Trying for a Baby Part 7

tea_lover

Sorry, I have loads of questions today!

At my last appt the consultant said the plan was for clomid, so long as the SA results come back ok (that's next week). But now I know I'm ovulating, albeit irregularly, will that actually help? My cycles are still long-ish, but more like 35-40 days now, rather than the 60+ that they have been previously.

I think I'm over-thinking today and should just go with what the drs are telling me to do lol. I just feel like we're wasting time that we don't have to spare. We're already timing BD correctly around ov and nothing's happening, so is clomid going to help there?

TTC40

Glad you are doing OK Kitten, I'm sure there is nothing that will help your anxiety, other than when you hold baby in 3 months. It's totally understandable. x

Stitches removed today. Bit uncomfortable when it was being done, but OK.

Think it's time for me to leave this thread now. I will hang out on the 12m thread (technically I'm there a bit early). I don't think this is the right place for me any more.

I know I will 'see' some of you there too as you are there already. To other ladies, I hope you never get there.

I've learnt loads from this thread & hopefully helped some others along the way too. I wish everyone happiness & a life fulfilled.

lemonmelon_2

Abis that's great news for CD hu1 will be keeping my fingers crossed for your results tomorrow, your pma is great :-)
Lilymay good to see you, glad the helpline was helpful and hopefully the new one will give you lovely positives when its supposed to, I wonder if it has been getting it wrong before?
Teamlowe I'm so glad you're feeling better and I hope the hycosy goes really well and its only a matter of time for you. I remember getting stitches out and was a bit unpleasant so hope yours is better.
Codemonkey that actually sounds really nice, I'm hoping to persuade dh for tonight but we shall see...
Ttc40, I will be really sad to see you go, I have a read of the other thread and I miss all the ladies that have moved over there, I feel a bit in limbo as its been a year for us now but with the mcs I know I don't belong there. Insanely jealous sitting here and watching people get lucky first time. I really hope things work out for you soon

mrsj28

TTC40 wrote: »

Glad you are doing OK Kitten, I'm sure there is nothing that will help your anxiety, other than when you hold baby in 3 months. It's totally understandable. x

Stitches removed today. Bit uncomfortable when it was being done, but OK.

Think it's time for me to leave this thread now. I will hang out on the 12m thread (technically I'm there a bit early). I don't think this is the right place for me any more.

I know I will 'see' some of you there too as you are there already. To other ladies, I hope you never get there.

I've learnt loads from this thread & hopefully helped some others along the way too. I wish everyone happiness & a life fulfilled.

All the best TTC40! Glad to hear the stitches have been taken out ok and hope the rest of the recovery goes well. You'll be missed on this thread!

QQuaver

Testing list

Mon 4th June - msnigella
Wed 6th June - Sequeena


June graduates - Winners of May BFP predictions (8) QQuaver, Time2deal & Tattoo:T

AllyS (34) TTC#3 since 02/12 BFP 03/06/12:j
Countrybum (30) TTC #1 since 10/10 BFP 07/06/12:j
lulu75 (36) TTC#1 since 12/11 BFP 08/06/12:j
oxclairexo (33) TTC#2 since 05/12 BFP 10/06/12:j
tattoo- (29) TTC#1 since 03/12 BFP 17/06/12:j
Maire (27) TTC#1 since 05/10 (mc 09/11)　BFP 19/06/12:j
JoJoB (40) TTC#2 since 12/11 BFP 20/06/12:j

June BFP predictions

time2deal - 7 incl self
tattoo - 8
vesper - 8
lilymay - 9
Birdie - 9
mrsj28 - 9
Definitely Blonde - 9
blacksta - 10 incl self
oxclairexo - 10
tea lover - 10
mogwai - 10
QQuaver - 10
abis12 - 11
maire - 11
Secretdebts - 12
good vibes - 12
rumfeeble - 12

QQuaver

Team Sticky!

CD28 blacksta - 16DPO :cool:
CD30 Lily_The_Legend - 16DPO :cool:
CD30 Loulou123 - 15DPO :cool:
CD28 apple*pie - 14DPO :cool:
CD30 onlywayisup - 11DPO :cool:
CD? RazWaz - 11DPO :cool:
CD26 msnigella - 9DPO :cool:
CD23 mogwai - 9DPO :cool:
CD21 nikolacarter - 9DPO :cool:
CD23 niknok - 9DPO :cool:
CD34 Tea lover - 8DPO :cool:
CD21 COMP - 7DPO :cool:
CD? coops228 - 7DPO :cool:
CD17 Elsie37 - 6DPO :cool:
CD24 vesper - 6DPO :cool:
CD17 time2deal - 5DPO :cool:
CD16 good vibes - 4DPO :cool:
CD26 Secretdebts - 2DPO :cool:
CD11 lilymay - 0DPO :cool:
CD56 2ba3c - High CBFM :cool:

CD83 Penguin 83 - Awaiting ov
CD78 Fannyanna - Awaiting ov
CD61 becca0417 - Awaiting ov
CD54 Sequeena - Awaiting ov
CD53 Primmer* - Awaiting ov
CD52 mssas - Awaiting ov
CD38 claretsgirl - Awaiting ov
CD33 mfwbutneedhelp - Awaiting ov
CD32 Gizmogiz* - Awaiting ov
CD27 Definitely Blonde - Awaiting ov
CD23 Metranil Vavin - Awaiting ov
CD20 TeamLowe - Awaiting ov
CD19 mrsj28 - Awaiting ov
CD19 Flee - Awaiting ov
CD19 i love holidays - Awaiting ov
CD19 scarly* - Awaiting ov
CD19 Birdie85* - Awaiting ov
CD16 MrsHappy - Awaiting ov
CD16 mrs_dave - Awaiting ov
CD14 *BigBird* - Awaiting ov
CD14 lemonmelon - Awaiting ov
CD14 mssas - Awaiting ov
CD13 codemonkey - Awaiting ov
CD13 Squ1rrel5 - Awaiting ov
CD8 tinkwings - Awaiting ov
CD8 Gizmodo - Awaiting ov
CD6 TTC40 - Awaiting ov
CD4 Leopardlady - Awaiting ov
CD4 QQuaver* - Awaiting AF
CD3 Rumfeeble - Awaiting ov
CD3 twigglet35 - Awaiting ov
CD2 Nicki - Awaiting ov
CD1 claire16c - Awaiting ov
CD1 abis - Awaiting ov

Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart

QQuaver

Hello everyone:wave:
Work is stressful at the moment:( I'm trying not to think too deep so not to upset ov:o

TeamLowe, that's an amazing amount of pee one needs to keep for CBFM trial:shocked: I don't think my fridge is big enough:p
findingmyownway, welcome:wave:
If you'd like to be on the first page, let me know your details and I'll pop you in:)
As for low quality swimmers for once a week man, yes, it will be lower quality, but people are known to get pg with even a once a month man so don't worry:p
mrsj28, I don't know when the egg collection will be, it all depends on how my eggs are cooking:o
becca, how are your kidneys?:(
claire16c, massive hugs for AF:(

kitten_pie, hi there:wave:
I might get a mooncup for next month:cool:
lilymay, how does the lines look on CBFM? did the pee end get strong yesterday & today?
abis, Yay for AF!:j
You are recovering!:T
tea lover, FSs doesn't believe in cms so I think you need to get some OPKs:o
Clomid are known to produce better eggs and stronger ov. It can make eggs more attractive to sperms:cool: Also, you may ov early, which is considered better quality eggs:)
TTC40, see you over at the 12months+ thread:wave:
Personally I prefer this thread:o

lilymay1

TTC - I will miss your posts too, But best of luck for the future. Maybe a new thread will bring you some extra luck.

Lemon - I also share your jealousy over people who get it 1st time, but I have learned that life isn't 'fair'. I keep telling myself that I would rather wait 6+ months and have a healthy pregnancy than get pg when my body isn't ready and have to go through another m/c, or worse a stillbirth.

QQ - Nice to see you. My sticks were as follows; CD9 - 1 dark line on the 'missing corner' end. CD10 - 2 lines. The 'missing corner end' darker and the other end visible, but faint. CD11 - exactly the same as CD10. So all in all, not at all what a 'peak' day should look like. My 3 OPK's all have 2 lines, although the 'control' line is hardly visible in any of them.

mrsj28

QQ ((hugs)) for stressful work situation. Hope you can take time to relax, sending good vibes for those eggys!

Thanks, as always, for doing the lists!

Blacksta - any news on your wife? Has she tested?

QQuaver

lilymay1 wrote: »

CD9 - 1 dark line on the 'missing corner' end. LOW
CD10 - 2 lines. The 'missing corner end' darker and the other end visible, but faint. Could be Peak?
CD11 - exactly the same as CD10. Could be Peak?

So all in all, not at all what a 'peak' day should look like. My 3 OPK's all have 2 lines, although the 'control' line is hardly visible in any of them.

The test line was darker than the control line?
That's a +OPK.

mrsj28 wrote: »

Hope you can take time to relax, sending good vibes for those eggys!

Thank you for the eggy vibes:o

As for relaxing, here's three of my relatives (all on my maternal side):

My great grand parents couldn't conceive for years, so they adopted a child. Soon afterwards, they conceived three children, one after the other:D

My aunt and uncle couldn't conceive for about 10 years, but when they finally gave up, and my aunt was in her late 30s, they conceived a daughter:cool:

My mum mc'd her 2nd child, and afterwards couldn't conceive. Went to the doctor and got her tubes flushed (was blocked), but still nothing. Mum's sister lent her son for few days and he was a real handful. So my parents decided they don't want any more kids, then I came along straight afterwards:p

I should just adopt or give up:cool: