12 (1mc 3 chemicals) BFP 08/07/12:j
    2ba3c (32) TTC#1 since 05/11 (mc twins 1997) BFP 10/07/12:j
    penguin83 (28) TTC#3 since 08/11 BFP 16/07/12:j
    Jen151 (31) TTC #1 since 08/10 BFP 25/07/12:j


    July BFP predictions

    Definitely Blonde - 5
    Leopardlady - 6
    lilymay - 6
    vesper - 7
    RazWaz - 7
    Birdie - 8
    becca - 8
    Quaver - 8
    Tea lover - 8
    good vibes - 8
    onlywayisup - 9
    abis - 9
    mrsj28 - 9
    Time2deal - 10
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